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Topic: But the sex is good......
Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Sun 10/21/12 10:15 PM
Sex is overrated. You haven't had great sex, then. Agreed, because there is no mistaking it.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Sun 10/21/12 10:46 PM
Yep, good sex and I'll put up with a lot. At least for a while.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 10/22/12 10:09 AM
Yep, good sex and I'll put up with a lot. At least for a while. And that's the thing. Good/Great/Awesome sex comes along and you just want to "put up" with all the other bad stuff. Lol. Curse you women!

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Mon 10/22/12 10:12 AM
Yep, good sex and I'll put up with a lot. At least for a while. And that's the thing. Good/Great/Awesome sex comes along and you just want to "put up" with all the other bad stuff. Lol. Curse you women! and you men,,lol,,,from my experience as a younger woman anyhow now Ive learned better,,,and its just too easy to be honest about things like that (if al you have is great sex, its easy to admit it and decide together to continue the sex or let the whole thing go)

s1owhand Joined Fri 05/18/07 Posts: 29437	Mon 10/22/12 10:40 AM
If the sex is great then the relationship is at least very good at least in my personal experience.

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Mon 10/22/12 11:11 AM
You meet someone. It's all great. Good times, both of ya getting along very well, and all signs point to a relationship that looks (and feels) healthy. Few months go by, and then the reality hits. They are getting on your nerves. You aren't happy with them like you were. Perhaps you two didn't have as much in common as you first thought. But man, oh man alive! The Sex!!!! The sex is so damn good. And it is the sex that keeps you around. I got to wondering. We all know a relationship can't exist if it is just a physical thing. But why do we put ourselves though it? Are some of us that arrogant to think that we can make a sexual relationship work? What say you? I can honestly say I have never experienced that. If a relationship is not working; it would completely turn me off to sex with that person. This is my experience too. Any by "not working" I mean a lot more than just finding the guy a little boring. I mean throwing things at each other.

TexasScoundrel Joined Wed 10/29/08 Posts: 3693	Mon 10/22/12 02:06 PM
What they say is true, Crazy in the head=crazy in bed.

42BlackBBW Joined Mon 09/12/11 Posts: 3243	Mon 10/22/12 02:19 PM
You meet someone. It's all great. Good times, both of ya getting along very well, and all signs point to a relationship that looks (and feels) healthy. Few months go by, and then the reality hits. They are getting on your nerves. You aren't happy with them like you were. Perhaps you two didn't have as much in common as you first thought. But man, oh man alive! The Sex!!!! The sex is so damn good. And it is the sex that keeps you around. I got to wondering. We all know a relationship can't exist if it is just a physical thing. But why do we put ourselves though it? Are some of us that arrogant to think that we can make a sexual relationship work? What say you? We put ourselves through it because really good sex is a rarity

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 10/22/12 03:32 PM
What they say is true, Crazy in the head=crazy in bed. Hhaha, I've never heard of that before.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 10/22/12 03:34 PM
I don't think you can have crazy good sex without some sort of compatibility with one another as far as attraction, personality type and body size. There are a lot of factors that contribute to "good sex" I don't believe there is a person you can not stand but then say, oh but the sex is soooo good. I don't believe that.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 10/22/12 03:43 PM
Yep, good sex and I'll put up with a lot. At least for a while. Yeah...men say this until they meet me. I don't think you can have crazy good sex without some sort of compatibility with one another as far as attraction, personality type and body size. There are a lot of factors that contribute to "good sex" I don't believe there is a person you can not stand but then say, oh but the sex is soooo good. I don't believe that. This is true. Thank goodness I have all the above stated. Haha, this is why I don't support angry makeup sex. Most marriages and long terms are based in this. How does one have "good" sex with an evil person at heart. No, no no. Good sex comes with a big factor: listening. Something most men are so naturally good at.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 10/22/12 05:00 PM
I think some people get involved because the sex is so good. Sure. There is a connection, an attraction....something exists to make two people stay together. But good sex can and does keep people together even when it probably shouldn't.

Simonedemidova Joined Mon 11/15/10 Posts: 8952	Mon 10/22/12 05:09 PM
I think some people get involved because the sex is so good. Sure. There is a connection, an attraction....something exists to make two people stay together. But good sex can and does keep people together even when it probably shouldn't. This can only be true for a little while, because self realization will eventually say, I'm better than this, and being used is no fun. Using someone is no fun either.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Mon 10/22/12 05:12 PM
What they say is true, Crazy in the head=crazy in bed. Hhaha, I've never heard of that before. really? i thought it was well known. a lot of mental disorders lead to hypersexuality.

MariahsFantasy Joined Mon 11/28/11 Posts: 6593	Mon 10/22/12 05:25 PM
This can only be true for a little while, because self realization will eventually say, I'm better than this, and being used is no fun. Using someone is no fun either. I definitely agree with this. As fun as it can be, ultimately the real you comes out eventually.

Torgo70 Joined Fri 06/27/08 Posts: 27387	Mon 10/22/12 05:27 PM
What they say is true, Crazy in the head=crazy in bed. Hhaha, I've never heard of that before. really? i thought it was well known. a lot of mental disorders lead to hypersexuality. Sybil must have been a beast in bed.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Mon 10/22/12 05:32 PM
Sybil must have been a beast in bed. i wouldn't doubt it.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Mon 10/22/12 05:32 PM
You meet someone. It's all great. Good times, both of ya getting along very well, and all signs point to a relationship that looks (and feels) healthy. Few months go by, and then the reality hits. They are getting on your nerves. You aren't happy with them like you were. Perhaps you two didn't have as much in common as you first thought. But man, oh man alive! The Sex!!!! The sex is so damn good. And it is the sex that keeps you around. I got to wondering. We all know a relationship can't exist if it is just a physical thing. But why do we put ourselves though it? Are some of us that arrogant to think that we can make a sexual relationship work? What say you? I can honestly say I have never experienced that. If a relationship is not working; it would completely turn me off to sex with that person. This is my experience too. Any by "not working" I mean a lot more than just finding the guy a little boring. I mean throwing things at each other. I guess great minds think alike.

willowdraga Joined Sat 10/13/12 Posts: 957	Mon 10/22/12 06:41 PM
You meet someone. It's all great. Good times, both of ya getting along very well, and all signs point to a relationship that looks (and feels) healthy. Few months go by, and then the reality hits. They are getting on your nerves. You aren't happy with them like you were. Perhaps you two didn't have as much in common as you first thought. But man, oh man alive! The Sex!!!! The sex is so damn good. And it is the sex that keeps you around. I got to wondering. We all know a relationship can't exist if it is just a physical thing. But why do we put ourselves though it? Are some of us that arrogant to think that we can make a sexual relationship work? What say you? You said it, but the sex is sooooo good....lol Until that starts to become boring or falls off we will keep coming back for more.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Mon 10/22/12 07:51 PM
I think some people get involved because the sex is so good. Sure. There is a connection, an attraction....something exists to make two people stay together. But good sex can and does keep people together even when it probably shouldn't. This can only be true for a little while, because self realization will eventually say, I'm better than this, and being used is no fun. Using someone is no fun either. Of course self realization comes in. That's why these relationships don't work. Two people can only tolerate communication breakdown for so long. Good sex is like crack. Drug addicts can hit crack and all of a sudden life is good. But when reality hits, crack only masks their true drug addiction. Sex works like that for a relationship that is fractured. Good sex makes you want to stay, and the "high" of good sex keeps you there cause it feels so good. But when reality sits in, you know the relationship is fractured and it's time to move on.