What are you men hiding when you don't answer some questions?
The ones that seem to be unanswered often are: Marital Status & Smoking. Why not be honest?
I will definitely not be the slight bit interested if a fellow isn't up front & honest as to marital status - don't want to be played a fool again & as for smoking, just basically allergic as it makes me cough & trouble breathing.
Honesty ranks high on my 'must have list'.

That's our little secret.

I am not a man but I got on this site initially for dating and I stay for the social life with friend friends. I am not interested in dating right this minute so most of mine are blank to express I am NOT serious about finding someone.

Though my experience has been as such that blank in relationship field. Still in a relationship. Blank in kids. Has kids. Blank in smoking. Smokes.

"oral"....yes

"Vaginal"....ok

"anal"...occasionally

"other"....all the time.....

What about the women who don't answer questions?

I think people sometimes get referred here from other sites because the know someone so they are not that interested in putting all their info up there.

Some times people come on site looking to see if their significant other, or their friends, is here. Something I don't get because if you doubt then not much left of the relationship.

Maybe it is the con artists that are more into finding out information than they are about giving it out.

And of course some of it is just people who are not that good at computers and just jump around thinking they will come back later when they have more time to hunt and peck the information in.

The only positive thing I can say about
unanswered questions is, that they have
not taken the opportunity to lie, they
have instead, said nothing.

This actually could bode well.
At least until you hear the answers.

I agree.If they don't have time to fill out the questions,then they won't have time for a relationship.Or are hiding something!
j.m.o.

Yes, I know it goes both ways, men & women. I guess they have their reasons, but it is frustrating when checking profiles. Sorry, didn't mean to offend anyone, I should know that not everyone is completely honest.

Sorry - didn't mean to offend anyone - men or ladies.

Thanks for your reply. Everything you said makes sense & I'm glad you gave those reasons.

I interpret this as a polite way of saying "if you have any questions or interest in the person's profile you've viewed...just ask them"

I have discovered that evasive people are often creeps. Best to avoid them all together.

Not me. I am women only.

From an experienced moderator, i can honestly say this. Those who do not complete a profile, either in haste to go fishing, or in haste to scam people, will likely not receive many replies.

For the honest folks, you should fill out your profile, if you expect results.

Who wants to reply to a bunch of "no answer" ?

The honest people will want to share, and they will say what they are about, and what they are seeking, in a significant other.

Here's the bottom line. If the person is half hearted enough to leave the profile blank, or very few answers, then how much heart would they put into a real relationship?

Food for thought, there, guys

Offence comes from within :-)

It's conversation starter material...

Or the women with only 1 pic in their profile and it's of their dog/cat/bird/group of girls/their kid(s) but not them instead. I know looks aren't everything but it just irks me when I'm searching profiles and come across that. And I apologize ahead of time. I know a post like this should probably be in the "What pisses you off" thread. I just thought it worked with what this members quote.

Sometimes I'd rather they said nothing, than to lie about whatever it is. Some truths are actually not worth the trouble. Especially if you end up finding out they're a murderer or other things. I think you know the type of truths I'm talking about. There are some true sicko's on dating sites, that deserve to be single. And hell yeah i said deserve. Especially child molesters.

This just has to be said.
I don't believe people are hiding anything necessarily. For one, I would never share anything online with strangers that I do not feel comfortable sharing. There is a limit to a open book for the public to know when it concerns me.
That said...I know others do share this opinion. It is personal preference however, I just wont do it.