now now children... bee nice...

Hi boredchick!

Hi Bored

Hey FindMe - how are you lovely?

ROOOOOOOOOOOOSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!

How the hell are ya???

In 2001 when I was FORCED to become exposed to online dating; Desperate and panting, I went on a few PAID dating sites.

Then, (maybe they STILL do)they had paid professional psycholigists or experts, giving ADVICE to all on: "If you want to succeed." Wishing you luck.

They had some proffessional questions too. a long long list.

One of their MAIN advice section was: Put a pic of yourself. The pic must be clear. NOT FUZZY. If you can't do it, they will do it for you. If you can't take out a good picture yourself, go to a professional studio; for it is like your life is depending on it.
The pic must be of you by yourself.
At least one pic must be of the WHOLE you (as some do here.)and you must be smiling or laughing.

Other advice was like: Be polite. Reply to all messages. Be polite.

If you don't have time to chat tell them you will get back to them.

When you reply ask a question.

Ask a question in your tale about yourself.

Be truthful.

Be friendly. Message people if you are not getting enough people messaging you; especially when you now start.

Do not insult anyone. They are ALREADY HEARTBROKEN THAT'S WHY THEY ARE HERE.

I am now wondering if all this advice is or was GOOD advice or if I should go ahead and display a pic of a false teeth or something. That will show how deep and thoughtful I am. Not superficial.
Bright and deep thinking people will recognize this and pursue me to breed them so that a perfect race will be imposed.
SHOULD I NOT???

This is getting ridiculous

forced? someone held a gun to your head and made you negotiate the dating sites?

and if your life is depending on your picture...on you finding a mate...then you aren't in a position to BE finding a mate. in order to be truly happy in any relationship, you need to be whole.

i'm not replying to everyone. sorry, i don't have that kind of time. i write back to my friends...when i can. we aren't chained to the computer, you know.

if you are heartbroken, you need to heal. period. no getting in new relationships...that's not fair to anyone whom you might meet.

Wow!!!


And here I thought Women were the only mellow dramatic drama queens....




thanks for proving me wrong grieving.

ha! is that like...being all laid back...in a dramatic way?

I am beginning to think that someone is really out of touch of reality. Nothing anyone will say will get through!

Oh well....................At least we all tried!

OOOOKAAAAYYY...Are you happy now???

Kat

Dead horse, anyone?

I'm just being funny. I haven't been here all day. (whine)
Kat

i was, too.

i know perfectly well what melodramatic means.

OMG, here I had wrote this long post going over what all Alexiateigra had went over hummmmmmmm huhhhhhhhhh all I can say now is Alexiateigra I agree with you not on all of it but most lol

But I do want to clarify this: lol

Now as far do I do it for others to accept me truth of the matter I really could not care a flying F*** if anyone likes me or not I’m who I am. I will be honest with anyone and only expect the same. Will I rock the boat if necessary heck ya I will. I will not say things to others just because I think that is what they want to hear. With me what you see is what there is yeah there is a much deeper person within but only those that truly want to see that will. I will not sugar coat things to make someone like me either they do or they don’t but I do value my friends with the highest regards.

OMG.. did you call me..???
FUZZY FACE>???? lmao.. you must be talking bout MURPH~~~~~~~~~~
this is unreal.. this is also a
FREE SITE we aint forced to do NUTTIN........
just be friends ;P
smokin we be smokin..
bigbay
aka fuzzy dog

Quake3 So I have proved you wrong. So you are now CONFESSING that YOU are a drama Queen? Ok.
I thought that you were one one of the stooges that pursue women to tell them lies like they are right when they are wrong in the hope that they will like you and offer to pay you a salary by the month or beg you to breed them.
Just now you might confess that you are both. You are a Corporal. You have 2 stripes. You getting fast promotion? Ok

Well I tell them the truth. And some sleep in the back seat of the class and wake up on one word like "forced." they aint see or hear none of the other words and what Proffessional psychologists on existing Datings Sites say. They are showing what kind of wife they are or will be. Do not tell them anything They always right. And they deal with other than the issue.
I am sorry that I am not intelligent enough to lie to them.

darlin', he called YOU the drama queen.

i've lived with professional psychologists my entire life...as well as having minored in it, myself.

i answered that one post in its entirety...not just the one word.

Greiving as much as you would like to believe it Women are not a commodity that can be bought and sold when they don't fit our purposes any more I see Guys like You everyday single and bitter carrying a chip on their shoulder because some Woman did them wrong do Me yourself and the woman on this site a favour and grow the fuyck up.

Give it a break man. No one here is lieing. If someone talks for awhile and becomes close enough to talk via web cam, that is when they will see the who they are. No one here is trying to spoof anyone. I believe we all have bodies, at least partially.
Kat

Quake3, just remember what I posted just a little while ago. We are dealing w/ someone who is out of touch w/ reality.

Txgal, that is what is nice about these forums. It does bring about discussion & that is how we learn about others.

bigbayhrrider, you are quite funny! I still think that your four legged friend, murphy (?), was a cute dog! He was quite obviously very special.