Topic: --- Why are you still single? ---
joy4gud's photo
Sun 11/04/12 09:45 PM
frustrated frustrated frustrated i don't understand it any more, iam not just single, iam lonely also sad sad

Foliel's photo
Sun 11/04/12 10:04 PM
I am single now because I chose to be. My ex was lying to me, cheating on me, treating me like an atm, emotionally and mentally abusing me, and I finally decided that this was not the life I wanted.

Yes, I get lonely, but its better than the feelings I had while I was with him.

wux's photo
Sun 11/04/12 10:11 PM

I'm sure you've had friends, colleagues, family, ask you this question. Why do you think you are single?




1. I have no friends, never had any.

2. Colleagues couldn't care less whether I eat breakfast with King Kong and do the rhumba with Eva Braun.

3. My family is too painfully aware why this I never got married. Esp. my exes and the grandchildren.

Why do I think I am single? I loved my wife too much. I knew she'd be incomparably better off if I never married her.

In fact, she is still completely unaware of my existence. Her name is Raquel Welch, then she anglocised it to Morgan Fairchild in the seventies.

doz6pack's photo
Sun 11/04/12 10:47 PM
cuz i'm unattractive... sigh...

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Sun 11/04/12 10:52 PM


I'm sure you've had friends, colleagues, family, ask you this question. Why do you think you are single?




1. I have no friends, never had any.

2. Colleagues couldn't care less whether I eat breakfast with King Kong and do the rhumba with Eva Braun.

3. My family is too painfully aware why this I never got married. Esp. my exes and the grandchildren.

Why do I think I am single? I loved my wife too much. I knew she'd be incomparably better off if I never married her.

In fact, she is still completely unaware of my existence. Her name is Raquel Welch, then she anglocised it to Morgan Fairchild in the seventies.


Wishful thinking and these daydreams of yours won't change your situation, nor mine. Morgan Fairchild may never come your way again but that doesn't mean there is no hope. At least, that's what I keep telling myself...


wux's photo
Sun 11/04/12 11:13 PM



Wishful thinking and these daydreams of yours won't change your situation, nor mine. Morgan Fairchild may never come your way again but that doesn't mean there is no hope. At least, that's what I keep telling myself...




The daydreams do change my situation. It changes it by making me less uptight about the whole thing.

In fact, I had to decide at age twenty-five, after about five unsuccessful suicide attempts, whether I should continue with my then current lifestyle, or take up humour as a hobby.

When you can laugh at your own jokes, and then later, years later, when others start to laugh at your jokes, then the issue of "hope" loses a lot of its edge.

My recipe.

csanc16's photo
Sun 11/04/12 11:14 PM
why i am still single..?? frustrated

csanc16's photo
Sun 11/04/12 11:16 PM
im here^^:banana:

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Sun 11/04/12 11:25 PM




Wishful thinking and these daydreams of yours won't change your situation, nor mine. Morgan Fairchild may never come your way again but that doesn't mean there is no hope. At least, that's what I keep telling myself...




The daydreams do change my situation. It changes it by making me less uptight about the whole thing.

In fact, I had to decide at age twenty-five, after about five unsuccessful suicide attempts, whether I should continue with my then current lifestyle, or take up humour as a hobby.

When you can laugh at your own jokes, and then later, years later, when others start to laugh at your jokes, then the issue of "hope" loses a lot of its edge.

My recipe.


Humor me then and give this 'young' thirty year old your wisdom. I thought I had a good marriage but that ended abruptly and now you and I are in the same situation. I find it easy to be cynical and at times I'm just that, tell me there's hope. That's what I want to hear. Tell me it's all going to be alright. If not, at least make a good joke about it



csanc16's photo
Sun 11/04/12 11:44 PM
dont say that.. they r not worthy.. hehe.. love urself.. peace

shareahug's photo
Mon 11/05/12 06:43 AM
Single...because I'm widowed....and haven't met anyone who wants to be in a realtionship....no one has an Uncle Bill..or brother Bob..so I am on dating sites...learning here..stopped looking...I'm hopeing after years of being alone that I don't become used to it...so far I was good for well over a year...just starting to hate it...I know me ..if I get used to it ..I will be alone the rest of my life...so sad..waving

jeanpaulaparicio's photo
Wed 11/07/12 02:00 PM
The reason why im single is because I broke th heart of the only woman Ive ever loved........And I wasnt unfaithful for all you wonderings ears out there... I was just too afraid to fall in love and well we all know hw that story goes hot kid hot girl boy just fumbles the ball....Doh!!!!!!

no photo
Wed 11/07/12 02:32 PM
Marriage is a contract with THE STATE.
Two people can make a contract with each other without the STATE having their fingers in it.

I don't understand why we think we have to rely on the government to make our contracts for us.


Muaness's photo
Thu 11/08/12 02:02 AM
Edited by Muaness on Thu 11/08/12 02:03 AM
...because I am afraid of landing on a wrong Island

lionsbrew's photo
Thu 11/08/12 12:32 PM
Because life happens and continues to happen.

msmyka's photo
Thu 11/08/12 02:51 PM
Because it's probably better that way

Tessaar's photo
Mon 11/12/12 01:44 AM
... I've got standards. I'm happy with me self!


I'm able to calm my pu*** down.

Tessaar's photo
Mon 11/12/12 01:44 AM
... I've got standards. I'm happy with me self!


I'm able to calm my pu*** down.

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Mon 11/12/12 09:00 AM
Edited by SpankyC on Mon 11/12/12 09:03 AM
I'm a widower! Just crossed out of my 40's into the my 50's!I'm short, chubby. I don't have washboard abs. I don't have a motorcycle. Short legs prevent me from owning one. I have a few tattoos and all my teeth!

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 11/12/12 12:30 PM

I'm sure you've had friends, colleagues, family, ask you this question. Why do you think you are single?




Only New Men I meet, ask me this question.laugh
Friends, colleagues, family know me and know why.