see in my case i can talk to a woman in public and on the phone on general topics but if its someone I am interested in then I get very shy and tend to clam up and when I talk I cannot get out what I want to say. So needless to say I am not a very aggressive person

@Tammy, might be scammers, they do that a lot to as many profiles as they can and they disappear for a month. Then they drop a note. So don't be discouraged.

@Romeo1975, your pic is too funny, I know that show with Al Bundy, was hysterical back in the day!.

I too get shy around first meets and nervous. Oh well, what can you do, it is what it is, so I try to find an outdoor activity, maybe an art festival or something, where we can walk and talk together, takes the pressure off for me. Best to you both.

I won't make the first move because of my position right now.

I want a woman to read my profile and understand what she is setting herself up for first. Then I'll either be friends or be interested and let her know it.

That is smart oldhippie1952 and I wish you well there. I hope things turn around for you.

My moves make small children cry and older people faint.
Whaddayagonnado?

Back in the day? It's still funny now!

That's right, Pumpkin.

They will. It just takes time to get back up sometimes.

Lemme know if you change your mind.

I just had to take a calculated risk based on all the received data which some women term as hints. I was like drowning in hints. For as much as she is screwed up differently than me the fact remains that what she is terming humanist is just actually traditionalist wrapped up in another package with pretty bows on it.

Well all I know is I am going to "Keep On, Movin' On". AND I am going out of this world kicking! I refuse to look back and "wish I had of". No, not me!.....

It was freaky actually. I had to actually be picky. Here is this one offering a part time FWB where some of the benefits are guilt, shame, and the degradation of just being a boy toy. And simultaneously this other one is offering just friendship but the kind of friendship that is so real with no guilt, shame and degradation. :) Instead of being chosen; I chose to make the first move by just being honest.

I always change my mind, change is constant!

The only thing that is...

LOL I'm in that same boat as you.
But I have to remember they can only say yes or no and if they say no...then forget them and on to the next.

Well when you visit me your getting a bib.

well mg1959, it better be a sexy bib, lace and all......