The relationship you speak of sounds TOXIC to me .....

it's the recipe for disaster and building the perfect beast.

cut your losses and move on....

Hey Redd,

You sounded like Dr. Phil for a minute... lol!

Bayarea.....

Don't make me use My Hannibal Lecture mind power on You smarty pants.....

I don't wanna look through the mental skelatons in your closet.......LOL!!!!!!!!

lmao!!!

ooooo. I'm shaking!

Ex's are ex's for a reason, this guy I'm with now is the first one I ever went back to, because I separated from him on good terms simply to make sure he was my heart's desire. If you separate because it just wasn't working, what makes you think it will work again?

I could never get back together w/ any of my ex(s). To me, when a relationship is kaput, it is over.

My mom and dad were perfect examples of the yo-yo affect. There is no doubt that the both of them loved each other very much, but my dad's mother was a bit too much for my mother. Hell, my dad's mother was a bit too much for anyone including me. I could understand why they went there seperate ways after about 8yrs of breaking up and getting back together. Dad eventually found a new love, however it took my mother over 10yrs to get over my dad even though I think that deep down she was still in love w/ him.

Before anyone claims that this was sweet, please realize that I watched my mother's heart break over and over again in hopes that there was still a chance. My mother was a wonderful and beautiful person that deserved to be loved and cherished. Instead, there was a loneliness that her children could not quite fill.

I realize that we cannot help how we feel, that the affairs of the heart are never easy, and it is almost always better to have loved, but unrequited love is not romantic. It is a disservice to you and to the person that you love. If possible, make a choice. Choose to take that risk at love and lay your cards down or accept your losses.

Good luck everyone.

Hmmmmmm..A lot of "It can't work now, it didn.t work the first time" comments...

I say that if it's meant to be, then it will be...maybe you need time away from eachother to appreciate what you had...
Take a long hard honest at the relationship, go over hte pro's and con's and make sure your HEART is in the right place...

I am back with my one of my ex's after 20 years...we both remarried after breaking up, but life kept crossing our paths...this time, we are both more mature and sure of what we want in life...and can appreciate what the other has to offer...and we are so in love, like a couple of teenagers...lol!

Can it work for you, I dunno...I hope so...I say, Do what your heart tells you to do...only YOU know that for sure!!!

Its the Sex isn,t it.

And just whom might that be SCG? lol

(elwood)
Hey there My big Sully monster..