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Wrong; you would still have to trust them to be having safe sex with these people. If YOU practice safe sex all the time, what they do doesn't matter. Hello??? U r talking so deep here.. I'm not talking about the SEX.. I am talking about the LOVE nd TRUST including the respect... Anyhow, without the trust difficult to give the Love and the SEX..ok? |
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Don,t sell yourself short. By being a push over and always taking him back you are letting him have his cake and eat it too. Dump the jerk and move on.Its not working for you and never will. Yeah u r right.. I'm trying to move on.. But the question is..,? HOw to trust Again? Is there any man in this world that u can trust to? |
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You should not trust that person again. Yeah u r right! Specially I've given him a chance several times! |
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Trust, Communication, & Appreciation are 3 big things in a relationship. I wouldnt give him another chance, that is his loos & he needs to learn from his mistakes. Only insecurity with ones self would someone EVER put up with that. I know that i wouldnt. If someone is determined to make it work i guess he would have to prove himself that he is worthy of trusting again. Goodluck to you :)
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I have a relationship for 3 yrs during those years I always caught my partner having a text mate,chat mate, and even found out that he is meeting her. During those years I always forgive and accept him till we reached to the point that we fought physically. I love him very much that's why I always forgive him even he always hurt me. But he never saw that. He didn't appreciate. He took me for granted! He is over confident because he knows how much I love him. He is trying to get me back but the problem is, I loss the trust! How to trust again? Trust is very hard to get back, when a guy has done you wrong. Especially, if it's the same guy wanting your trust all over again. Not sure if you will ever be able to trust him, once trust is lost. A new guy could gain more trust from you, as he hasn't had a chance to show you he can't be faithful. As we all know, people put on facades. If he's cheated on you, then I reckon you could be friends with him again, but be in a relationship with him? Slim chance because he sleeps with others. You both physically fight, too, during arguements. That sounds quite volatile and violent at best. You don't want to be with a guy who beats you just because you argue about something. Though, YOU also need to stop hitting HIM in any arguement, too. I actually am a bit surprised that him physically punching you, didn't force you to want to leave him. That it wasn't scary enough for you to decide to pack your bags and run to safety. I'd have left him, if he was some nutter wanting to show physically tough he was. Reminds me of my biological father. Good job my mum got away, and took me with her. Some situations need fleeing from, no matter how much you may love someone. Sometimes the ones closest to us, will hurt us the most, ironic, but I have been there ;) |
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I have a relationship for 3 yrs during those years I always caught my partner having a text mate,chat mate, and even found out that he is meeting her. During those years I always forgive and accept him till we reached to the point that we fought physically. I love him very much that's why I always forgive him even he always hurt me. But he never saw that. He didn't appreciate. He took me for granted! He is over confident because he knows how much I love him. He is trying to get me back but the problem is, I loss the trust! How to trust again? Pardon me for asking, but what exactly is your legal status with your partner? Are you actually married to him? |
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The thing is, if you raise your voice AS MUCH as he does, or if you react AS MUCH as he does, then you both aren't getting anywhere, because neither one of you is backing down. I see it in people arguing all the time. Nobody backs down, or decides to talk about it in a calmer way. Therefore, you can't let yourself be heard in any arguement with him, because you're both too similar in how you argue. Having the same reactions in any arguement, will ensure losing one, as neither of you is approaching it calmer than the other. So, yeah.
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HOnestly trust is earned.
You will never be able to trust him as he has not earned it. He has repeatedly shown you that he is untrustworthy, find someone who will respect you and only want you, there are so many great men out there, dont waist your time on one who wasnt happy with just you. |
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Don,t sell yourself short. By being a push over and always taking him back you are letting him have his cake and eat it too. Dump the jerk and move on.Its not working for you and never will. Yeah u r right.. I'm trying to move on.. But the question is..,? HOw to trust Again? Is there any man in this world that u can trust to? How do you trust again?Well first of all you need to start by trusting yourself first, by realizing you do have the strength to live without him or any man that will treat you that way. yes there are many good men around that you will be able to trust and hopefully you will find him. |
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Edited by
Toodygirl5
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Tue 01/08/13 12:52 PM
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You had a relationship for 3 years, not a real committment.
If you want a man, who will commit to You only, make sure he is through dating other woman first. |
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Edited by
KiK2me
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Tue 01/08/13 01:06 PM
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I have a relationship for 3 yrs during those years I always caught my partner having a text mate,chat mate, and even found out that he is meeting her. During those years I always forgive and accept him till we reached to the point that we fought physically. I love him very much that's why I always forgive him even he always hurt me. But he never saw that. He didn't appreciate. He took me for granted! He is over confident because he knows how much I love him. He is trying to get me back but the problem is, I loss the trust! How to trust again? Well i honestly think you KNOW the real answer to that... 
Best of luck with that ! |
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The thing is, people lie. People cheat. There is nothing that's going to stop them. So, why not just work with the situation? Take responsibility for your own happiness.
If he cheats and you don't know about it it won't have any effect on you at all. So, don't ask. |
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Not everybody lies and cheats. I think its her goal to find the one who doesn,t.
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The thing is, people lie. People cheat. There is nothing that's going to stop them. So, why not just work with the situation? Take responsibility for your own happiness. If he cheats and you don't know about it it won't have any effect on you at all. So, don't ask. "Just ignore the red flashing light." |
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Whoa you are waaaaay cute.
At some point you started to trust him. You have to examine your reasons for doing so. Aside from that, if he cannot see that he's losing your trust and not doing anything about it, I would question his motives irrespective of the way you feel. |
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Trust, Communication, & Appreciation are 3 big things in a relationship. I wouldnt give him another chance, that is his loos & he needs to learn from his mistakes. Only insecurity with ones self would someone EVER put up with that. I know that i wouldnt. If someone is determined to make it work i guess he would have to prove himself that he is worthy of trusting again. Goodluck to you :) Correct! thanks dear... if he wants me to trust him again he should do the effort and prove to me that he is worth to trust... |
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I have a relationship for 3 yrs during those years I always caught my partner having a text mate,chat mate, and even found out that he is meeting her. During those years I always forgive and accept him till we reached to the point that we fought physically. I love him very much that's why I always forgive him even he always hurt me. But he never saw that. He didn't appreciate. He took me for granted! He is over confident because he knows how much I love him. He is trying to get me back but the problem is, I loss the trust! How to trust again? Trust is very hard to get back, when a guy has done you wrong. Especially, if it's the same guy wanting your trust all over again. Not sure if you will ever be able to trust him, once trust is lost. A new guy could gain more trust from you, as he hasn't had a chance to show you he can't be faithful. As we all know, people put on facades. If he's cheated on you, then I reckon you could be friends with him again, but be in a relationship with him? Slim chance because he sleeps with others. You both physically fight, too, during arguements. That sounds quite volatile and violent at best. You don't want to be with a guy who beats you just because you argue about something. Though, YOU also need to stop hitting HIM in any arguement, too. I actually am a bit surprised that him physically punching you, didn't force you to want to leave him. That it wasn't scary enough for you to decide to pack your bags and run to safety. I'd have left him, if he was some nutter wanting to show physically tough he was. Reminds me of my biological father. Good job my mum got away, and took me with her. Some situations need fleeing from, no matter how much you may love someone. Sometimes the ones closest to us, will hurt us the most, ironic, but I have been there ;) you are right... that is the most hurting me..to know the guy who love you but he beats you! its ok what i need to do now is to be strong..i should give him a chance again..to be in safe to be in peaceful life... 
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HOnestly trust is earned. You will never be able to trust him as he has not earned it. He has repeatedly shown you that he is untrustworthy, find someone who will respect you and only want you, there are so many great men out there, dont waist your time on one who wasnt happy with just you. Yeah there are so many men out there,,, but i hope there are still men that we can trust to.. |
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HOnestly trust is earned. You will never be able to trust him as he has not earned it. He has repeatedly shown you that he is untrustworthy, find someone who will respect you and only want you, there are so many great men out there, dont waist your time on one who wasnt happy with just you. 
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The thing is, people lie. People cheat. There is nothing that's going to stop them. So, why not just work with the situation? Take responsibility for your own happiness. If he cheats and you don't know about it it won't have any effect on you at all. So, don't ask. Sorry ha..if you believed people lies people cheat..then probably u r one of them.. |
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