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Topic: are all women just shy?
wanting1forlife's photo
Fri 08/03/07 04:49 PM
I am a bit confused, so many women out there are single, yet none of them seem willing to initiate a conversation.Ladies remember that you are totally equal and most men welcome your emails and if they are secure with who they are will be happy to just chat. It doesn't have to be just about "hooking up"

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 08/03/07 04:51 PM
ummm yes all of us ... it is injected as part of our 3-month booster shot

Welcome to the site flowerforyou

lulu24's photo
Fri 08/03/07 04:54 PM
yep, i'm shy. me. sure, i am.

*cackles maniacally*

kayd4's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:04 PM
personally i am not shy and will talk to anyone. i could always use new friends :smile:

and welcome

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:05 PM

It's not about being shy. The men should make the first moves.

Ai yi yi.

lulu24's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:06 PM
i've been known to make the first move, on many an occasion.

i always go after what i want.

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:07 PM
I send emails...most at looked at, rarely replied

pkh's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:10 PM
I too am very shy.But it was great to see your views.More men should think like that.

wanting1forlife's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:14 PM
I think that there is too much drama between the sexes, why can't men and women just learn to talk? I think that is the key to any good relationship. And don't forget that friendship is a relationship too!

ArtGurl's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:16 PM
I agree - it is all just conversation ... getting to know people...

Claudette's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:18 PM
I agree with Artgurl

And I have had emails sent and no replies as well

creationsfire's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:19 PM
Oh Gawd! I would say something, but I might put my foot in my mouth again and kill the threadohwell

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:20 PM
some are and some think it should be the man that initiates conversation. i think that the new mutual match can help with this.

Claudette's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:20 PM
(((((((((Creations))))))))))))

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:20 PM
I am shy to a fault actually....I know I am intelligent (I work for the Government, it's been programmed and I have my own parking spot) but when it comes to being out with my friends in a social situation? I'm the one sipping a watered down rum and coke hoping they get drunk so I can go home...

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:22 PM
I'm not shy AT ALL. Maybe I should be a little bit, sometimes my assertiveness gives the wrong impression........

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:23 PM
no way babydoll.

wanting1forlife's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:40 PM
to be perfectly honest I love to talk......my moms fault lol..I will not lead anyone on, if I am interested you will know. I don't think I am above anyone, but will always reply even if I know it is only just to chat. Being a good person is just good karma, for lack of a better word

Silkbutterfli's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:40 PM
wanting, I sent out 3 emails earlier, all basically said the same thing, Thought I would say hi.
Basically an ice breaker. NOTHING. I was raised that the men are the aggressors and women just aren't. Women don't call men, women don't ask men out.
I am working on it. Once you get to know me, I ain't shy, lol.
I think alot of women have been burned in previous relationships and are afraid to put that first foot out there. I know I am.

Native_Grl39's photo
Fri 08/03/07 05:44 PM
I know I'm shy!!!!!!!!!bigsmile

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