I have dated a lot if girls.. But i failed to understand them.. I dont know wat are they thinkin wen.. 1 moment they are so hapy.. N d next boom widout any reson.. I dont understand wen they are sayin yes and wen a no..si confusing species.... Sometimes i think of being gay.. Bt the.. Ahh.no..! Girls..difficult to live with them.. Equally difficult to live widout them..

Why do you want to? You are only asking to play ludo for a night in your profile?!

They say the same about us.

That is the beauty relationships. Instead of tryin to understand them ,just appreciate them . When u remain constant and be nice whatever their moods, they wil come around.

basically, if she is changing her mind about you, the relationship, etc....then she is bored with you. It's the same with guys. People who are happy together stay together. Is that simple.

Bored maybe... Men & women have diffrent needs, if those needs are not being met then one or the other will look else where. Relationships take time... spose it depends on 'how much time' one is willing to put into a relationship.
"People who are happy together stay together" Agree

Amen to this!

According to your profile, you are only 21. So, your difficulty with women may pertain to maturity.

Not sure Age has anything to do with maturity.

I would guess its the type of women you are getting involved with. Try someone with a personality of her own rather than a mish mash of what she thinks she should act like based on Movies and Tv.

If shes saying one thing and meaning another it means shes not comfortable being honest with you, an shes likely testing you to give herself an excuse to leave you without feeling like the bad guy because you didnt do anything wrong.

Stop meeting girls in clubs, start making friends with girls and find one your compatible with, even if shes not drop dead in a mini skirt.

if they feel you are pressuring them sexually you will get that reaction you describe of happy to instant cranky

most girls want you to have a genuine interest in them as people - which BTW - they are

Stop dating girls and start dating women. They're still a pain sometimes, but not nearly so much as girls.

The reason women get so bored is because the majority of men are boring. Testosterone is by far the worst thing to happen to men since Justin Timberlake.

Shux...you only need to understand one, and not all of them.

You'll never understand women because most of the things they trouble themselves about are, too most men, irrelevant. We (men) simple don't care about a lot of the things women find important. Women of course, want us to be just as interested in these things as they are, but we just don't get it. We just don't care which shade of beige she wants to paint the walls and we never will.

True, women are difficult to understand by men and men are difficult to understand by women, it is a two way thing.

You poor boy, you're still very young and have a long way to go. The best book I've ever read on the differences between men and women is "MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS". You should read it if you'd like answers on certain questions you have about women. It truly applies to everyone. It explains the differences in how both men and women think, act and react to each other and in different situations. The biggest mistake in relationships both men and women have made throughout history, is trying to change their partner to think, feel and act the way they do. Just not possible. We have different hormones and our brains just don't work the same way and our brains are not wired to feel and respond in the same way. Men are more visual and physical whereas women are more emotional and sentimental and that's why we have different needs at times. However, even though we all have basic animal instincts, we are human, which sets us apart from animals. And that's where compromise, compassion and unconditional love comes in. We have, or should have the ability to set our own needs aside (sometimes) to make our partner happy. Of course, this requires effort on both sides. Unfortunately, very often, there's always one that compromises and gives more than the other and that's why there are so many breakups and divorces...etc.