What attracts you most in a partner?

Here are a few examples: physical appearance, I.Q., Financial status, Emotions, Self-confidence, Sexual attraction, Overall personality, Status in society, Other (you name it), etc.

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for me its defenatly personality that counts the most. Of course i like a girl with a pretty face but if she's a giant bich with no sense of humor then i wont even consider giving her the time of day. Beauty fades but someone who you can genuinely get along with and make you feel amazing can last a lifetime

It starts with the physical. Which is different for all of us. After that, it's all about how she and I connect. We can be totally different, and yet we could conntect on so many levels. This is why I say I don't have a "type".

Self-confidence is the only thing that attracts me to partner, appearance matters less cos i newly discovered that ugly woman are more preserved Lol.though its not funny

a slim to avarge Blond female,no kids. and has a funny and bubbly personality. How wealthy she is and if she drinks or smokes or has pets does'nt matter.

oh man

christian values, intelligence, experience, a balance of confidence and humility, chivalry, love of family, broad shoulders, pretty smile, masculine 'swag' in how they walk and talk,,,,


to name a few,,,

Femininity. The way she moves, speaks and thinks. She's soft and vulnerble. Women seem to lose it with age.

Someone who makes me laugh and who is happy with me for who I am , not who they think they can make me.

If the "Vibe" is intact everything else falls into place. And I might say only people with the "Vibe" understand that. When I have made exceptions to this for whatever reason the results have been unacceptable. Love after all is about acceptance.

Self confidence, first and foremost ..sincerity & humor. Sexual appeal and appearance plays a part ..but not the main thing.

Complete reassurance to me that he is always wrong. There's a lot of qualities you can look for in someone. A laundry list of traits to keep you interested. I appreciate when a dude knows how to chill and be himself. The connection is present and not contrived. First and foremost can he be dominated? Ahh, that remains the question that has plagued philosophers to this day.

A good looking body, and deaf/mute works for me!




I am kidding. There's different types of attraction, and I can be attracted to different men for different things. As far as a partner, I have never been attracted to a certain type, but the things that are most attractive to me, other then the physical part, is maturity, and an ability to communicate. Also, a sense of humor(without being immature) is important also.

kind, compassionate, truthful, considerate, helpful, happy, loving, understanding.

What attracts me most is if we share common morals, values, and beliefs, if we are seeking the similar things in life. As far as physical preferences, I have none. I can appreciate beauty in all its in all its shapes, sizes, colors, and any other way it displays itself.

My last girlfriend was extremely physical. Her multiple orgasams soon turned into my own. It was amazing.....hoping to find that again!

I'm not that picky when it comes to the physical. But one thing that I have noticed in my choice of men, is that they all have brown eyes. I am such a sucker for brown-eyed men.

Personality-wise: I like to look for a man who can make me laugh. Who knows exactly what he wants out of life. Honest, caring and an optimist. This may sound a little weird, but the possessiveness turns me on, but not when it becomes an issue and he's snarling at every guy who looks my way or even talks to me. I am very family oriented and a man who loves his family and can respect the relationship I have with mine is another important thing.

Looks i tend to go for the quite shy looking type but as im a bit quite i want someone friendly with a sence of humour as i find it easier to relax and chat then,someone gentle,caring,
affectionate i adore cuddles,and reliability i hate being cancelled on or stood up.esp ten minutes before the date.loyalty,
vunrebility.and we have to have things in common

I agree Michael, it's all about the vibe for me toO....

I agree in part...

I wouldnt know I have not had my wheels spun in too long... too busy with school and study...