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I think some people get involved because the sex is so good. Sure. There is a connection, an attraction....something exists to make two people stay together. But good sex can and does keep people together even when it probably shouldn't. This can only be true for a little while, because self realization will eventually say, I'm better than this, and being used is no fun. Using someone is no fun either. Of course self realization comes in. That's why these relationships don't work. Two people can only tolerate communication breakdown for so long. Good sex is like crack. Drug addicts can hit crack and all of a sudden life is good. But when reality hits, crack only masks their true drug addiction. Sex works like that for a relationship that is fractured. Good sex makes you want to stay, and the "high" of good sex keeps you there cause it feels so good. But when reality sits in, you know the relationship is fractured and it's time to move on. True. But it sure can make one grumpy for a while, having to let it go! |
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I think some people get involved because the sex is so good. Sure. There is a connection, an attraction....something exists to make two people stay together. But good sex can and does keep people together even when it probably shouldn't. This can only be true for a little while, because self realization will eventually say, I'm better than this, and being used is no fun. Using someone is no fun either. Of course self realization comes in. That's why these relationships don't work. Two people can only tolerate communication breakdown for so long. Good sex is like crack. Drug addicts can hit crack and all of a sudden life is good. But when reality hits, crack only masks their true drug addiction. Sex works like that for a relationship that is fractured. Good sex makes you want to stay, and the "high" of good sex keeps you there cause it feels so good. But when reality sits in, you know the relationship is fractured and it's time to move on. True. But it sure can make one grumpy for a while, having to let it go! So how do you let go, or move on? |
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I think some people get involved because the sex is so good. Sure. There is a connection, an attraction....something exists to make two people stay together. But good sex can and does keep people together even when it probably shouldn't. This can only be true for a little while, because self realization will eventually say, I'm better than this, and being used is no fun. Using someone is no fun either. Of course self realization comes in. That's why these relationships don't work. Two people can only tolerate communication breakdown for so long. Good sex is like crack. Drug addicts can hit crack and all of a sudden life is good. But when reality hits, crack only masks their true drug addiction. Sex works like that for a relationship that is fractured. Good sex makes you want to stay, and the "high" of good sex keeps you there cause it feels so good. But when reality sits in, you know the relationship is fractured and it's time to move on. So basically you just confirmed what we were saying. Only took ya this long to finally get it. 
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I don't think you can have crazy good sex without some sort of compatibility with one another as far as attraction, personality type and body size. There are a lot of factors that contribute to "good sex" I don't believe there is a person you can not stand but then say, oh but the sex is soooo good. I don't believe that. It's called hate sex or angry sex and it's pretty common. It's not making love. It's not having sex. It's pure, animal lust. It's back scratching, neck biting, hair pulling FCKNG! It rocks your world and it's awesome. |
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Yep, good sex and I'll put up with a lot. At least for a while. Yeah...men say this until they meet me.  I don't think you can have crazy good sex without some sort of compatibility with one another as far as attraction, personality type and body size. There are a lot of factors that contribute to "good sex" I don't believe there is a person you can not stand but then say, oh but the sex is soooo good. I don't believe that. This is true. Thank goodness I have all the above stated. Haha, this is why I don't support angry makeup sex. Most marriages and long terms are based in this. How does one have "good" sex with an evil person at heart. No, no no. Good sex comes with a big factor: listening. Something most men are so naturally good at.  Im sorry, What did you say? |
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You meet someone. It's all great. Good times, both of ya getting along very well, and all signs point to a relationship that looks (and feels) healthy. Few months go by, and then the reality hits. They are getting on your nerves. You aren't happy with them like you were. Perhaps you two didn't have as much in common as you first thought. But man, oh man alive! The Sex!!!! The sex is so damn good. And it is the sex that keeps you around. I got to wondering. We all know a relationship can't exist if it is just a physical thing. But why do we put ourselves though it? Are some of us that arrogant to think that we can make a sexual relationship work? What say you? I've been in relationships with lousy sex. I've had great sex with no relationship. I've decided you have to have both the emotional and physical mix just right and I want it all... |
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You meet someone. It's all great. Good times, both of ya getting along very well, and all signs point to a relationship that looks (and feels) healthy. Few months go by, and then the reality hits. They are getting on your nerves. You aren't happy with them like you were. Perhaps you two didn't have as much in common as you first thought. But man, oh man alive! The Sex!!!! The sex is so damn good. And it is the sex that keeps you around. I got to wondering. We all know a relationship can't exist if it is just a physical thing. But why do we put ourselves though it? Are some of us that arrogant to think that we can make a sexual relationship work? What say you? I tend to link emotion with physical content. Kinda like " If it looks good, smells good, and tastes good it must be good." 
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You all are putting way too much thought into this. It is one of the few circumstances that requires less thought. Sex is a base need, everyone wants it whether you admit it or not. Bad sex is better than no sex, good sex is great, and great sex is hard to find.
It's like the devil you know, sure the relationship sucks, and you hate this person, but you'd still rather be getting some than not getting any, so you stick around. The better the sex, the more crap you put up with, until you reach the tipping point. If the sex is good enough, you'll still put your finger on the other side of the scale when it starts to tip. Animal instinct, we only think we're evolved. |
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You all are putting way too much thought into this. It is one of the few circumstances that requires less thought. Sex is a base need, everyone wants it whether you admit it or not. Bad sex is better than no sex, good sex is great, and great sex is hard to find. It's like the devil you know, sure the relationship sucks, and you hate this person, but you'd still rather be getting some than not getting any, so you stick around. The better the sex, the more crap you put up with, until you reach the tipping point. If the sex is good enough, you'll still put your finger on the other side of the scale when it starts to tip. Animal instinct, we only think we're evolved. I quite agree. Sex is sex and even if you don't have love and companionship and all the rest you can still have the sex. Sure, it may be better with the extras, but even without them it's still pretty F-ing awesome. |
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I'll be honest when the sex is good I will tolerate a lot of things I normally would not. When the sex is bad all the flaws seem to bug the hell out of me....  I mean ya got to have something worth trying to make things work... Very true. sahi hai = Correct |
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Mere sexual relationships don't survive long normally.
Abnormally those can survive only between master & slave. |
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Yep, good sex and I'll put up with a lot. At least for a while. Yeah...men say this until they meet me. I don't think you can have crazy good sex without some sort of compatibility with one another as far as attraction, personality type and body size. There are a lot of factors that contribute to "good sex" I don't believe there is a person you can not stand but then say, oh but the sex is soooo good. I don't believe that. This is true. Thank goodness I have all the above stated. Haha, this is why I don't support angry makeup sex. Most marriages and long terms are based in this. How does one have "good" sex with an evil person at heart. No, no no. Good sex comes with a big factor: listening. Something most men are so naturally good at. Im sorry, What did you say? And this is why some men wonder why they're not getting it.
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You all are putting way too much thought into this. It is one of the few circumstances that requires less thought. Sex is a base need, everyone wants it whether you admit it or not. Bad sex is better than no sex, good sex is great, and great sex is hard to find. It's like the devil you know, sure the relationship sucks, and you hate this person, but you'd still rather be getting some than not getting any, so you stick around. The better the sex, the more crap you put up with, until you reach the tipping point. If the sex is good enough, you'll still put your finger on the other side of the scale when it starts to tip. Animal instinct, we only think we're evolved. Eh, if it's that bad, no sex would have been better. |
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I think some people get involved because the sex is so good. Sure. There is a connection, an attraction....something exists to make two people stay together. But good sex can and does keep people together even when it probably shouldn't. This can only be true for a little while, because self realization will eventually say, I'm better than this, and being used is no fun. Using someone is no fun either. Of course self realization comes in. That's why these relationships don't work. Two people can only tolerate communication breakdown for so long. Good sex is like crack. Drug addicts can hit crack and all of a sudden life is good. But when reality hits, crack only masks their true drug addiction. Sex works like that for a relationship that is fractured. Good sex makes you want to stay, and the "high" of good sex keeps you there cause it feels so good. But when reality sits in, you know the relationship is fractured and it's time to move on. So basically you just confirmed what we were saying. Only took ya this long to finally get it. Actually...I understood it from the beginning. I created the thread.
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I think some people get involved because the sex is so good. Sure. There is a connection, an attraction....something exists to make two people stay together. But good sex can and does keep people together even when it probably shouldn't. This can only be true for a little while, because self realization will eventually say, I'm better than this, and being used is no fun. Using someone is no fun either. Of course self realization comes in. That's why these relationships don't work. Two people can only tolerate communication breakdown for so long. Good sex is like crack. Drug addicts can hit crack and all of a sudden life is good. But when reality hits, crack only masks their true drug addiction. Sex works like that for a relationship that is fractured. Good sex makes you want to stay, and the "high" of good sex keeps you there cause it feels so good. But when reality sits in, you know the relationship is fractured and it's time to move on. So basically you just confirmed what we were saying. Only took ya this long to finally get it. Actually...I understood it from the beginning. I created the thread. You came to this conclusion by the end of the thread and yet you posed an obvious question. And like anyone would know what's inside that head of yours.
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You all are putting way too much thought into this. It is one of the few circumstances that requires less thought. Sex is a base need, everyone wants it whether you admit it or not. Bad sex is better than no sex, good sex is great, and great sex is hard to find. It's like the devil you know, sure the relationship sucks, and you hate this person, but you'd still rather be getting some than not getting any, so you stick around. The better the sex, the more crap you put up with, until you reach the tipping point. If the sex is good enough, you'll still put your finger on the other side of the scale when it starts to tip. Animal instinct, we only think we're evolved. I disagree. I believe intimacy is the need, but many convince themselves or other that SEX is a need. bad sex is NOT better than no sex, especially when it ties you down from being able to have closure and move on to something that just might actually be GREAT , sex and all. |
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You all are putting way too much thought into this. It is one of the few circumstances that requires less thought. Sex is a base need, everyone wants it whether you admit it or not. Bad sex is better than no sex, good sex is great, and great sex is hard to find. It's like the devil you know, sure the relationship sucks, and you hate this person, but you'd still rather be getting some than not getting any, so you stick around. The better the sex, the more crap you put up with, until you reach the tipping point. If the sex is good enough, you'll still put your finger on the other side of the scale when it starts to tip. Animal instinct, we only think we're evolved. Eh, if it's that bad, no sex would have been better. seems this thread has a basic difference in percpeption that is gender based interesting |
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You all are putting way too much thought into this. It is one of the few circumstances that requires less thought. Sex is a base need, everyone wants it whether you admit it or not. Bad sex is better than no sex, good sex is great, and great sex is hard to find. It's like the devil you know, sure the relationship sucks, and you hate this person, but you'd still rather be getting some than not getting any, so you stick around. The better the sex, the more crap you put up with, until you reach the tipping point. If the sex is good enough, you'll still put your finger on the other side of the scale when it starts to tip. Animal instinct, we only think we're evolved. Eh, if it's that bad, no sex would have been better. seems this thread has a basic difference in percpeption that is gender based interesting Well, at least in the bad sex part of the thread. I wonder how many women compared to men think that bad sex is better than no sex? |
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You all are putting way too much thought into this. It is one of the few circumstances that requires less thought. Sex is a base need, everyone wants it whether you admit it or not. Bad sex is better than no sex, good sex is great, and great sex is hard to find. It's like the devil you know, sure the relationship sucks, and you hate this person, but you'd still rather be getting some than not getting any, so you stick around. The better the sex, the more crap you put up with, until you reach the tipping point. If the sex is good enough, you'll still put your finger on the other side of the scale when it starts to tip. Animal instinct, we only think we're evolved. Eh, if it's that bad, no sex would have been better. seems this thread has a basic difference in percpeption that is gender based interesting Well, at least in the bad sex part of the thread. I wonder how many women compared to men think that bad sex is better than no sex? I used to think, biologically speaking, that since there had to be erection for the deed to take place, that was evidence that a man must be excited each time I Have since learned other things cause erections,,but, I still dont think it happens as often so maybe because of the anatomy, 'bad' sex is less likely to be as bad for men as it is for women,,, ,,just throwing it out there ,,,just an opinion,,lol |
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Maybe some of the other men and women here will chime in about whether they think bad sex is better than no sex.
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