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I had been with a guy for the past 2 years on and off. First he says he does not have romantic feelings for me. Then he says he does but not sure what his feelings are. Says he is confused about how is really feels to be in love because of being hurt in the past. Says he thinks he might love me. How long should I keep this going? To me after 2 years you should know what your feelings are for someone. HELP!!!
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He doesn't love you. Sounds like he's 'comfortable' with you.... mark my words, if someone 'better' comes along you're history. My suggestion, dump his azz NOW! There's better out there for you.
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Yes, 2 years is adequate time to figure out your feelings for someone. Don't let him use you. I'm sure you'll find someone that will love you and be up front about it.
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(Klaxons go off)
Warning! Warning! 
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I know you guys are right. Every time I tell him I am leaving and not coming back he ask me not to. And he has found other girls already. I known, I know I am stupid for staying. Or maybe just tired of being alone. Thanks for the advice.
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Hi Artist,
I think he loves you in his own way. But, is that enough for you? How do you think he would react if you told him you were going away for a while, while he thinks about things? Maybe a little distance between you would make him realize how much he'd miss you if you were gone for good. If while you're gone he moves on, then better for you to hurt a little now, than a lot later. Don't you know you deserve the best. Aim for it girlfriend. |
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Awww thanks so much Angel. You are right. Probably what I will do for a while.
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wow..and i thought i had it bad..move on, girl..sorry to say..be friends..i wouldnt stick with someone that can't make up his mind..be friends thats it..if u can be friends..
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yeah I think sooner or later we could be. We were friends first so I know we could over come it and be friends again, might take a long time though.
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hmmmm its the old I don't want you but I dont want anyone else to have you scenario!!!! Cut your losses and get out....find someone who will love you all the time and not when he wants to get laid!
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Insanity - doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.
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He should know how he feels about you
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i was wondering if you told him you loved him? BUT i can not give you advice on this i will not tell you to break up or stay. instead why not ask him how he got hurt in the past? i mean you been with him for two years and he has not said i love you that is not a problem. why pressure a guy to love you? and do you know how hard it is to say i love you when you mean it? ITS HARD. so give him time
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i agree with angel take some distance..
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2 years? geeash, dump him already and move on
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You have been going at it for two years and you been accepting it for two years.
It's already done he thinks you are a doormat and is just using you for a romp. |
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Obvioulsy, your instinct is telling you that something is wrong. Quit listening to your heart and go with your instinct. It will hurt a lot less.
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thanks all of you for your input. Making me come to a realization I should have come to a long time ago.
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Oh dear. I have to agree with the sentiments here. This relationship is not going to be what you want it to be. It is time to recognize your own worth and to move on. Best wishes to you!
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He is just using you till he finds someone else that fits what he really wants. He also could be a player that wants nobody serious right now. The responsibility of taking on your children may also be an issue.
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