why are people so hung up on looks if we weir all blind relastionships would last longer cause we would realy know the ones we love inside just remember you could be giving up true love for something beautiful that will only leave you broken hearted

thats so true and has got me thinkin...if we couldnt see everyone to pick and choose...

would we be less predjudice?

If we could only feel would we distinguish between ugly and pretty??


wow!!!


I love this post

now im thimking!!!!

Do you really expect me to believe that you have never based a decision about a man on that man's outward appearance?

People?...I don't think most people are hung up on looks..Since there is no denying chemistry and physical attraction, looks can be a starting point...They do not, however, make or break a relationship...That usually starts the minute people open their mouths ....You sound as if you believe beautiful people are not capable of giving love or getting hurt....In a reverse kind of way you are doing exactly what you are complaining about, you are judging people based on their looks....Join in the forums, it's a great way to get to know the person behind the picture....

Oh I don,t think I agree with this too much. I have dated a lot of really good looking men who were jerks and a lot of ugly men who were jerks too.
LOOKs haven,t got a thing to do with how long a realtionship will last.
Also I am curious , would you meet somebody on here that had no photo and refused to give you one?

I don't agree with this either...It seems to me at times those that feel this way tend to go for those that do not feel the same way as they do...Therefore does it not put them in fact in the same catorgory?

Honestly I'm sorry if they do not appeal to me to the eye as well as their personality then it will not go too far..

I'm not talking about all looks they have to least be pleasing to the eye but their personalitly will enchance all...

I have met guys that was good looking and they opened their mouth and I totally forgot about their looks and it goes the same the other way around...


But if one does not have some of the quality's one is looking for in each area it is hard to get past the first meet.

It might be good looks that draws you to someone, but if there is little conversation or mutual interests it will not last long in my opinion.

that is very true love :)

I feel shiverring in joy when i think dt i might get to date 'singmesweet' or 'leigh' if all were blind. Bt... Hmmm.. Ahem hrrm.. What abt my voice? *thinkin* what if all were deef? Yeey!
Oh,bt i have bad breath, may be halitosis n my skin is so rough.. Why nt all deef,dumb,blind,...

Give me a break. I can't be more heartless. But beauty is a quality in itself.. And people r treated the way they let themselves to be..

I m an ahole of a man to chatwith n 'singmesweet' took advantage.. CrY

I prescribe H G Wells, 'the country of the blind' .

Srry i cant give away my eyes for a true love. I ud better like to take a close look at the breasts of dt new woman i saw waiting for customers today!

And when one dates a goodlooking person, at least one gets to enjoy something even if he/she is a mess/retard/creep/...

You're not making much sense again.

i know a troll when i see one.

do u think i should keep a mirror handy?
Sorry for any embarrassments caused due to my incoherence here :p

i am happy to note the heart thats hiding behind the blush-wagon. I ud call it a Fruitful Trollification!

Sorry been there done that; and being blind a couple times for and extended periods (years), does NOT change your perception of other people over all.

That "stuff" about the other senses being more important or better is just that.

I do find myself being attracted to certain body traits simply because I a can see them only either. If a guy does not feel good, smell good, walk good, dance good, (I think that may be walks/dances well) then he is not going to get my moter running no matter how he looks. And personality is going to trump it ALL.

I am sorry I don't get what your tripping about on looks because you are cute as a bug. I don't know who did a hatchet job on you about your looks but they are/were full of it so that dog don't hunt.

That's not totally true because people still use their hands a lot so being blind wont help anyone. Size matters in a lot of different meanings and this is not a put down, I just don't think your statement makes too much sense. It might help if you have freckles but rolls and layers are something else. No offense to you or anyone, just making a statement, that people will always have preferences and the sense of touch is as sensual as the sense of sight.