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Topic: WHY CARE ABOUT HOW YOU LOOK?
wux Joined Wed 07/29/09 Posts: 7426	Fri 01/27/12 05:44 PM
Oh, you make me blush. I am from ... my mother. Of all places. literally, I came from out of there. "I small scream for a boy, a giant breath of relief for Mammy." And it was not the last time I was helped out of a tight spot, either. People are basically good.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Fri 01/27/12 06:34 PM
I learned from guys this mean term buther face She is really pretty but her face............. Oh and another men thing they say She's a two bagger. One bag for her face and bag for his head so he doesn't have to look at her... Guys have a lot of brutal things they say. No, its a bag for her face, and a bag for him, in case hers falls off.

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Fri 01/27/12 06:36 PM
Does this hijab make me look pretty? No, it makes you look GORGEOUS! You are too sweet. But honestly, I chose Islam and to wear hijab because it prevents people from using only my looks to determine what kind of person I am. They are forced to focus more on the size of my grey matter than the abdundance of my bust. They have to deal with my personality more than just staring at my body and ignoring my words. Ummmmmmm not gonna work. You would look gorgeous in a potato sack!

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Fri 01/27/12 06:38 PM
And a show of hands, please... who wants a blojab, and which of you prefer a hijab?

luv2roknroll Joined Sun 07/06/08 Posts: 30367	Fri 01/27/12 06:41 PM
Where ya from? You sexy thing, Andrew. Isnt he, though! Sexy, and positively adorable!

irisheyes79 Joined Sat 11/10/07 Posts: 16745	Sat 01/28/12 06:47 AM
i dont think i need to worry what i look like or need to care for that matter

Kat1974 Joined Fri 10/14/11 Posts: 131	Sat 01/28/12 02:24 PM
I think everyone is beautiful..... So you can be beautiful on the inside but not on the outside and still be able to take away someone's breath. You can be beautiful on the outside but make a person avoid you with a ten foot pole. And what about the people who are both ugly on the outside, and the inside? Are they beautiful too? ....apparently so, though I would be interested to know just what makes some of these people beautiful robert pickton, albert fish, charles manson, theoneste bagosora, hitler. I have many, many more, but I figure what’s the point, “everyone” is beautiful, right? To each their own. I dont go out of my way to look for negatives. There is to much of that, that goes on. I respect those that have different views than me, welcome the debate. Maybe another view will alter my view, maybe my view will alter theirs. Who knows. Just because I think there is beauty in everything doesn't mean others do. There are horrendous acts by people, unforgiveable acts that have altered lives, the world, scarred millions.But from those horrendous unforgettable unforgiveable events there were acts of mercy, charity, bravery, boldness, an attempt to right a wrong to protect others so that it never happens again, so on and so on. Lessons. first of all, you don’t have to go out of your way to find “negatives”, I just showed them to you. but you failed to answer the basic question of how these people are beautiful. beauty by proxy doesn’t count. six degrees of separation from beauty is not the same as these people being beautiful, it’s denial, it’s bending the truth. also, saying that there is beauty in everything is very different than what was originally said, “everyone is beautiful”. I responded how I wanted to respond. I respect that people do not share the same views as me. Just because I like to find the beauty in people, in the world..does not mean that everyone else does. To each their own. :)

JERMANICUS Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 597	Sat 01/28/12 03:10 PM
I may be a weirdo,but I think I look great!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/28/12 03:15 PM
Seriously everyone, just keep a clear and open mind that everyone is different. So who cares what others think of you. Everyone has different perspectives on other people, but that's what makes life interesting. I mean if everyone looked the same or like the same exact thing then the world would just be a total bore. It seems to me as if most of the people here are insecure but there's no need to be because its a big world filled with many people and at least one person out there will love and accept you for who you are. I care about my appearance to please me. So others opinion of it doesn't make no never mind. amen to that 'nuff said

JML510 Joined Sat 01/28/12 Posts: 7	Sat 01/28/12 03:21 PM
I care about how I look because I enjoy the attention I can get from women, and it just energizes me whenever I put time and effort into my wardrobe.

navygirl Joined Sat 06/02/07 Posts: 8118	Sat 01/28/12 03:50 PM
i dont think i need to worry what i look like or need to care for that matter Yeah, I think the same way as I could care less anymore about trying to win a man's heart.