Ha! Ha! That is funny! Grab her by her hair and drag her home! LMAO!!! Look you either going to get a yea or a na,and besides woman know what a guy wants.Its our fault but its soooooo! gooooooooooood! Dont kid yourself they want it too,but they think about composure. Theres always a loop hole,got to hold them right but not touch,you can caress her heart and soul,your blind by your intentions,your focus should be tomorrow not right now,who dosent want dinner and breakfeast in the morning. well gd luck

So that is the secret. *takes notes*

Anyway. the same as everything else. It is not like sex is some sort of criminal sin. You can have a serious honest discussion with each other about it just like anything else.

I have been introduced to different thing by different partners, these things greatly aroused me but are not "mainstream". There is a possibility if I just threw out what I would like it might be received badly, or not I don't know. I just know I would like to do it more and a bad judge of how a girl being asked to do these things might react. Sex is a topic I can discuss openly with people but never much indepth or about real intimacy, I find it awkward to be personal about what I want.

Depends on the person. I have had girlfriends in the past that love to talk about it.

I don't talk about it with them. We just do it.

this was an extremely funny response.

I do not even understand the question. Are you an adult?

Sometimes people that have been involved in a relationship for a very long time come out of it with the emotional skills they had at the age the relationship began. This doesn't make them any less of an adult. Just emotionally inexperienced.

Use sock puppets?

It depends on how you define adult...I will try to clarify, you learn about things you have never heard of while you are partying in Waikiki for example, you are anonomous you don't have to worry about being judged by anyone, you probably will never see them again, you can do anything. Then you move back to the town you are from. The things you did while you were away are considered a lot out of the box now, everyone knows everyone. How much can you tell without risking social suicide if someone takes it wrong?