Joyce, You just told him like it was. It is not your problem that he can't deal with it. Better to find out now then to learn later. Since I work with dementia all the time my answer would be yeah you're a ***** but then ain't we all. It takes one to know one. Don't sweat the small stuff. Its all good. Cheer up; It will get worse or better. Who really knows.

first...WOW this post has been going on forever!!
and second i want that too joyce!!!

izzie....
let's do the next best thing

GO SHOPPING AND EAT ICE CREAM!

SHOES!!!!!!!

tin lizzie....
my fave ice cream!!!

Heck No Nurjoyce you did the right thing...

Nujoyce,

An integration because someone forgot to call him back is the extreme. He, then, tells you has a hard time believing you about the reason why you forgot. Yet, he expects you to still want to date him is laughable to the 9th degree.

No, you did not over react. Granted, no one wants to be forgotten, but a little bit of understanding is necessary to make a relationship work. It was not as you stood him up.

I applaud you for standing up for yourself!

shoes!!

you are so cool joyce i would have been like a total ace to him lol but one thing a nurse has to find in a man is someone who is comfortable with long hours crazy schedules and lots of stress that he needs not increase. I think you were very sweet about the whole thing. And you and izzie are both such exceptionally hot ladies and will find what you are looking for soon dont worry.

Hmmm, NJ...I just realized...you were very nice by not shooting him with your Fembot lazers! Kudos!

And yeah, they are hot, aren't they

Wow did he really buried his family ? if so damn he has bigger problems and probably won't find any body if this is the case.

That's stick and twisted as well.


Dang 50 questions though, I can't think of even that many to ask a girl I wouldn't mind dating or want to ask out etc, I can't even get the words will you go out with me lol, I'm a mess in it self with being shy and all that, so to think up 50 questions on why you didn't call on time and where were you etc etc, that's crazy.

I understand, it was a busy time on the road where you might live and or you got hanged up doing some work or made a stop just like any other normal person and if I didn't hear from you then there is always the next day, I would have started to wonder though if no calls that night then maybe something was wrong with me if I didn't hear noting back the next day as well. But hey I understand people are busy and have lifes etc.

I'm sure you will find some body when the time is right.

I don't think I will though. Cause I'm too damn shy and don't speak much all but online I do cause I'm not face to face to somebody and it's easier online vs face to face, or at least to me it might be.

MY GOD the drama...and you just met him...That would make my mind up right there!!!!!!!!


You most certainly did the right thing...Controlling and abusive men ALWAYS make exscuses for their actions regardless of what they are!!!!!!!!!!!

hi ya, nurjoyce-

Joyce, You did the right thing, My feelings on the subject of answering to someone is I don't have to. I am single and if a person does not understand there are times I am late, busy or just plain tired that is their problem and I don't want to hear it. I do not ask someone else how they spend their time and don't want to be asked about mine.
I am grown and have raised children have grandchildren the last thing I need is answer to another grown person.
Trust is a very important part of a relationship and you felt it right when he gave you the 50 questions and acted as if you owed him an answer after he made you feel he did not believe you. I seems you would have had to answer to more in the long run. Keep your head up the red flags I am sure were the right detection of possesivness.
Go Gurl :

Are you sure it was 50 questions, it wasn't like 51, or 48?

smart alec, lol

Awwww, you called me smart

hell yea you were so very wrong, you hsould of gotten his addy and kicked his ass bad ok comeon lets date and we kick his ass together.....

oooooooo this so exciting