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Topic: Cliques
prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Mon 03/12/12 11:22 AM
How do u see them & relate yourself with them. In my opinion many people thinks that theirs is friends group & can never be termed as cliques,but is that true?

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 03/12/12 11:24 AM
Are you talking about here? It used to be pretty bad here with cliquish groups, but not so much now.

TxsGal3333 Joined Tue 09/05/06 Posts: 76412	Mon 03/12/12 11:25 AM
Humm I see them as people that have nothing better in life but to gossip about others ..........to make themselves look better........... How do I deal with them I don't I ignore them and move to the beat to my own drum.....don't have to be in a group I tend to fly alone....

soufiehere Joined Sat 10/24/09 Posts: 45377	Mon 03/12/12 11:29 AM
Mmmm, I do NOT like it when they travel in packs and takeover threads. With talk about..nothing. Otherwise, the herd all looks the same to me.

Unknow Joined Thu 04/01/10 Posts: 1482	Mon 03/12/12 11:32 AM
Mmmm, I do NOT like it when they travel in packs and takeover threads. With talk about..nothing. Otherwise, the herd all looks the same to me. ditto

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Mon 03/12/12 11:55 AM
Are you talking about here? It used to be pretty bad here with cliquish groups, but not so much now. I'm not talking about here,as here they are easily avoidable. For me,this place is particularity meant for getting good advice from wise people who usually advice you for your betterment only as they don't have any concern with you in real life. The worst I suffered is from the cliques at college & now at works. Having bound with some principles,I restrict myself from joining any groups in an organization,but I always found that they are always trying to make me joining their party by hook or crook & when not responded,I usually get to know something(their views ) about myself from their opponents. They usually go down to the unbelievable levels too.

RavenousSin Joined Thu 02/23/12 Posts: 666	Mon 03/12/12 12:01 PM
Didn't like them back in high school years, don't like them in current years.

Shy_Emo_chick Joined Fri 04/01/11 Posts: 4393	Mon 03/12/12 12:07 PM
I don't see myself as part of any clique. I'd rather just talk to anyone who seems friendly. That's enough for me.

pyxxie13 Joined Wed 09/28/11 Posts: 3835	Mon 03/12/12 12:09 PM
I never really paid much attention to it. If I want to talk to someone I will, and if I don't.. I move along. No one person is better than another or myself to that matter.

singmesweet Joined Mon 07/28/08 Posts: 26661	Mon 03/12/12 12:19 PM
Are you talking about here? It used to be pretty bad here with cliquish groups, but not so much now. I'm not talking about here,as here they are easily avoidable. For me,this place is particularity meant for getting good advice from wise people who usually advice you for your betterment only as they don't have any concern with you in real life. The worst I suffered is from the cliques at college & now at works. Having bound with some principles,I restrict myself from joining any groups in an organization,but I always found that they are always trying to make me joining their party by hook or crook & when not responded,I usually get to know something(their views ) about myself from their opponents. They usually go down to the unbelievable levels too. I don't really notice them and I'm not a part of any.

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Mon 03/12/12 01:47 PM Edited by prashant01 on Mon 03/12/12 01:49 PM
Are you talking about here? It used to be pretty bad here with cliquish groups, but not so much now. I'm not talking about here,as here they are easily avoidable. For me,this place is particularity meant for getting good advice from wise people who usually advice you for your betterment only as they don't have any concern with you in real life. The worst I suffered is from the cliques at college & now at works. Having bound with some principles,I restrict myself from joining any groups in an organization,but I always found that they are always trying to make me joining their party by hook or crook & when not responded,I usually get to know something(their views ) about myself from their opponents. They usually go down to the unbelievable levels too. I don't really notice them and I'm not a part of any. GENERALLY speaking,I strongly believe that there are chances of one not noticing that he / she is a part of a clique.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Mon 03/12/12 01:54 PM
I try to avoid cliques (in real life and online) Just too much drama for this mama I do my own thing

rara777 Joined Thu 10/18/07 Posts: 61408	Mon 03/12/12 01:57 PM
Is the clique the same as a herd of cattle going no where?

Optomistic69 Joined Mon 10/10/11 Posts: 5173	Mon 03/12/12 02:00 PM
I have experienced the baying mob on more than one site. These dating sites are notorious for their little gangs of overgrown schoolchildren who cry to the moderators every time someone says BOO.....just saying. There is a way to deal with problems outside the site privately but that would be too logical for some.

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Mon 03/12/12 02:03 PM
Is the clique the same as a herd of cattle going no where? Soffie used same term "herd"

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Mon 03/12/12 02:24 PM
I would never join a group that would have me as a member.....

motowndowntown Joined Wed 11/19/08 Posts: 21723	Mon 03/12/12 03:34 PM
Oops sorry. I thought this was going to be about what you do with mouse buttons.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 03/12/12 03:51 PM
Mmmm, I do NOT like it when they travel in packs and takeover threads. With talk about..nothing. Otherwise, the herd all looks the same to me. As we say it in Hungarian, "in the dark all cows are black." Not a racist statement, btw, because until 1986 there has been one Black African Resident in living memory living in Hungary, in total. Mine, however, can be viewed, yes, as a rather very sexist statement. Each to his own.

wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Mon 03/12/12 03:52 PM
How do u see them & relate yourself with them. In my opinion many people thinks that theirs is friends group & can never be termed as cliques,but is that true? A better question would be, I think, "How do you use cliques, and what is the basic colour arrangement for most of them." And as to your question, "is that true", I don't think even Socrates could answer a yes or a no. The issue way more complicated than that.

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Tue 03/13/12 11:00 AM
Oops sorry. I thought this was going to be about what you do with mouse buttons. So u cliques or not?? at least with mouse buttons??