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my ideal man has to be stronger emotionally than me cause sometimes in a relationship couples engage themselves in psychological warfare example if me and my guy are fighting and he insults me I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of him and the one mistake he can make is cry infront of me...if my guy is emotionally weaker than I am then he's a woos and I have no business being with him This I strongly disagree with this and my main concern is this part. I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of hi why would you do this? |
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Edited by
DaddyTime
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Sun 02/05/12 04:32 PM
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my ideal man has to be stronger emotionally than me cause sometimes in a relationship couples engage themselves in psychological warfare example if me and my guy are fighting and he insults me I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of him and the one mistake he can make is cry infront of me...if my guy is emotionally weaker than I am then he's a woos and I have no business being with him This I strongly disagree with this and my main concern is this part. I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of hi why would you do this? I love a heated debate, but being belittled by my partner is not something I would enjoy to much. When you care deeply for someone their opinion of you means more, to take advantage of that and use it against them to hurt them is not right. It's one thing to stand up for what you believe in it;s another to stand there and continuously insult someone. he may be a wuss is he cries, but he is a B!tch if he stand's there and takes that, if this was the case a real man would drop you like a hot potato the 1st time you pulled that. relationships are about mutual respect and if one is insulting the other and belittling them to the point that crying might be a result then that is a lack of respect. I hear the word emotional abuse used a lot by women for men who do this. |
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I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of him You have more choices here than just being submissive and insulting him in response. You can confidently and assertively give him feedback on how you don't like being spoken to that way. If he doesn't start treating you with respect, you can leave. |
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A guy who wouldn't mind making ME a sandwich.
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A guy who wouldn't mind making ME a sandwich. would you like anything to drink with that? and would you mind pausing the movie till I get back? |
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A guy who wouldn't mind making ME a sandwich. would you like anything to drink with that? and would you mind pausing the movie till I get back? An MGD if you have it, and depends on the movie. 
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Edited by
DaddyTime
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Sun 02/05/12 05:02 PM
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A guy who wouldn't mind making ME a sandwich. would you like anything to drink with that? and would you mind pausing the movie till I get back? An MGD if you have it, and depends on the movie. I don't drink but I always keep a few beverages on hand just in case, and that's fine what rewind was made for :). that is of course if i really cared about the movie and it was not simply an excuse to cuddle . |
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A good woman! :p
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my ideal man has to be stronger emotionally than me cause sometimes in a relationship couples engage themselves in psychological warfare example if me and my guy are fighting and he insults me I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of him and the one mistake he can make is cry infront of me...if my guy is emotionally weaker than I am then he's a woos and I have no business being with him This I strongly disagree with this and my main concern is this part. I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of hi why would you do this? I love a heated debate, but being belittled by my partner is not something I would enjoy to much. When you care deeply for someone their opinion of you means more, to take advantage of that and use it against them to hurt them is not right. It's one thing to stand up for what you believe in it;s another to stand there and continuously insult someone. he may be a wuss is he cries, but he is a B!tch if he stand's there and takes that, if this was the case a real man would drop you like a hot potato the 1st time you pulled that. relationships are about mutual respect and if one is insulting the other and belittling them to the point that crying might be a result then that is a lack of respect. I hear the word emotional abuse used a lot by women for men who do this. |
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my ideal man has to be stronger emotionally than me cause sometimes in a relationship couples engage themselves in psychological warfare example if me and my guy are fighting and he insults me I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of him and the one mistake he can make is cry infront of me...if my guy is emotionally weaker than I am then he's a woos and I have no business being with him This I strongly disagree with this and my main concern is this part. I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of hi why would you do this? I love a heated debate, but being belittled by my partner is not something I would enjoy to much. When you care deeply for someone their opinion of you means more, to take advantage of that and use it against them to hurt them is not right. It's one thing to stand up for what you believe in it;s another to stand there and continuously insult someone. he may be a wuss is he cries, but he is a B!tch if he stand's there and takes that, if this was the case a real man would drop you like a hot potato the 1st time you pulled that. relationships are about mutual respect and if one is insulting the other and belittling them to the point that crying might be a result then that is a lack of respect. I hear the word emotional abuse used a lot by women for men who do this. lol I may be odd but I was kinda attracted to you when you didn't, I am a stand up comedian no one insults me more then me and my opinion matters most to me. I honestly don't see what you could say to hurt me, if you were with me then you would obviously find me attractive and likely enjoy me in bed. So insults along those lines would be baseless and have no effect. anything else meh no big deal might give me an idea for my set lol. So don't change you're beliefs or who you are because of my post, some guy may just be in to that and love you for you. passion is passion and if you love like you fight it may make for a wonderfully chaotic relationship you both enjoy. lol that makes me sound so odd and is not what I want it simply intrigues me. |
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I am reading a bunch of crap here but, none of it got anything to do with being a man.
No one got the right to judge a man for the tears he sheds or the crap he takes....cause the people who are fu**king stupid enough to make that easy judgement ain't the ones holding back thier tears or holding thier tongues when bullets are hitting bone. Judgement is for the pu$$ies who can easily sling words around but ain't got the nuts to step up when it is time to earn some scars by walking into the fire. That is the exact reason I feel so superior around here....I know for a fact that most people are all talk and the ones who ain't got the spine to back up thier bullschitt are the loudest ones. |
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I am reading a bunch of crap here but, none of it got anything to do with being a man. No one got the right to judge a man for the tears he sheds or the crap he takes....cause the people who are fu**king stupid enough to make that easy judgement ain't the ones holding back thier tears or holding thier tongues when bullets are hitting bone. Judgement is for the pu$$ies who can easily sling words around but ain't got the nuts to step up when it is time to earn some scars by walking into the fire. That is the exact reason I feel so superior around here....I know for a fact that most people are all talk and the ones who ain't got the spine to back up thier bullschitt are the loudest ones. I like you, wish you were a women. |
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so you don't mind facial hair then? my ex hated it and still has the nerve to tell me to shave when she comes for visits with the kids. I hope you told her she is not driving your bus anymore. |
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I am reading a bunch of crap here but, none of it got anything to do with being a man. No one got the right to judge a man for the tears he sheds or the crap he takes....cause the people who are fu**king stupid enough to make that easy judgement ain't the ones holding back thier tears or holding thier tongues when bullets are hitting bone. Judgement is for the pu$$ies who can easily sling words around but ain't got the nuts to step up when it is time to earn some scars by walking into the fire. That is the exact reason I feel so superior around here....I know for a fact that most people are all talk and the ones who ain't got the spine to back up thier bullschitt are the loudest ones. I like you, wish you were a women. I could be..if you take me out and get me drunk enough. :) (just don't let my woman catch wind of it....she would kill me) |
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Edited by
DaddyTime
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Sun 02/05/12 05:53 PM
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I am reading a bunch of crap here but, none of it got anything to do with being a man. No one got the right to judge a man for the tears he sheds or the crap he takes....cause the people who are fu**king stupid enough to make that easy judgement ain't the ones holding back thier tears or holding thier tongues when bullets are hitting bone. Judgement is for the pu$$ies who can easily sling words around but ain't got the nuts to step up when it is time to earn some scars by walking into the fire. That is the exact reason I feel so superior around here....I know for a fact that most people are all talk and the ones who ain't got the spine to back up thier bullschitt are the loudest ones. I like you, wish you were a women. I could be..if you take me out and get me drunk enough. :) (just don't let my woman catch wind of it....she would kill me) have not got a date using this site yet so what the hell, i just ask for the same consideration in keeping it private and not be posting mushy stuff on my facebook. might give the wrong impression lol Like I really just want to get in you're pants. |
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A man is a man when he is honest and true to himself. He isn't trying to impress you or his buddies by being something he is not. He can openly communicate to me and be responsible. He can cry or not cry but he can be comfortable doing either. He isn't bossy but has control of his life. He isn't needy but wants to be appreciated. He can spend time with you or without you and not be insecure or jealous. I like this as well but honestly since my ex cheated on my multiple times and did nothing but lie I have trouble with. He can spend time with you or without you and not be insecure or jealous No point in lying about it I have trust issues, but I am sure a lot here do and have had the same issues with past relationships. it will take time I guess but, I will never accept my partner spending alone time with another guy. there is no reason for a you're wife/girlfriend to be alone at some guys house, I don't go to girls houses alone. guys have their guy friends girls have girlfriends and the rest should be shared friends. Like if you're with a group it's cool be to go sit in the dark watching movies all cozy just you and him, I am sorry I just don't think it's right. And it's not that I think you're going to sleep with him. it's just very likely he wants to sleep with you. guys do not just hang out with girls unless they are gay. guys you can tell me im wrong all you want I know you and the nice guy mac it's BS. I don't care if she don't like him, as i know any girl would hate if i was hanging out with a girl a lone and she was hanging all over me. I don't know if this is jealousy or common sense I just know I can't handle that and think it's wrong. what are you're guys opinions on you're partner spending alone time with the opposite sex? and remember neither of you can know if the person they are spending time with want's to sleep with them or not. the other person can say they don't want to all they want just like i could say I don't want to be a millionaire. Having served in the military; I have more male friends than female friends. My male friends do not want to sleep with me and in 15-25 years that I have known them; they have never once made a pass at me. Some are married; some are in relationships; and some are single. There are men that are mature enough to have a friendship with a woman without sex being involved. I have no problem when a guy spends time with his female friends whether its at her house or at a bar. Its called trust and if you don't trust them then you shouldn't be in a relationship with them. I think jealousy ruins a relationship and I also thinks its a childish way to go through life that way. |
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No point in lying about it I have trust issues, but I am sure a lot here do and have had the same issues with past relationships. it will take time I guess but, I will never accept my partner spending alone time with another guy. there is no reason for a you're wife/girlfriend to be alone at some guys house, I don't go to girls houses alone. guys have their guy friends girls have girlfriends and the rest should be shared friends. Like if you're with a group it's cool be to go sit in the dark watching movies all cozy just you and him, I am sorry I just don't think it's right. And it's not that I think you're going to sleep with him. it's just very likely he wants to sleep with you. guys do not just hang out with girls unless they are gay. guys you can tell me im wrong all you want I know you and the nice guy mac it's BS. I don't care if she don't like him, as i know any girl would hate if i was hanging out with a girl a lone and she was hanging all over me. I don't know if this is jealousy or common sense I just know I can't handle that and think it's wrong. what are you're guys opinions on you're partner spending alone time with the opposite sex? and remember neither of you can know if the person they are spending time with want's to sleep with them or not. the other person can say they don't want to all they want just like i could say I don't want to be a millionaire. It sounds like you're very jealous, which may cause issues in relationships in the future. If you can't trust your partner, they're probably not the right one for you. |
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"I would like to hear you're opinions on what makes a man a man,"
The size of his truck of course! 
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I don't speak for men everywhere or anywhere for that matter.
But for me, being a man is just stepping up and doing what my own father was incapable of and taking on my responsibilities in life instead of running from them, and doing it without feeling like everyone else owed me something for it out of some personal grudge with society. |
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A man is a man when he is honest and true to himself. He isn't trying to impress you or his buddies by being something he is not. He can openly communicate to me and be responsible. He can cry or not cry but he can be comfortable doing either. He isn't bossy but has control of his life. He isn't needy but wants to be appreciated. He can spend time with you or without you and not be insecure or jealous. So.......Why am I...... Alone????  You have a sissy bar? Maybe she fell off the back... 
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