Nope, some of us have to go to work and have other activities in our lives; so answering posts isn't quite a top priority.

Well, I'm not in search of a relationship so I don't worry about it much. If the right guy comes along and he doesn't live a zillion miles away and he's interested in dating me, then I'll worry about it.

I doubt it. These forums tend to move along pretty slowly these days. People are just not online all the time.

Nope, some of us have to go to work and have other activities in our lives; so answering posts isn't quite a top priority.
Yes I work also, 5 days a week.I check in here daily to look for activity about 3am my time.

And as for Money $,That has never been my Top Priority.As long as the bills are paid,a roof over my head,food in the house that's all i need as should anyone.Savings are what a couple Should worry about,You know Retiring,that's also what i'm working on and have been for some time."I never have kept my eggs in one basket when in any relationship These days you don't know who to trust,but i still try!!

Yes I work also, 5 days a week.I check in here daily to look for activity about 3am my time.


I also said "other activities". I play in a band, teach another band, teach kids leadership, and also work on renos; fixing my trailer, sewing costumes;as well as spending time with my friends. Work just gets in the way of all the other stuff I would rather be doing.

Looks liking you may need to start making (you time)navygirl.I used to be a workaholic also.But i started having some health issues and learned how to ease up a little.My health issues left and now i just learn to relax a little!!

I wouldn't want to be with a man who seemed "married" to his money or so-called status or position in life..Or a man who was "married" to his ego or muscles or material "stuff!"..It's dangerous to get involved with a man who hasn't "made peace" with his past. (And taken time out to process his old anger and hurts and wounds and grief from all "sides.") This is how I feel anyway...I'd be looking for someone who seemed "free and clear" and happy and "at peace."..This was the state my husband was in when we met. He had worked through his old issues from his first marriage and "owned-up" to the mistakes he felt he made too..I did a lot of work to "heal" from my past (too) so I wasn't walking around "mad" either..We were happy by ourselves and ready to be happy together.

Yeah;; you aren't the first person to tell me to make some me time.

Navygirl) I was military also,Army To me you are like silk,but such a fine thread is strong but can still break.Live a little for(Yourself)!!I'm 58 this Year and on NO MEDICATION,other than B C or Goodies for headaches once in awhile,Lifes too short"Live-a Little"!!Best of Luck and Love to you!!!And Everyone else too!! Here's to Everyone!!

I know what you are saying but unfortunately; it costs money to take a break or have fun. Nothing is free these days. I also live up to m responsibilities and I made a promise to help train my cadets. I can't just turn my back on them and say "I need time for me". That isn't fair to 9 year old kids.

Weakness would be, he is lacking in knowing how to treat a lady! He has No gentleman qualities.

A cat? Where?

I usually see qualities in others that they don't notice about themselves.. when I notice these things, I point them out.. as for myself, I'm my worse critic and it usually makes me pull away from what I really want to go after.. :-)

loving, caring, communication, to be there for each other and when apart be able to feel the love and emotions in his words or hear them on the phone, it's always nice to hear even when you know it. :) have a great evening :)

These are the greatest qualities all people should have "too bad most don't use them"This will probably be a #1 answer also in my search:And i am also glad some people use these principles in their search for a mate!!And thank all of you for presipating in this search with me!Keep them coming PLEASE Too bad people in my area won't join in?

Is it ok to make a strength or search for a woman?

i aint found that person yet

The only thing i look for in a woman is "Honesty"-and you really can't tell on here untill you 1.message awhile.
2.meet with them.
3.Go on a few dates.
4.Pray for a miracle to happen! I've found out on here also if you message with a friends first request they answer back-or deleted their profile!This has happened numerous times to me and all they want is my email address!!