well first things first i feel its a woman and women have something between their legs and most guys want to get to it so thats why they get more dates and its very rarely for a woman to go up to a guy...but anyway i dont work hard 4 a reply..i just take the rude guy way and they allways reply. BUT i really dont care if i get one..

All I know is that I've got 13 unread emails on another site and 4 on this one to girls that basically say, "Hi, you're cute in your picture(s) and you said something half intelligent in your profile. Check me out and if you feel the same, let's start talking." There's 17 easy dates for women right there... and ZERO for me.

well you guys out there are probaly doing better than i am i have had 14 view my profile then all of a sudden it went all the way back to ten views now back up to 12 and i have been trying this one out for about a month now, but i would love it if a woman actually made the first move out somewhere,then again i think that has happened to me before but didnt pick up up on it!!!! but let me ask the women if it makes a difference whether a man is a pay member or not????cause i am not gonna pay for no responses and 12 views in a month!!!!

<---has only been on one date in a year, does that answer ur question?

lilbear, the profile views rollover, so depending on what day, what time ur profiles were viewed it will change. i went from 500 down to 341 in two days.

ahhhhhhhhh I must be in the minority of women......I rarely have a date

i don't think it's based on the gender really as to who can get the date the easiest, but rather the personality of that person. some are more outgoing than others, gender not being a factor.

I must say...I do not remember getting turned down when I asked a lady out...problem is...I am generally too chicken to ask because of the fear of rejection...pretty stupid of me isn't it.

i based my answer on the idea that women don't generally have to show interest to get hit on. i have not many women that will approach a man.

as for the ration thing, male to female, as per the census bureau, there are an excess of single men in the western states and rural areas and a surplus of females in the eastern and southern half of the country and major metropolitan areas...should therefore be easier for the ladies in the west and the men in the east and south

bad me...should be ratio, not ration..lol

excuse me, what i meant to say is i have not known many women that will approach a man first.

looks like we're both stuttering willy

I have met a few ladies who would approach first, but, they have been few and far between...and it was always a surprise

i know what you mean..a very nice surprise though

I think after being married I have lost the "killer" instinct

here is a thought for you king, you have noticed a few who were forward enough to let you know they were interested. How many do you suppose have dropped hints that we have missed entirely?

no telling because sometimes i can be pretty hard headed. my biggest problem is thinking that she wasn't flirting she was just being nice.

lol...I agree with you on that one. Most of the time I am just plain too dense to realize that I was being "hustled" on until later. then, boy do I feel stupid.

sweetiepies well i wish it wouldnt do that i mean i would like to see that number keep increasing when you have 500 im sure it is not a big deal but my 12 views are all i have!!!!lol!!!jeez 500, maybe someday, huh!!
yeah i know ill keep on dreaming!!!!