Topic: Are We Gonna *%#@????
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Mon 09/17/12 08:37 PM



Ladies. You frustrate me.

Tell the boys how long a relationship can be maintained with a great sex parter who's only gift is sex and doesn't connect with you. Actually they might like the answer.

If sex is the highest goal in you dating?......... Well I shouldn't comment cause I have no knowledge to speak from on this. But I do know there are some massively more fullfiing functions to relationships than sex.


Why do you think we're talking about sex and no connection? Or that sex is the highest goal?

If sex is not important to you, make that clear to potential dates. I cannot speak for others, but I am not interested in a sexless relationship, so dating someone who is not interested in sex wouldn't work.


You will notice I didn't say that sex wasnt important. But to some it's all that is important. Sex is great. There are other just as important things I wouldn't give up for great sex.


Speaking for myself only, there has to be a connection to have sex. That doesn't mean I'm going to be in love with someone when I have sex with them, or that the connection takes a long time to build. But, there's something there, whether it turns into something long term or not.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 09/17/12 08:41 PM

No time table. I jump him when I jump him.


And you take his wallet and keys.....

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 09/17/12 08:42 PM


No time table. I jump him when I jump him.


And you take his wallet and keys.....


Only after I'm done using him for sex.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 09/17/12 08:48 PM



No time table. I jump him when I jump him.


And you take his wallet and keys.....


Only after I'm done using him for sex.


Don't forget his spare change.

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 09/17/12 08:50 PM




No time table. I jump him when I jump him.


And you take his wallet and keys.....


Only after I'm done using him for sex.


Don't forget his spare change.


Now that's just wrong.

I never leave a guy without bus fare home.

Goofball73's photo
Mon 09/17/12 08:57 PM





No time table. I jump him when I jump him.


And you take his wallet and keys.....


Only after I'm done using him for sex.


Don't forget his spare change.


Now that's just wrong.

I never leave a guy without bus fare home.


New thang these days is to leave them a note so that community transport will come get em.

Ruth34611's photo
Mon 09/17/12 09:05 PM


New thang these days is to leave them a note so that community transport will come get em.


laugh

Well, if I really like him I might offer him a ride home. :wink:

Seriously though, it's been 10 billion years since I had a relationship that wasn't long distance so I don't know how long. A month seems a bit long though. I mean, if the sparks are flying and there aren't any issues, I wouldn't wait a whole month.

msharmony's photo
Tue 09/18/12 08:15 AM

I apologize for not acting like a cheap whore. Yeah. Pfffffffffft.


never apologize for having standards for your body,, they dont have to be the same as everyone elses,,,

Ruth34611's photo
Tue 09/18/12 08:38 AM
I just realized I outed myself as a cheap whore on Mingle.

No wait...I'm sure I did that long ago.

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Tue 09/18/12 08:40 AM

I just realized I outed myself as a cheap whore on Mingle.

No wait...I'm sure I did that long ago.


So, if we wait less than a month we're cheap whores? Count me in, too.

krupa's photo
Tue 09/18/12 08:54 AM
I said it once and I'll say it again ....I like cheap whores.

Ironically it is the expensive whores that I don't get along with.

lionsbrew's photo
Tue 09/18/12 08:59 AM
A person whom respects others should have respect for them regardless of if he sleeps with them or not.

pennyg281's photo
Tue 09/18/12 09:26 AM
I think the waiting time is up to the two people involved. Two of my friends dated for a year and a half and got married before they had sex. I have other friends who might wait till the third date. Its about personal choice.

msharmony's photo
Tue 09/18/12 11:28 AM

I think the waiting time is up to the two people involved. Two of my friends dated for a year and a half and got married before they had sex. I have other friends who might wait till the third date. Its about personal choice.




drinker drinker drinker

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Tue 09/18/12 04:30 PM
Well sorry if anyone felt insulted. I didn't mean for it to sound that way shocked. I was just giving an example. But I certainly don't mean to insult. So, sorry if I did.

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Tue 09/25/12 02:32 PM
I think it depends on the personal connection of the two people involved and whether or not they share the same views regarding intimacy.

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Tue 09/25/12 04:17 PM
waving waving waving

Cheap man whore here

waving waving waving

markc48's photo
Tue 09/25/12 07:35 PM
Im just practicing to become a mormon.laugh

pyxxie13's photo
Wed 09/26/12 12:25 AM

waving waving waving

Cheap man whore here

waving waving waving

interesting...

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Wed 09/26/12 09:36 AM
Women control when they'll have sex. Men can plan the greatest date ever but it's no guarantee the woman will give it up. No sex on the first date is my rule and it works for me. When I'm ready to be intimate I'll let him know.