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Topic: What makes a man a man?
DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Sat 02/04/12 07:55 PM
I would like to hear you're opinions on what makes a man a man, we all know the stereotyped version. Ruff and rugged never cries only thinks with the little head in his pants. We all know men do cry and that in a lot of ways women are a lot tougher then us so,,,,, What man like qualities do you find important for a man to have, and is it important for a man to meet that stereotype.

bhernandez Joined Sun 03/21/10 Posts: 14901	Sat 02/04/12 08:00 PM
beard.

massagetrade Joined Thu 02/22/07 Posts: 8505	Sat 02/04/12 08:01 PM
beard. I knew that was coming.

DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Sat 02/04/12 08:03 PM
Some women have those too though...

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 02/04/12 08:05 PM
I use my Dad as my example of what I should be.... Strong, capable, independant, good natured, careing, giving, thoughtful, sincere, dumb as schitt some days, loving, hard working, and very faithful. Always the shoulder to lean on. The encouraging word. The silent act of just doing the right thing at the right time....whether it is drying a tear, or kissing an owwie...or going to work or war for your loved ones.... Real men stand out as men among men

DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Sat 02/04/12 08:09 PM
I use my Dad as my example of what I should be.... Strong, capable, independant, good natured, careing, giving, thoughtful, sincere, dumb as schitt some days, loving, hard working, and very faithful. Always the shoulder to lean on. The encouraging word. The silent act of just doing the right thing at the right time....whether it is drying a tear, or kissing an owwie...or going to work or war for your loved ones.... Real men stand out as men among men I like that With this outlook and you're looks I would say you would make any women happy :)

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 02/04/12 08:11 PM
Actually, I ain't that great looking Big Daddy... I just carry myself like I am. It works out pretty good.

ybcat1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 530	Sat 02/04/12 08:22 PM
I love men who can be honest, and a man of his word. That tells me that I can depend on and trust him. Even if he can't fulfill what he said he'd do, at least I'd want him to be honest about it and not just try and make excuses. I like a man who's open, and who doesn't feel like it's a weakness to confide in his woman. Just of couple of things I like in men.

ybcat1 Joined Sat 12/29/07 Posts: 530	Sat 02/04/12 08:23 PM
I use my Dad as my example of what I should be.... Strong, capable, independant, good natured, careing, giving, thoughtful, sincere, dumb as schitt some days, loving, hard working, and very faithful. Always the shoulder to lean on. The encouraging word. The silent act of just doing the right thing at the right time....whether it is drying a tear, or kissing an owwie...or going to work or war for your loved ones.... Real men stand out as men among men

DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Sat 02/04/12 08:24 PM
I like a man who's open, and who doesn't feel like it's a weakness to confide in his woman. I like this as well although most women I have met so far have not felt this way. :(

krupa Joined Thu 07/03/08 Posts: 18651	Sat 02/04/12 08:37 PM
Just give it time Brother. Nothing comes easy but, it does come.

mvsraj Joined Thu 01/12/12 Posts: 49	Sat 02/04/12 08:39 PM
I would like to hear you're opinions on what makes a man a man, we all know the stereotyped version. Ruff and rugged never cries only thinks with the little head in his pants. We all know men do cry and that in a lot of ways women are a lot tougher then us so,,,,, What man like qualities do you find important for a man to have, and is it important for a man to meet that stereotype. . I think its his ability or the presence of mind to understand and respect others thoughts boldly.

Ghostrider2u Joined Thu 05/17/07 Posts: 6953	Sat 02/04/12 09:33 PM
Ummmmmmm................. I think the..... Penis Is a dead giveaway!!!!!!

DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Sat 02/04/12 09:36 PM
Ummmmmmm................. I think the..... Penis Is a dead giveaway!!!!!! lol I do not make it a habit of putting my hand in to strangers pants, so if it was left to that I may make a few mistakes lmfao. I meant more personality traits then physical though.

AdventureBegins Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 7666	Sat 02/04/12 09:39 PM
Some women have those too though... Aye because DNA is a spectrum and not a line. Yet in the broadest range of that spectrum men have hair where women have but folicles. I also believe a man should cultivate a beard. God gave it to me. I wear it proudly.

Bravalady Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 1034	Sat 02/04/12 09:40 PM
Actually, I ain't that great looking Big Daddy... I just carry myself like I am. It works out pretty good. This thing about the way a man carries himself actually matters a lot to me. I admit I'm not going to be attracted to someone who's way overweight or just plain homely. But a man who is kind of plain, but carries himself with confidence and looks people in the eye, really stands out in a crowd.

DaddyTime Joined Wed 02/01/12 Posts: 530	Sat 02/04/12 09:44 PM
but carries himself with confidence and looks people in the eye, really stands out in a crowd. Agreed

wolfchic Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 8036	Sat 02/04/12 10:08 PM
I use my Dad as my example of what I should be.... Strong, capable, independant, good natured, careing, giving, thoughtful, sincere, dumb as schitt some days, loving, hard working, and very faithful. Always the shoulder to lean on. The encouraging word. The silent act of just doing the right thing at the right time....whether it is drying a tear, or kissing an owwie...or going to work or war for your loved ones.... Real men stand out as men among men I second that!

DontBrakeMyHeart1 Joined Sat 02/04/12 Posts: 18	Sat 02/04/12 10:25 PM
I like a man who's open, and who doesn't feel like it's a weakness to confide in his woman. I like this as well although most women I have met so far have not felt this way. :( I must be the odd ball then... i am shore i am not though keep looking!

josie68 Joined Mon 11/22/10 Posts: 6270	Sat 02/04/12 10:54 PM Edited by josie68 on Sat 02/04/12 10:55 PM
I guess for me a real man is someone who can be himself. I come from a family that is full of macho men and although they are great, but the uncle who I thought was the best and always wanted to marry someone like, was gentle and caring, he laughed and loved easily. So to me a man is just someone who can be himself. It doesnt really matter if he is macho or gentle, or a mixture of both. Just being man enough to be himself, to me is being a real man.