HAVE ANYONE BEEN IN THE SITUATION,WHERE YOU CANT LET GO OF YOUR EX AND SHE CANT LET GO OF YOU,AND ALSO IF THERE WAS A POSSIBILITY OF THE TWO OF YOU GETTING BACK,WOULD IT BE THE RIGHT THING TO DO?????

When I was a teen. In my situation, getting back together was the wrong idea.

I was in a situation like that, the last relationship I was in..we got back together for a short time and it didn't work...he was an alcoholic,I was pregnant with his son....for the best of my boys I left for good...it has been tough raising two sons by myself,but after 15 yrs don't regret it one bit.

Well for starters. It didn't work the first time around did it? So why risk further damage to each other where now you could part and have a great relationship as friends. If you would stay together and it wouldn't work out then you might be bitter enemies!

Look at it this way: there are how many billion people in the world?

Roughly half of them are of the opposite sex.

If you remove all the ones that are too young / too old / married / otherwise engaged / not for you.... that STILL leaves a couple hundred thousand people who might be BETTER matches for you than your X.

I've been there done that.....hated it!

my momma once told me...
there is always someone prettier than you
there is always someone uglier than you
there is always someone richer than you
there is always someone poorer than you
and ONCE YOU LEAVE never go back
you left for a reason the first time

bu but but...... didn't you just end it with the love of your life???

because she was in NY and you were in miami???

is that so done with ?? can you just jump from one to another?? even if it were the "right" thing to do?????????????????????????

sigh......Devin..... desperation will scare the begeeeezzzez out of anyone....


an old song comes to mind....." LOVE the one you're with! "

She really didn't have that much trouble letting go of me both time. I am sure her ulcer got much better after I left.

I have heard of people trying it over again, and on an occasion (rare) it has worked, but usually the same old issues are there and it doesn't last. Sometimes you have to try it though to get it out of your system, to prove to yourself that you left for the right reasons. I have heard of people marrying and divorcing each other 3 times. You have to do what feels right for you.

They say absence makes the heart go fonder, but then when you are back together I have seen the old issues rear their ugly heads.

Do what feels right for you, if you feel you need to try it over again, do it. Then you will know for sure, will have cleared the air once and for all and will have left no doubts in either of your minds whether you did the right thing by divorcing, and if it works out, then great too.

Good luck in whatever you decide.

I just want to say that yes, I have been in that situation, but again, it was a horrible idea for us to get back together. The thing that you have to remember is there is a REASON they are your ex. And chances are people don't change. I don't mean to be cynacle at all, but you have to approach this situation with extremem caution. Above all else protect your heart.

I only see it working if you have both worked on and sorted out the reasons you broke up in the first place...if not, NO because those reasons still exist!!!!!!!!!!!!

Some people can:

Have an online relationship and nothing else.

Some talk great on the phone.

Some can be best friends.

Others can live together,

And a few can stay married.......

Somtimes things are better left alone...If your happy where your at why would you want to change anything????

nope, wont work!!! both need to move on and leave the past in the past.

I think the most important in relationship is Trust and love if that is lacking, there is no point in hanging there....

???
K

That doesn't sound healthy at all.

The first queation to ask is: WHY is she an EX? If there is still love and compatability there..yes maybe you can...but if not...move on!!! There is so much fish in the sea!!

We both let go of each other

A long time ago

So much better that way

any one want her take her out of my hair plz

I have completely let go of my ex and moved on, but he i fear will never let go.
Our marriage was a very rocky abusive one and he still stalks me to this day!