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singmesweet
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Sat 01/07/12 11:50 AM
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Do you have set timelines for when you'll get in a car with your date? Or let them come pick you up? Or go to each others' houses? What about intimacy, or even just a first kiss? How soon is too soon for any of this for you?
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No timelines or agendas, life is fluid.
If they don't put out on the first date I know there is something wrong with them. |
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I think it's best to wait at least a couple of dates before going into another person's car, and no one knows where I live until at least the third date. I prefer that they come to my place, or my car, first. I know where all my weapons are.
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No timelines or agendas, life is fluid. If they don't put out on the first date I know there is something wrong with them.  I agree with the first part. And somewhat with the second part only because of my first marriage. We dated for quite a while and he hardly made a move on me. I thought it was sweet, romantic and he was just being a gentleman. Turns out he was gay.
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Hey, kids... I've got some candy in my van.
Wanna go for a ride?! 
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Well not really timelines but over time things fall into place.It could be sooner or it could be later.
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Well not really timelines but over time things fall into place.It could be sooner or it could be later. haha. Of course it could be sooner or later. I was asking, because some people seem to have specific rules they follow and others don't. It was just a curiosity. |
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If I like someone I want hugs and kisses right away, not necessary to "put out." Hugs and kisses if I like you will hook me.
So however long it takes me to like someone. |
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Hmmmm...let's see. Four men in my life (that I slept with), two married me and the one that I slept with the first date lasted well over 25 years.
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I don't have a specific timeline for any of those things.. Now the first time meeting it is always out in public and I always drive my vehicle to meet them..
As far as anything else it all depends on the chemistry....when it's good it's good.... 
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Life is comprised of random moments.......
Just let it all happen when it happens..... Take the pressure off. Some people get comfortable at different rates. I don't press.... when the moment is right for each of these things....ya just kinda feel it, then let it happen!! |
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Hey, kids... I've got some candy in my van. Wanna go for a ride?! Is it caramels?? Where we going?? |
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Just get in my car, biatch xD
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I don't have a specific timeline for any of those things.. Now the first time meeting it is always out in public and I always drive my vehicle to meet them.. As far as anything else it all depends on the chemistry....when it's good it's good.... |
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No timelines or agendas, life is fluid. I agree. Although it depends on the connection that I have with that person and what my instincts tell me. |
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I don't have a specific timeline for any of those things.. Now the first time meeting it is always out in public and I always drive my vehicle to meet them.. As far as anything else it all depends on the chemistry....when it's good it's good.... the first time we met it was at your house and i drove, and things were going great until i offered to by you those leather pasties at the harley davidson store (i knew i should have taken you to that adult megaplex store) |
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I don't have a specific timeline for any of those things.. Now the first time meeting it is always out in public and I always drive my vehicle to meet them.. As far as anything else it all depends on the chemistry....when it's good it's good.... the first time we met it was at your house and i drove, and things were going great until i offered to by you those leather pasties at the harley davidson store (i knew i should have taken you to that adult megaplex store) Your tooo damn funny but you seem to have left out the part why we were meeting. Ohh and you never mentioned the adult store or I could have taken you there as well....  Besides pasties don't look so well when they are facing the ground  |
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Do you have set timelines for when you'll get in a car with your date? Or let them come pick you up? Or go to each others' houses? What about intimacy, or even just a first kiss? How soon is too soon for any of this for you? 10 minutes.......next question....... |
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No timelines or agendas, life is fluid. Yeah. I mean if we both agree on something that looks fun, what not go with the moment? I feel a little funny being around someone who's mapped out the whole date like we're in the military. I'm way too laid back and I guess I like to do a lot of quiet/normal things on a date. |
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I think it's best to wait at least a couple of dates before going into another person's car, and no one knows where I live until at least the third date. I prefer that they come to my place, or my car, first. I know where all my weapons are. I'm with the BossLady - except the part about the weapons But I do let my Spidey sense be my guide.
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