Topic: What makes a man a man?
DaddyTime's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:12 PM


I will never accept my partner spending alone time with another guy. there is no reason for a you're wife/girlfriend to be alone at some guys house, I don't go to girls houses alone.


Applaude, Applaude.




is that agreement or sarcasm?

justme659's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:24 PM



I will never accept my partner spending alone time with another guy. there is no reason for a you're wife/girlfriend to be alone at some guys house, I don't go to girls houses alone.


Applaude, Applaude.






is that agreement or sarcasm?


I NEVER do sarcasm. ( Its agreement.) Should I have done one more Applaude so it wouldn't seem sarcastic?

DaddyTime's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:28 PM




I will never accept my partner spending alone time with another guy. there is no reason for a you're wife/girlfriend to be alone at some guys house, I don't go to girls houses alone.


Applaude, Applaude.






is that agreement or sarcasm?


I NEVER do sarcasm. ( Its agreement.) Should I have done one more Applaude so it wouldn't seem sarcastic?


No it's my fault I have not had much social interaction in the last 5 years that was not on an online game.

MariahsFantasy's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:30 PM

OK,,READY?noway

laugh

To be able to LEAD,,as well as you follow.
To be honest in who you really live.

To be open to hear imperfections you have,
and able to be big enough to work on them,
to become more, without seeing them in anger.

To be confident in who you are, and stand behind your judgments made.

YET, to know your only human, and never perfect,yet work to be your best always.

A man needs to be as equal in his thoughts,,as well as in his actions to do. Yet strong enough to compromise when he See's its the best for all, NOT just him.

A man needs to be able to confirm to himself,
that he is His own MAN MADE...person..

He will stand for what he believes,
yet bend to much degree if prov-en wrong.

A man is a man, once he out grows all of his boy within him.

He needs to be able to bring-out his boy within him,,if he feels he's needed to ACT,,and not look at that as wrong, for others to see.

He needs to be a protector, able to ACT in order to save another.
Yet humble enough to know reason over risk of injury to all.

He needs to first,love himself, in order to ever love someone else.

He must have confidants in who HE IS, and project THAT when needed to do, yet meek enough to take others advices without that offending him.

AND,,a man CAN CRY A TEAR,,and STILL BE A MAN,
For its within his inner qualities of manhood EARNED to HAVE and know,
Which allows his tear to flow. (sorry just had to rhyme),lol

Life, Time, and HIS experience WITNESSED,,
builds his manhood inside as its learned, and called,wisdom..

whoa I think thats about it,,,,lol
But to be real,,WE ALL,,MEN AND WOMEN,,LEARN and GROW to become MORE of who we ARE,,and who we are SEEN AS,,,on a daily basis.
and through an openness to hear, reason, and self analyze US.
We grow and become more of (HOPEFULLY) a better adult through that.

BUT,,,see,,,noew THIS IS A BIGGY HERE,,

WE ALL VIEW THE CONCEPTS OF BEING A REAL MAN,
THROUGH THE REAL MEN WE LEARNED THAT THROUGH?

SO,,,we ALL will have different idealisms within who and what made us THINK THAT,,as we grew to become ONE?











Sounds like a hopeless fairytale. I'd like to think they exist. Maybe subconsciously.

justme659's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:47 PM





I will never accept my partner spending alone time with another guy. there is no reason for a you're wife/girlfriend to be alone at some guys house, I don't go to girls houses alone.


Applaude, Applaude.






is that agreement or sarcasm?


I NEVER do sarcasm. ( Its agreement.) Should I have done one more Applaude so it wouldn't seem sarcastic?


No it's my fault I have not had much social interaction in the last 5 years that was not on an online game.


No problem. I guess I should use more smilies. slaphead <--Like that one.

DaddyTime's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:50 PM






I will never accept my partner spending alone time with another guy. there is no reason for a you're wife/girlfriend to be alone at some guys house, I don't go to girls houses alone.


Applaude, Applaude.






is that agreement or sarcasm?


I NEVER do sarcasm. ( Its agreement.) Should I have done one more Applaude so it wouldn't seem sarcastic?


No it's my fault I have not had much social interaction in the last 5 years that was not on an online game.


No problem. I guess I should use more smilies. slaphead <--Like that one.


lol that one's kinda like looking the the mirror for me.

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:52 PM
Ethics, Responsibility .... are the key to any good man or woman.

justme659's photo
Sun 02/05/12 01:53 PM
Edited by justme659 on Sun 02/05/12 01:55 PM



lol that one's kinda like looking the the mirror for me.



Serisouly, stop smacking your forehead. You will just end up with a headache.

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:35 PM

the same things that make anyone a good person


This and he is also quietly masculine and someone you know you can depend on.

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:44 PM

the same things that make anyone a good person - aside from the obvious biological differences


Your SOOOOOO smart! flowerforyou

TBRich's photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:47 PM
The Celts say that there are three things that make a man: the strength in his arms, the truth in his tongue and the honor in his heart

Ladylid2012's photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:48 PM

The Celts say that there are three things that make a man: the strength in his arms, the truth in his tongue and the honor in his heart


nice!!!

to the celts drinker

Optomistic69's photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:53 PM

The Celts say that there are three things that make a man: the strength in his arms, the truth in his tongue and the honor in his heart


I concur with that drinker

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:55 PM

beard.


My X husband was a manly man but he had some Indian blood perhaps, and he had no or very little hair on his body. He never had to shave.

Then I had a boyfriend who was really sexy, horny and hairy. He had to shave twice a day. You know, he had that five O'clock shadow. I think that is so sexy!

BEST FIVE O'CLOCK SHADOW EVER:




no photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:57 PM
Edited by Jeanniebean on Sun 02/05/12 02:58 PM
TALL DARK, HANDSOME, CAN DANCE, AND DIDN'T SPEAK A WORD OF ENGLISH.

Yep, that's me.


DaddyTime's photo
Sun 02/05/12 02:58 PM


beard.


My X husband was a manly man but he had some Indian blood perhaps, and he had no or very little hair on his body. He never had to shave.

Then I had a boyfriend who was really sexy, horny and hairy. He had to shave twice a day. You know, he had that five O'clock shadow. I think that is so sexy!

BEST FIVE O'CLOCK SHADOW EVER:






so you don't mind facial hair then? my ex hated it and still has the nerve to tell me to shave when she comes for visits with the kids.

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 03:08 PM


OK,,READY?noway

laugh

To be able to LEAD,,as well as you follow.
To be honest in who you really live.

To be open to hear imperfections you have,
and able to be big enough to work on them,
to become more, without seeing them in anger.

To be confident in who you are, and stand behind your judgments made.

YET, to know your only human, and never perfect,yet work to be your best always.

A man needs to be as equal in his thoughts,,as well as in his actions to do. Yet strong enough to compromise when he See's its the best for all, NOT just him.

A man needs to be able to confirm to himself,
that he is His own MAN MADE...person..

He will stand for what he believes,
yet bend to much degree if prov-en wrong.

A man is a man, once he out grows all of his boy within him.

He needs to be able to bring-out his boy within him,,if he feels he's needed to ACT,,and not look at that as wrong, for others to see.

He needs to be a protector, able to ACT in order to save another.
Yet humble enough to know reason over risk of injury to all.

He needs to first,love himself, in order to ever love someone else.

He must have confidants in who HE IS, and project THAT when needed to do, yet meek enough to take others advices without that offending him.

AND,,a man CAN CRY A TEAR,,and STILL BE A MAN,
For its within his inner qualities of manhood EARNED to HAVE and know,
Which allows his tear to flow. (sorry just had to rhyme),lol

Life, Time, and HIS experience WITNESSED,,
builds his manhood inside as its learned, and called,wisdom..

whoa I think thats about it,,,,lol
But to be real,,WE ALL,,MEN AND WOMEN,,LEARN and GROW to become MORE of who we ARE,,and who we are SEEN AS,,,on a daily basis.
and through an openness to hear, reason, and self analyze US.
We grow and become more of (HOPEFULLY) a better adult through that.

BUT,,,see,,,noew THIS IS A BIGGY HERE,,

WE ALL VIEW THE CONCEPTS OF BEING A REAL MAN,
THROUGH THE REAL MEN WE LEARNED THAT THROUGH?

SO,,,we ALL will have different idealisms within who and what made us THINK THAT,,as we grew to become ONE?











Sounds like a hopeless fairytale. I'd like to think they exist. Maybe subconsciously.

Mariah, I think ANY DUDE,,who can have THIS above in HIS mind,,as the man HE lives AS,, WILL LIVE AS THIS MAN..?
I try and be,,all of what this portrays a man to be,,and THATS WHY ITS MY DIFINITION OF ONE!
SO,,,find a guy close in age to yours,,who can give THIS to you,,through HIS MIND,,and YOUR HAVE THIS DUDE!!!:heart: :wink:

no photo
Sun 02/05/12 03:11 PM

The Celts say that there are three things that make a man: the strength in his arms, the truth in his tongue and the honor in his heart




Seeing as I am Scottish...........

I concur!!!!!!

drinker bigsmile drinker

Spenzer's photo
Sun 02/05/12 04:05 PM
my ideal man has to be stronger emotionally than me cause sometimes in a relationship couples engage themselves in psychological warfare example if me and my guy are fighting and he insults me I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of him and the one mistake he can make is cry infront of me...if my guy is emotionally weaker than I am then he's a woos and I have no business being with him

DaddyTime's photo
Sun 02/05/12 04:12 PM

my ideal man has to be stronger emotionally than me cause sometimes in a relationship couples engage themselves in psychological warfare example if me and my guy are fighting and he insults me I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of him and the one mistake he can make is cry infront of me...if my guy is emotionally weaker than I am then he's a woos and I have no business being with him


This I strongly disagree with this and my main concern is this part.

I wont keep my mouth shut and try to be the bigger person am not his child I will insult the hell out of hi


why would you do this?