How do you talk about sex with the opposite sex??????

I'll get back to you on that.

? How do you not?

first, you must say that you are open about such things, and appreciate any offerings

LOLLLLL your not serious are you?

Having sex would be a good segue into the conversation...

Is there anything particular you need to know? Or want your partner to know? Just ask or say what you have to say. It is really not that hard.

you'll need legos to begin the whole presentation.

I have found first off usually unless you utilize a public forum like this, don't ask a man about sex unless you are interested in sex with him because it seems to go there.

But I have had a couple of conversations online that were pretty open and did not lead to anything else.

I think the issue is that sex is kinda personal so one woman's turn on is anothers turn off. Making it not really informative to speak to those you are not involved with. Men seem to be individual also in this area.

How old are you???? You've never had a conversation with a woman about Sex? Ya buy him a book.......Poor guy I'm sorry maybe he's still a virgin......

I'm sorry that was rude...... your not joking I just read your profile ......I thought you were Joking!
Well just bring up the subject and see how she reacts........ be honest if you have a direct question I'm sure you can find the topic on here and ask your qu
estions here.......Honesty is the best policy!

It would depend, some people feel very comfortable, some slight comfortable and so will never talk about it (sex).

Personally, I would start a thread and see who responds...

Some people like to talk about it.
Others just do it.

how can you not???

That was well put..... you have a great way with words!

I use myself as a prop.

same way you talk about where yer goin to dinner!!!!

Ya JUST Talk!!!!

Can always point and say "Look! He is happy to see you!"

Dos and donts of talking to a member of the opposite sex:

dos

- try to be not vulgar before you know for sure how the other won't object

- if talking about sexual preferences before the act, that is, what you like and what you don't tolerate in the bedroom, then you must be willing to risk a rejection. For instance, a man only has sex via oral-to-genital, and woman can't stand that; or a woman likes to tie up her partner, and the man won't hear of that. These must be discussed, and must be agreed upon before the act, and can be a reason for rejection.

- if your new friend is a shaman, or a medicine man or medicine woman, and you go over to his or her place for the first time, ALWAYS check under the bed for gichimanitus.


donts:

- don't make the topic of conversation a comparative study of her skills and know-how and inhibitions vis-a-vis your other lovers.

- don't make fun of his size, or his short duration (both can be referred to as "shortcomings") and especially don't make fun of him for it, unless he is your father.

- after you pull off her panties, don't hold your nose, and turn to the side, saying 'Ewwwww... this sure stinks'.

- Don't always take just any glass of tomato juice when you visit her. Especially if it has short, thick, curly hairs in it.

- Don't feel you have to go through the ordeal, if he pulls out a big box from under the bed, takes a bunch of metal things out of it, and starts to assemble something, which he says will be 'fun'. In fact, run for your life, even if you are naked. This, I admit, can be hard, if he is very handsome, tall, and good looking, or else if you are already tied to the bed.

- etc.

Probably the way you do any other sensitive topic. With consideration to the subject and the lperson you are talking to. I generally would be aware of the surroundings. In todays world where people tend to say anything anywhere I would be careful about not createing a reputation you do not want. It is one of those conversations that once the "Genie is out of the bottle" it is kind of hard to get it back in.

If you are wanting to have "the talk" with a potential partner you might want to think about what the implications are in your questions becasue not everyone is willing to tell you the truth or keep their mouth shut if you tell your business.

I would recommend having a conversation with a good urologist so if you don't know as much or no more than the average man you would actually have some facts. Planned Parenthood or your local health department would have some useful materialsis that is usually free.

I would definitely consider the source of any "educational" materials and discount anything that most of the "mens" magazines put out there becasue a lot of it is BS. I don't know that a definitve source has been written for men but the book Our Bodies Ourselves is just about required reading (or should be ) for any consderate partner. Then at least you can have and intelligent conversation. Well if you have a well educated conversation partner. I am often surprised by the miss information that comes out of women about their own bodies.