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Topic: why
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Mon 11/05/12 04:31 PM
Edited by 42BlackBBW on Mon 11/05/12 04:33 PM
IMO, on dating sites some people start with the lowest common denominator...the visuals..before looking beneath the surface. The worthwhile ones continue looking beneath the surface whereby their definition of 'over-weight' isn't 'unwanted'.

The most important thing about self esteem is in the first four letters.

Toodygirl5's photo
Wed 11/07/12 07:18 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Wed 11/07/12 07:22 PM
Looks are very important to men especially on a date site. I have been asked for photos. Even though I always post One just so I can get a response. On here, I have been asked for more photos and I am New here. Men are very visual. :angry: Not saying women are not, maybe some are, but I am not one of them. I will talk to a unattractive man, if he is nice and has a heart of gold. :heart:
Now, I don't want a real Ugly man either with a big stomache.

markc48's photo
Wed 11/07/12 07:34 PM

i know a troll when i see one.
Isn't that a picture of the Dark Knight shooter?

pennyg281's photo
Wed 11/07/12 07:37 PM

why are people so hung up on looks if we weir all blind relationships would last longer cause we would realy know the ones we love inside just remember you could be giving up true love for something beautiful that will only leave you broken hearted




Being blind isn't gonna change anything. People have know what they like and are attracted to. You can't start a fire with out a spark. I'm a very big girl and to be honest what I've learned is that it was my view of myself that chased guys away not my size. Once I learned to love myself for who I am It changed the way guys saw me.flowerforyou

wux's photo
Wed 11/07/12 08:25 PM
As a hypothetical idea, I am all the way behind the OP's suggestion. Very good idea, or almost a very good idea.

I need to add one increcibly important feature. I'd leave everyone blind, as proposed, but I would be exempt.

That way I could laugh on demand. I could just look out the window and see all you goons bump into walls, each other, and horses and dogs.

And when I felt like some company to entertain me, I would go out, pick a good un easily, bring her home and have her have her way with me. Any style she likes.

Because I like stylish women...

SimplicityAtItsBest's photo
Wed 11/07/12 08:26 PM
Edited by SimplicityAtItsBest on Wed 11/07/12 09:26 PM
Anyone and everyone is capable of breaking hearts.
Being 'beautiful' or fugly does not making a person more or less likely to do so.
There are morons in the world that pick and choose based on looks.
Oh well...


wux's photo
Wed 11/07/12 08:26 PM

IMO, on dating sites some people start with the lowest common denominator...the visuals..before looking beneath the surface. The worthwhile ones continue looking beneath the surface whereby their definition of 'over-weight' isn't 'unwanted'.

The most important thing about self esteem is in the first four letters.


A, B, C, and D.

Of course!! (Slaps forehead.) How was I able to stay so stupid for so long.

wux's photo
Wed 11/07/12 08:28 PM

Looks are very important to men especially on a date site. I have been asked for photos. Even though I always post One just so I can get a response. On here, I have been asked for more photos and I am New here. Men are very visual. :angry: Not saying women are not, maybe some are, but I am not one of them. I will talk to a unattractive man, if he is nice and has a heart of gold. :heart:
Now, I don't want a real Ugly man either with a big stomache.


(Hee, hee! I am named individually, like pigs in the old testament!! All other forbidden food stuffs are circumdescribed only.)

wux's photo
Wed 11/07/12 08:31 PM


why are people so hung up on looks if we weir all blind relationships would last longer cause we would realy know the ones we love inside just remember you could be giving up true love for something beautiful that will only leave you broken hearted




Being blind isn't gonna change anything. People have know what they like and are attracted to. You can't start a fire with out a spark. I'm a very big girl and to be honest what I've learned is that it was my view of myself that chased guys away not my size. Once I learned to love myself for who I am It changed the way guys saw me.flowerforyou


... but you no longer needed the guys, since you had all the love by then that you needed and wanted.

Stupid guys... now they have to look elsewhere. Serves them right.

Mended1's photo
Thu 11/08/12 02:39 AM
very true, same thing with looking down at a particular race cause lots of scam coming from them.

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