What do you think?

I just started a new job this weekend and already got asked out by a co-worker; she said I was hilarious. I have dated women who expected me to a trained monkey and say something funny on demand. ( rarely try to be funny, but watched too many Marx Bros movies growing up). Lately, it appears that I have only attracted women interested in my wallet more than in me.

Do we give out vibes that attract certain people? Is this an issue of working on our own value vs trying to "impress" or get someone's "attention"?

Yes! We definitely give out vibes. More accurately is the idea that we are vibrating constantly. We are made of energy the rate of which varies depending on your emotions (happy is higher vibration, sad is lower vibration for example). We are drawn to people who have a similar vibration as ours. That's why people keep making the same mistake and finding the same kind of person to date or marry. Second and third marriages can feel like we are re-living our past. We have to work on ourselves and raise our own vibration to attract a better partner to break the cycle.

I think we do, I have always seemed to attract men who needed me.
Pretty much someone who wanted to be looked after. Normally they were pretty confident but seemed to lack self control, and where definately controlling and dominant.
But then again,I am easy going, always happy, I tend to like looking after people, being needed and don't mind being told what to do, so I guess because of those things, dominent men don't find me to be a problem..
Bummer I am the problem

yes, we work to hard to 'attract' someone, when attraction should be natural and not forced, it shouldnt be something we 'worked' at doing, it should be something that happened becase of how we naturally carry ourself,,,

It really sucks when the only one you can blame is yourself.

You know sometimes saying no is the best answer. We lack disapline. Its like walking away and not knowing what if?,You lack the ability to do that for your own wants from that person so its two sided. Its a rule that falls on honesty to yourself,and you wonder if that person is honest and your being the liar to yourself. Who isn't attracted to money and sex we would be lieing,its just the right person we seek to get it from,dosent't matter who we use to get there,but we do. Love falls in place some where depends on the person and there values.Ask a homeless guy the same question see what he would say when one has lost everything nothng seems to really matter but love in the soul that real love.

I hope not. The only people who are attracted to me are the ones I would never consider getting involved with. This is certainly not due to anything intentional on my part.



I don't know about that. I don't make any real effort to get anyone's attention or be noticed. If they're going to be impressed, that's great, but it's not something I want to put a lot of calculation and time into. It's not like their being impressed is going to do me any good....

You my dear are right on the money. Because we don't take the time to understand vibrations and our energy driven bodies we miss out on our own abilities. Ruts are something we make. Their not something other people do to us.

fantasic post!

I am not really sure if that is how it goes down. However, there has seemed to be a trend on the types of men that I have dated. On the same token though.. I also notice that the men I dated did range in personality and needs (if any) .
So what I am saying here ..in about a paragraph or two is...maybe.