Topic: Is it easier for women to get dates than men?
theshotgunrule's photo
Sun 08/05/07 11:45 PM
This is how I get a date:


HAY BAYAREAGARL, A/S/L?

24/M/NAZARETH, WHAT DO YA SAY WE DITCH THE BOAT AND TAKE A HIKE?

Abracadabra's photo
Sun 08/05/07 11:46 PM
Well, I must confess that I don’t actively contact women on JSH. It’s not that I can’t find women that I find attractive. Part of it is because I don’t think any woman would actually want to live in story book forest. I think most of them want the normal rat race thing.

The other thing is that I don’t want to contact women under about 55 because I’m afraid they are going to want to party too much, and I’m too pooped to party. I’ve become a party pooper.

Lastly, but certainly not leastly. I’m too lazy to clean up the kitchen and no woman would want to come here with the kitchen as messy as it is.

I can come up with more excuses if these aren’t acceptable. If you saw my bathroom you wouldn’t even argue about it. I’m just not “woman-ready” that’s all there is to it.

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Sun 08/05/07 11:47 PM
Shotgunlaugh laugh

No deal! But thanks for having the courage to suggest that, 'tho! laugh laugh :wink: :wink:

theshotgunrule's photo
Sun 08/05/07 11:48 PM
but I can walk on water.....

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Sun 08/05/07 11:49 PM

Abra - It just all comes down to whether a person wants it or not. This applies to anything in life. If you want something you just do what it takes to get it. So yes, excuses, excuses, excuses! laugh We all have 'em, but are we honest enough to admit that at the end of the day?

Shy schmy! I don't buy that at all! laugh

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Sun 08/05/07 11:50 PM
You can? Are you the big JC?? Disguised as a guitar playing kid in FL??

theshotgunrule's photo
Sun 08/05/07 11:50 PM
YES, thats why I said 24/M/Nazareth :tongue:

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Sun 08/05/07 11:54 PM

LOL!

Who knew I was posting my way into a divine appointment?? laugh laugh

theshotgunrule's photo
Sun 08/05/07 11:55 PM
laugh laugh laugh


you forgot to remind me to rap for you today!

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Sun 08/05/07 11:56 PM

Rapper JC??

Wow. Now THAT would be like experiencing nirvana! laugh laugh

Abracadabra's photo
Sun 08/05/07 11:57 PM
“So yes, excuses, excuses, excuses!”

Yes it’s true. I’d love to have a fairytale match-made-in-heaven. But a real life relationship? Maybe not.

I do catch myself singing, dancing, and whistling tunes even whilst doing the most mundane chores. So I must be happy right?

I think I love being single and just don’t want to own up to it. I feel guilty for enjoying my freedom so much!

I’m just on a dating site so I can say, “Well I tried!” (ha ha)

theshotgunrule's photo
Sun 08/05/07 11:57 PM
laugh laugh My MC name is Young JC

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Mon 08/06/07 12:00 AM

Abra - Yep. You just have to trust yourself, trust that the other person trusts themselves, and just trust in the process! If you are happy and don't want a relationship, so be it. Enjoy whatever journey you take in life!


Shotgun - Young JC? laugh laugh I'd seriously love to see the video verion of THIS song! laugh laugh

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Mon 08/06/07 12:03 AM
i love ~KNOW IT ALL~ people!!!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

Puffins1958's photo
Mon 08/06/07 07:39 AM
I think it all depends on your personality, some people are more forward than others. I think there are alot of wonderful people here, some are more daring than others. I think confidence plays a big part in asking someone out on a date. Some people have a lot of it...some don't.

coco56's photo
Mon 08/06/07 07:54 AM
WOTS A DATE noway noway laugh

Greyhound's photo
Mon 08/06/07 08:31 AM
Yeah right coco. What is a date?laugh

coco56's photo
Mon 08/06/07 08:42 AM
IS THAT SOMETHING U EAT A DATE laugh laugh

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Mon 08/06/07 08:43 AM
OMG.. it's NOT soo EASY .. we have our difficulties too


like grey and coco said.. what IS a date?? Oooooooo.. it's a FRUIT.. I see ohwell

crzy66's photo
Mon 08/06/07 09:17 AM
After reading the on-going responces to the subject here.
I have this to say..........

Both sides Do have problems to argue about.

If you factor in the ratio of asked/deni for a guy. Most would say that after asking women 100 times for a date that they got maybe 7 - 12 yes's....

Now if women do the same. They get on ave 45-60 yes's.

Guys are more to say Yes to a women then a Women is to say Yes to a guy.

Reason being is that women look at the outside package more for determining if they are interested in the guy. Yet he could be the most logical choice for her and she will never know it cause she didnt give a second look..........