In your search for this,What is the strength or weakness you look for in a Man?

Bold and confident; a man that speaks up and has an opinion of his own but willing to compromise with a lady. He is a one woman man and has a very romantic side.

a weakness for me, of course!

strength of character and well chosen words

is that so you can tell him to get it himself???

(j/k)

I like all your replies,and i hope this happens in 2013 for all! please keep the responses coming,as soon as i know more about (All)of you the better i may fit in on this site!!

Biggest weakness I see in men is their fear on an independent woman. This scares them away from me. Guess I have met a lot of weak men.

His strength will have to be dealing with me...
his weakness would have to be giving me what I want

May I have your order please?

Haha.... great start Toxic! Lol

The independent woman is ok in my book,and the right to maintain your own identity is what everyone needs to do!If i need to change who i am in any relationship to be what they want-i loose my own identity.I will bend a little to please a lady and to see her smile always!

For women, they have to pick better men; and men have to be better men.

I know men and women that have very little standards but they want high standards for who they date. Many are dating multiple people behind their backs, or are cheaters but they want an honest, respectful person.

People say they want one thing but they go for another. The hot celeb guy throwing hundreds around will have 50 women around him.

The big chested young girl with a skirt 2 sizes too small will always have a hoard of horny guys around them.

Fewer and fewer people are into class, manners, and a respectful person.

100%Correct-
Here's a bet-How many on here really read a person's Complete profile and look at how they finish a sentence?Example ". ? !"I do,and I am not letting All know How much i have in Money Property,Or Value!I come on here as a 57 year old Man living in a Bus i've converted into an R V ?That doesn't mean i don't have more to offer the right Woman,I'm only offering myself in a relationship!!Go Figured Why!!

I read most profiles but if they keep going on and on I lose interest

Most don't get past the pictures on here before they loose interest!Others don't care as long as $ are there!Me i want the Heart that's within!And Everyone just starting on here have already been through the Scammers!!!"Here today,gone tomorrow"! And"One"will do me just fine!!

The $$ seems to be an obsesstion in u r post between men and women

Strengths would be;
Someone at peace with themself. I think calm and watchful but not paranoid every female is out to climb in his assets is nice. I don't do tests or carry what the last contender did into the next match. Someone who might have been close to the fire but not burned; defintely over what they might have failed at. Or who might have failed them. Someone who is always looking for a hustle or thinks they are going to get hustled a gain is just too much work to deal with.

Someone who sees me as a team member not the water boy or the coach (that is my job not my personal life) but someone who has their six and actually likes playing the whole season of life with the same mate. I wouldn't be in a relationship that is always a competion. Someone who sees a relationship as a compliment to their life; not a burden.

Someone who can ease up on me with the confidence that what they have done with their life speaks for itself. Age approriate accomplishments but not looking for a rockstar. Probably more impressed with someone who stayed affloat in a storm than someone who never got wet. Someone that doesn't have to thump their chest everytime someone that could be competion is around is a real strength to me.

For me having a family would be a strength since mind has been the majority of my life and career is great but not the main perspective. All "things" depreciate but true mates appreciate.

Not only having a seperate identity is good but being ok with it would be a even bigger strength. Someone who sees themself as ok as is even sucessful, masterful, and happy is comfortable to be around. Wheather they are making it as a can recycler or CEO of a fortune five hundred have some pride and don't spend your life apologizeing because you did not live up to external expectations of your potential. Myrters are not a lot of fun to live with but someone that says hey this is me and I am ok is kind of cool.

Someone who is generous is a strength. I don't care if you have three beans or three BMW's; if you have one, can even keep one for reserve for a rainey day, but let the third one go as just grace, gratitide, and good Karma. I like someone who doesn't mind giving up the shirt off their back once in a while, and I sure don't see that my doing so every once in awhile has set me back or made me a fool.

Someone who enjoys sex but has not gotten addicted to it or obseesed by it's abscence is a strength. The confidence that their (in my case) manhood is NOT yucky, or gross, or inferiour and is going to be satisfied in the right place and time of our mutual chooseing is really more inviting than desperate, demanding, begging, or constantly trying to settle for cheap imitations until they find the one that really wants to be with them. I don't want some guy that has passed himself around like a bowl of bar peanuts but I sure would like to find someone to nibble on that kept the firewood in reserve for me.

Natural humor would be a big strength. Not some forced or cheezy stuff but maybe some happy maybe even a little goofy sillyness once in a while. Life is just sometimes embarrassing, choatic, messy, even unpredictable so having the ability to laugh rather than cry at situations or even look for humor is kind of the iceing on the cake. Grins and giggles are infectious and so sweet.

Weaknesses ? Oh gheez. I suppose the chronic whiner, or stuck in the anger or helpless stage would pretty much cook it for me. Someone who makes everything a race between them and whoever would not even make it to the table. Center of the universe people I outgrew in Kindergarten. People who keep bullying or just draining others and want to make it out they are the victim would be a serious weakness. People who have to playout the same miseries in their child hood on their kids are particularly lame weaknesses to me. Grown adults useing failed parents or Ex's as an excuse for more decades into their current life are a major weakness for me.

Yes it was,In the last time i believed!That was a 1 year relationship, 3 month marriage,$20,000 lesson and 2 years settling the Divorce!But again "school of hard knocks"I hold no grudge~"except my own stupidity."But that's another story!She got what she deserved.My only regret was she and her Mother,Step Father,and niece was involved in an embessilment case in New Market Va.All faceing Felony charges yet!Another old saying what comes around goes around

I guess the cat got everyone's tounge after my last post?Isn't karma a *****?

Someone capable of loving.

Who can laugh at my mistakes

Make me smile

and put up with me

lol no I havn't been online. sorry you went through that