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Topic: why looks do and dont matter
joshyfox's photo
Fri 08/03/07 02:23 AM
I know someone photo-shopped a picture of Adolf Hitler to remove the mustache and all Nazi Symbols from his outfit, put it up on www.hotornot.com and he got a 10 out of 10.

I don't now why I decided to share this, I guess it was funny to me.

joshyfox's photo
Fri 08/03/07 02:24 AM
^ I guess there is a great danger to judging a book by it's cover.

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 07:00 AM
nah...that saying dont judge a book by its cover is false feel everyone judges each other no matter what i think people should judge people 4 their looks because if you see a clean cut guy and you see a raggedy looking guy you would pick da clean guy but the thing you didnt know was he beat women..but da raggedy guy adores women. we all going to be judged every day of our lives.

Silkbutterfli's photo
Fri 08/03/07 07:20 AM
I am more interested in a mans eyes and smile before anything else I look at. Yes, I admit, I do look at the whole picture, but it is the eyes and smile that attract me first. The last man I dated was a little pudgy, but he had great eyes and a wonderful smile. Too bad his attitude didn't end up matching.
I have dated and married some great looking guys, looks aren't everything. Attitude is.

Puffins1958's photo
Fri 08/03/07 07:33 AM
For me....he has to have beautiful eyes. I like to make eye contact when I have a conversation with someone, and if they have nice eyes...that just makes it so much better. Everything else, is just for show.

It also helps if he has nice lips...kissable lips. I know...I could have left that part out...right

laugh :wink: laugh :wink: laugh

Silkbutterfli's photo
Fri 08/03/07 07:49 AM
LOL Puffins, that helps too

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 08:00 AM
thats what i have been saying...but ppl wanted 2 debate

jayboy07's photo
Fri 08/03/07 08:13 AM
To me a Physical Attraction to a person is what gets me wanting to talk to them, and that lasts up until we actually conversate.

Once we are communication, the actual physical looks arent important to me anymore, its about the personality, and of course some kind of vibe...


Silkbutterfli's photo
Fri 08/03/07 08:16 AM
You missed the point, looks are not that important to me, never have been. I have dated both good looking and not so good looking, it doesn't matter to me. I am interested in the eyes and smile, but that has nothing to do with the rest of the package.
I look for someone with some intelligence that can carry an intelligent conversation, has a good sense of humor and is caring. Those are what are important to me. Looks be damned.

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 09:18 AM
slik! read my first thread...

no photo
Fri 08/03/07 11:13 AM
I tried to read your first thread. But, darn the luck, I left my Gibberish to English translation book in my car.

magalin's photo
Fri 08/03/07 02:00 PM
Looks only matter if I want to have a sexual relationship with someone.... there's many people I love, but if I am not sexually attracted to them then they fall into my favorite category.............Friends!!!

KAY KAY 's photo
Fri 08/03/07 02:23 PM
I agree Magalin!!!

YeaBigsexy's photo
Fri 08/03/07 02:29 PM
well well well!!
what do we have here?
huh laugh laugh laugh

KAY KAY 's photo
Fri 08/03/07 02:30 PM
laugh laugh laugh

Silkbutterfli's photo
Fri 08/03/07 02:42 PM
Trust me, I have tried to read all of your posts. Your advice on so many things. All this from an 18 year old. I have an 18 year old and she wouldn't dream of trying to give relationship advice to me or any other adult. She is still learning about life and everything else. I know at 18, we all think we know EVERYTHING there is to know about life, love, etc. Guess what? I learned something, we don't.
Looks are great, but that isn't why I want to get involved with anyone. I want to get involved with someone with a personality, a sense of humor, can hold a conversation for more than 5 minutes. Imagine that. I want someone real!!!!!
How do you really think you know so much to give advice, which frankly I don't understand?

creationsfire's photo
Fri 08/03/07 04:44 PM
I hear dat Silk! A period at da end of da sentence can help, da age thang, come wit age child.laugh

NYBlondie's photo
Fri 08/03/07 04:46 PM
looks matter a lot if your hot u get more booty

no photo
Sat 08/04/07 09:25 AM
1. because the things i say i have tested myself and others have to..i have many women friends so i ask then about this stuff and i have many male friends..and i get thier views and i gatherd all this info since i was 15. i used to be da nice guy then a player..and know i know what i want. and silk thats what i said if u have a good personally then you want them. like you want a man thats funny nice and all its exactly what i said

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