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Topic: Generalized hate
prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Sat 01/14/12 08:07 AM
They even kills innocents,we experienced recently.... Anyone has any views over this?

teadipper Joined Wed 10/19/11 Posts: 2732	Sat 01/14/12 08:14 AM
They even kills innocents,we experienced recently.... Anyone has any views over this? There are people who are just hard wired to hate. You even run into some here which blows my mind. They are looking for "true love" and are hate mongers. Oh kay...... I once saw a speech by a guy who picks prize fighters. He said they have a crazy madness that flashes through their eyes and allows them to beat the heck out of people and not care if they get hurt. It's a quality you are born with or rather a quality of compassion you are born without. Yes, those people are truly dangerous in any field. IMHO.

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 01/14/12 08:40 AM Edited by msharmony on Sat 01/14/12 08:41 AM
hate was always a four letter word growing up its sad that people feel such an intensely negative energy consuming emotion about 'things' and scary that they feel it about 'people' who they usually have never met and have done nothing to them,,,, Ive been the victim of crime twice and dont HATE the criminals who harmed me,,,, I just cant imagine,,,

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/14/12 09:04 AM
don't hate if somone disagrees with you that is not hate I really believe that few have actually seen true hate close up - most only read or hear about it, fortunately it is possible to stand up for yourself in life without hating

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 01/14/12 09:06 AM Edited by msharmony on Sat 01/14/12 09:07 AM
don't hate if somone disagrees with you that is not hate I really believe that few have actually seen true hate close up - most only read or hear about it, fortunately it is possible to stand up for yourself in life without hating my mom hates bush(jr, not sr) I think one of the men who assaulted me hated black people people here on the forum hate obama ,,,the latter is just a cyber hate from my perspective, but its just as sad and puzzling to me as the former,,,,

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/14/12 09:11 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 01/14/12 09:14 AM
don't hate if somone disagrees with you that is not hate I really believe that few have actually seen true hate close up - most only read or hear about it, fortunately it is possible to stand up for yourself in life without hating my mom hates bush(jr, not sr) I think one of the men who assaulted me hated black people people here on the forum hate obama ,,,the latter is just a cyber hate from my perspective, but its just as sad and puzzling to me as the former,,,, well I think it is possible to be angry and disagree and separate that from the person people who cannot separate the person from the issue has issues IMO Oh, and yes, I think racism is probably the purest from of hatred that people can experience and it has done the most to serve evil throughour history - the racisms of the 50s & 60s, the long marches (trail of tears), the hatreds now against us in the middle east, the death camps...pure evil given ground here on earth... I thought our species is supposed to be evolving???

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 01/14/12 09:13 AM
don't hate if somone disagrees with you that is not hate I really believe that few have actually seen true hate close up - most only read or hear about it, fortunately it is possible to stand up for yourself in life without hating my mom hates bush(jr, not sr) I think one of the men who assaulted me hated black people people here on the forum hate obama ,,,the latter is just a cyber hate from my perspective, but its just as sad and puzzling to me as the former,,,, well I think it is possible to be angry and disagree and separate that from the person people who cannot separate the person from the issue has issues IMO way to sum it up I like that, seperate the person from the issue,,,

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Sat 01/14/12 09:13 AM
No Generalizing for me........ I'm an Equal Opportunity Hater!!!!!! Based on performance.....Nothing more!!!!!

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/14/12 09:16 AM Edited by sweetestgirl11 on Sat 01/14/12 09:17 AM
don't hate if somone disagrees with you that is not hate I really believe that few have actually seen true hate close up - most only read or hear about it, fortunately it is possible to stand up for yourself in life without hating my mom hates bush(jr, not sr) I think one of the men who assaulted me hated black people people here on the forum hate obama ,,,the latter is just a cyber hate from my perspective, but its just as sad and puzzling to me as the former,,,, well I think it is possible to be angry and disagree and separate that from the person people who cannot separate the person from the issue has issues IMO way to sum it up I like that, seperate the person from the issue,,, well I had editted and added some things after you responded because I do support your outlook regarding racism

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/14/12 09:17 AM
No Generalizing for me........ I'm an Equal Opportunity Hater!!!!!! Based on performance.....Nothing more!!!!! obviously I cannot speak for everyone but in general we do not invite the haters here

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Sat 01/14/12 09:20 AM
No Generalizing for me........ I'm an Equal Opportunity Hater!!!!!! Based on performance.....Nothing more!!!!! obviously I cannot speak for everyone but in general we do not invite the haters here Maybe you did not fully understand my statement!!

oldhippie1952 Joined Mon 03/14/11 Posts: 22693	Sat 01/14/12 09:29 AM
I have hated before, I hope I never experience that emotion again! I don't think people here hate Obama. They just don't like the job he's doing (I hope).

sweetestgirl11 Joined Fri 09/12/08 Posts: 30087	Sat 01/14/12 09:34 AM
No Generalizing for me........ I'm an Equal Opportunity Hater!!!!!! Based on performance.....Nothing more!!!!! obviously I cannot speak for everyone but in general we do not invite the haters here Maybe you did not fully understand my statement!! I will be honest with you. I am not all that interested in understanding it - hating equally is still hating and unwelcome

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Sat 01/14/12 09:37 AM Edited by Grim14u on Sat 01/14/12 09:43 AM
No Generalizing for me........ I'm an Equal Opportunity Hater!!!!!! Based on performance.....Nothing more!!!!! obviously I cannot speak for everyone but in general we do not invite the haters here Maybe you did not fully understand my statement!! I will be honest with you. I am not all that interested in understanding it - hating equally is still hating and unwelcome Hate is as common an emotion as Love.....we all hate....some just refuse to admit it. The wise know.....it's not always the person.....but what motivation. Example: We elect a President who is human. He has something in his past (as we all do) that we might not like if we knew about it. But He has some really good Idea's about change. When that change doesn't take place, should we hate him? or hate the reasons why His changes don't happen. I for one....understand that there will be things I won't like, even possibly Hate in life........ I just have enough wisdom to base it on performance, rather than the person!!

Ladylid2012 Joined Sun 07/05/09 Posts: 42269	Sat 01/14/12 10:07 AM
We can choose love and forgiveness over hate and fear anytime we want it.... if we want it enough. It's really not that hard.

newarkjw Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 17172	Sat 01/14/12 10:19 AM
I hate brussel sprouts and don't give a damn who knows it.....

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Sat 01/14/12 10:21 AM
I hate brussel sprouts and don't give a damn who knows it..... I am ......appalled!!

prashant01 Joined Wed 05/06/09 Posts: 14148	Sat 01/14/12 10:26 AM Edited by prashant01 on Sat 01/14/12 10:27 AM
We can choose love and forgiveness over hate and fear anytime we want it.... if we want it enough. It's really not that hard. How nice would it be if love & hate of others were by our choice!But it don't happen.... My question is why do people hate a particular class,community, nation,race,religion,continent? How can they hate in so generalized way,that too up to the extent to kill some innocents?

msharmony Joined Mon 08/31/09 Posts: 61041	Sat 01/14/12 10:29 AM
We can choose love and forgiveness over hate and fear anytime we want it.... if we want it enough. It's really not that hard. How nice would it be if love & hate of others were by our choice!But it don't happen.... My question is why do people hate a particular class,community, nation,race,religion,continent? How can they hate in so generalized way,that too up to the extent to kill some innocents? I think it stems from fear,, fear of what might happen mostly people see all kinds of negative images and events associated with one group or person, they begin to fear that group or person will do those things to them, and they develop hate

Grim14u Joined Sun 01/01/12 Posts: 390	Sat 01/14/12 10:32 AM
We can choose love and forgiveness over hate and fear anytime we want it.... if we want it enough. It's really not that hard. How nice would it be if love & hate of others were by our choice!But it don't happen.... My question is why do people hate a particular class,community, nation,race,religion,continent? How can they hate in so generalized way,that too up to the extent to kill some innocents? Because we are an Emotion based society, the majority of which has never learned the Arts of Acceptance and Forgiveness. Greed, Power hunger, selfishness......these are that which breed... Hatred. Generalized hatred is mere Ignorance. The inability to understand something or someone, outside you're small little world!!