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Topic: Long distance relationships
jayzpc Joined Mon 11/19/12 Posts: 33	Sun 12/16/12 06:12 PM
@soufiehere Hats off to you alot of people as you can see disagree. I never thought of all those costs it could bring .. wouldn't do it with my cell carrier. So far these are the result .... anyone else have good or bad experiences?

Gossipmpm Joined Tue 03/03/09 Posts: 19414	Sun 12/16/12 06:19 PM
ok just relax and let tammy begin...... Experience 1; He misrepresented himself...he was trying to be a control person...and he picked TAMMY!... joke was soooo on him=bad Experience 2; He was a wonderful...funny....big ole butterball...It was my fault=good so ya see kiddies....just in time for Xmas.... It can go either way......

ArtGurl Joined Sun 04/08/07 Posts: 17722	Tue 12/18/12 10:38 PM
I've been in a couple of long distance relationships. It was harder when we were in different countries. In the end, it was a lot of investment for little return. I would entertain the notion of one again but would want to be close enough to physically be together at least monthly...preferably someone in the same country within an eight hour drive. LDRs can work if both people are honest and working together. If they are not, it is a heartache waiting to happen.

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Wed 12/19/12 03:20 AM
I have had 4 serious relationships in my life, The first 3 lived with me and I honestly felt more alone than I have ever felt with my Husband now living 20,000 ks away. We still share our lives, our thoughts and dreams. We make time for each other to talk and skype as often as possible. and we visit whenever we can. Long distance relationships are painful, but at the same time they can be wonderful, its not what I would have chosen if I had a choice, but I surely wouldnt swap it. Trust is the ultimate thing, if either has any doubts or any reason to doubt it can never work.

sonnyyy Joined Tue 04/24/12 Posts: 62	Wed 12/19/12 04:42 PM
Long distance relationships suck, period, by the time i got to her place the viagra had wore off.

jamesphillips91 Joined Sun 12/09/12 Posts: 26	Wed 12/19/12 08:28 PM
It can work sometimes. Money is a factor of course.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Wed 12/19/12 09:38 PM
Well, I have to say I prefer the long distance. For 2 years we talked 7 times a day on the phone, he flew half a continent twice to visit for a week+ each time. He moved to me in August of this year. Could not have worked any better :-) For me the distance was a barometer of the intensity of the connection, it tells you a lot that someone is willing to wait, just for you, and do whatever it takes to make it work. We were both willing to move to the other, that helped. I have to highly recommend the long-distance relationship :-) The point you stressed was communication. It works. Rather can work. Caring and communication work a long way if two people really want it. This is a rare example so its not out of the cards. Not too many open-minded people out there like this. Just sayin.

gentleman771 Joined Tue 12/18/12 Posts: 15	Thu 12/20/12 01:25 AM
i dont want green card. but i want true love, i haven't found my gf yet, after finding my gf , i will answer this . ok friends? because now i dont know about spouse cheating me.

Muaness Joined Mon 11/05/12 Posts: 2993	Thu 12/20/12 02:11 AM
Long distance relationships suck, period, by the time i got to her place the viagra had wore off. It's a pity indeed

notsoincognito Joined Fri 11/30/12 Posts: 178	Thu 12/20/12 04:37 AM
Long distance relationships suck, period, by the time i got to her place the viagra had wore off. thats funny

jayzpc Joined Mon 11/19/12 Posts: 33	Fri 01/04/13 05:40 PM
Haha love the comments. Im thinking LDR can work if you are willing to take your time and invest a bit. Side note take viagra when you get close. Driving can be a pain.

jayzpc Joined Mon 11/19/12 Posts: 33	Fri 01/04/13 05:41 PM
Haha love the comments. Im thinking LDR can work if you are willing to take your time and invest a bit. Side note take viagra when you get close. Driving can be a pain.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Fri 01/04/13 05:49 PM
If I feel like I want to get intimate with him, then I'd much rather he be a few roads away from me, and not like 5000 miles away. Cos the last thing you want in the throws of hornyness, is something cock-blocking you.

Rawrr_Girl Joined Sun 10/04/09 Posts: 4431	Fri 01/04/13 05:54 PM
Long distance relationships suck, period, by the time i got to her place the viagra had wore off. . I can see how frustrating that would feel. Okay, I'd better shut up now. I've said enough on a certain subject for one night. Guess which one ;)

MzMariah Joined Wed 09/21/11 Posts: 90	Fri 01/04/13 06:41 PM
Sorry if you are talking to people who live in a "poorer" nation and you live in a more "prosperous" nation it IS about the greencard. As far as within the same culture.. it's doable but it takes a lot of commitment and clear communication of expectations.

Mirage4279 Joined Sat 09/04/10 Posts: 2466	Fri 01/04/13 07:25 PM
Long distance relationships suck, period, by the time i got to her place the viagra had wore off. . I can see how frustrating that would feel. Okay, I'd better shut up now. I've said enough on a certain subject for one night. Guess which one ;) What is "Well Wishes"??? No No No What is "New Comers Welcome Area"????