who in their right mind would wait a year???

Wait a year.

Here is an idea. Let's goto dinner tonight and I call you in a year. Does that count?

I agree with you. I think it would seem forced if a specific number was put on it. I like to just see how things go. If it feels right, that works for me.

it varies based on different factors for every woman. the key is to find someone on a similar time table with comparable morals

I would not be interested in a man who would not wait. I'd rather be friend zoned - nothing wrong with a new friend. (BTW I'll still be with him after the floozjob of the day is gone)

but obviuosly not all women care about that (or men) so my suggestion is to find someone like minded

rules are not archaic - promiscuity has never been in style, but some do not care about that. if it works for them - fine.

personally I would not date a man who has "consistently" behaved in a promiscuous manner ( a few slips ups are OK).... but it is not a matter of "rules" as it personal moral choice or preference.

people who cling to easy & sleasy seem to have a need to justify this type of behavior for some reason - matters not - it is what it is

and on that note I will say adieu

What do you consider promiscuous behavior? How many people does someone have to be with in order to be promiscuous? How quickly do they have to have sex to be considered promiscuous?

Ladies. You frustrate me.

Tell the boys how long a relationship can be maintained with a great sex parter who's only gift is sex and doesn't connect with you. Actually they might like the answer.

If sex is the highest goal in you dating?......... Well I shouldn't comment cause I have no knowledge to speak from on this. But I do know there are some massively more fullfiing functions to relationships than sex.

Why do you think we're talking about sex and no connection? Or that sex is the highest goal?

If sex is not important to you, make that clear to potential dates. I cannot speak for others, but I am not interested in a sexless relationship, so dating someone who is not interested in sex wouldn't work.

For me when the attraction has been there it has been very hard to
wait a month (for both parties). It is also good to try to wait as
long as possible because it builds this crazy tantric tension.

Then it is fabulously erotic and ecstatic...



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I dunno I would usually give it about two weeks. If it doesn't happen by then I figure she isn't in to me like that.

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Amen :-)

Trollop line forms here..

But.....I like cheap whores.

:)

Seriously ....an LDR is the only way to wait any length of time.

Let's face facts....if I go out once a week with a chick for a year ....that's 52 sexless dates.

That ain't dating ....that is going and hanging out with a friend.

At that point, you can only screw up a perfectly good friendship by throwing sex into the mix.

Bingo.

I agree completely

Still curious as to why you thought we were talking about sex with no connection. There can be a connection whether you wait a year, or wait two weeks. Depends on the person, of course.

A year! Impossible.

I'll take Lindsay Lohan for $600, Alex.

You will notice I didn't say that sex wasnt important. But to some it's all that is important. Sex is great. There are other just as important things I wouldn't give up for great sex.

Nothing is impossible , what you all need is self-control and stop taking the easy way out . ******* !!!

No time table. I jump him when I jump him.