Topic: Would you relocate?
PacificStar48's photo
Sat 07/28/12 06:26 PM

I am where I am for a reason.
It is not the place I would prefer to be but it is where I need to be.
I care for my Dad and I am in Noooooo hurry for that to change.
It has been my great pleasure to return to him.....my time, care, and support. A drop in the bucket compared to all he has done for me in my life.
Sooooo.........
I am happy to be here doing what I am doing.
In the future..........
I would relocate for myself......or for the right Lady!!!



That is pretty much how I saw things. My Dad/Family needed me here; I had moved and adapted all my life so it was doable. And now, that he has passed, I plan to stay open to the options that best meet my needs now. I hope it is a fun, sensual,social, and full of freedom. I am really excited about spoiling someone rotten and being the "kid with experience" that I had my family early to enjoy now.

misswright's photo
Sat 07/28/12 06:33 PM
I'm free to go anywhere my little heart desires! bigsmile

As long as I can take my dog, doesn't matter where I rest my head. My son is grown and on his own back in Vermont. I relocated to South Florida just shy of a year ago so I could soak up a whole lotta sunshine. Mission accomplished! Who knows how long I'll stay or where I'll head off to next?!

Would I move for a man? He'd have to be worth it! shades

oldhippie1952's photo
Sat 07/28/12 07:22 PM

If I found some one I thought was compatiable and I loved him I would consider relocateing. Probably not a really snowy community since Atlanta then California kind of spoiled me with so much pretty weather but to have a good mate it would be worth it.

I would just lock down my place and visit a few times before I made any big committment. Then I would try living near by localbefore I got into anything too serious.

You might want to add Seattle/Tacoma and Sacramento to your list. Both have nice VA Centers and the climate is great.



I don't really want to be in CA, too many taxes, don't know about Seattle. My top 3 pics are Colorado (within 2 hours of Denver) because it is not too far from my kids (OK), Orlando (Disney World and Universal Studios in your backyard with beaches) and Honolulu (what can I say....it's Hawaii!).

Teri11215's photo
Sat 07/28/12 07:34 PM

I am where I am for a reason.
It is not the place I would prefer to be but it is where I need to be.
I care for my Dad and I am in Noooooo hurry for that to change.
It has been my great pleasure to return to him.....my time, care, and support. A drop in the bucket compared to all he has done for me in my life.
Sooooo.........
I am happy to be here doing what I am doing.
In the future..........
I would relocate for myself......or for the right Lady!!!


Teri11215's photo
Sat 07/28/12 07:37 PM
I find myself in the same situation with my mom, she gave so much to my brother and I, now it's my or I should say "our" time to give back to her. Otherwise I would be willing to move. I find this an admirable trait in a person, but especially coming from a man, nice words Ghostrider, and I wish you luck and many years with your dad.

L14ra's photo
Sat 07/28/12 08:03 PM
Yes,if that person is the right one for me..

no photo
Sat 07/28/12 08:28 PM
Maybe, probably, yeah.......

oldhippie1952's photo
Sat 07/28/12 08:39 PM

Maybe, probably, yeah.......


Feel the turtle...go to the turtle, Leigh...

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Sat 07/28/12 08:48 PM


Maybe, probably, yeah.......


Feel the turtle...go to the turtle, Leigh...


pitchfork


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GreenEyes48's photo
Wed 08/01/12 04:38 AM
I would definitely consider moving...But I have fears about being totally "swallowed-up" into someone's "existing life." And I don't expect someone to step right into my "existing life" either!..I think it's important to create and build something "new" together. (Beyond "same old, same old.")..Of course some things will remain the same. (Our relationships with our kids and parents and friends etc.)...I don't want to view my new partner as nothing more than a "plug-in" or "replacement part." And I don't want to be a "plug-in" either! How do you feel about it?

Jtevans's photo
Wed 08/01/12 04:43 AM
nope.i'm where i'm comfortable at and i ain't going anywheres! grumble

michele63's photo
Wed 08/01/12 05:58 AM
i would say do it as long as your being an individual not just a couple. you have to do things for yourself and be strong enough for change but anything can work as long as you make it work. i have done it in my 20s and i was glad and i plan to do it again. you only live once as far as you know so experiencing life is awsome and if it doesnt work dont cry just go back. whats the worst thing that could happen? spent a little extra cash? its you making another memory good or bad.

pyxxie13's photo
Wed 08/01/12 09:10 AM
Nope.

TattooedDude81's photo
Wed 08/01/12 09:13 AM
I'd either go to Alabama or move out of the country. Either Norway, Finland, Sweden, or Germany.

no photo
Wed 08/01/12 03:18 PM

Nope.



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navygirl's photo
Thu 08/02/12 12:47 PM
I could relocate anywhere as I have nothing or no one to keep me here. I would miss my friends but life goes on.

no photo
Thu 08/02/12 12:54 PM
I used to say yes, but now I love where I live, so I'd really have to think hard about it. And it would certainly depend on where I'd be relocating to.

josie68's photo
Thu 08/02/12 01:14 PM

I used to say yes, but now I love where I live, so I'd really have to think hard about it. And it would certainly depend on where I'd be relocating to.


If it was just across the country I would say yes definately.. But to another country, sadly it's just not possible. Too many responsibilities keep me tied down.:wink:


veevee6's photo
Sat 08/04/12 04:16 AM
Yeah~ I would, go with the right person

blueeyes2000's photo
Sat 08/04/12 04:36 AM
I am not at a point where I could. My kids are still young and in school, and a few other things going on. Plus, I love it here, it's a good place to raise kids. The only thing that could even have me thinking about moving, would be WITH someone to somewhere with a better beach,lol.