Hi Misty how are things?

Busy with kids so I do not have time for the idiots.....how are you??

Nurjoyce...you deserve the best.......

pretty good thanx,
damn idiots can't stand them

Sad so say, I probably would've been meaner, according to most.
Busy women don't have time for borderline clingy men and 20 thousand questions.
Goodjob nurjoyce!

misty..that means a lot to me coming from you. i think you know that!!

you do deserve the best joyce

he just needed to chill out

I do girl!!!........a strong woman needs a way above average man!!!

yeah there doesn't seem to be a shortage of idiots Scotty!


Well stated Erin!

I am off to bed ya'll......have a nice evening!!!!

sounds like the controlling type...better get rid of him before you fall for him

Nurjoyce;

I'm not going to say if you were right or wrong - I think you know yourself, however - 50 questions or not, I think this guy may care more about you than you are giving him credit for, he likely just doesn't know how to go about it. If you really don't care about what happened - than let him fade away, but it might be worth going back to just emailing - and find out what is really going on with him - and if he's got an idea of what you're really about. Could be a massive pot-hole you've run into, or a bump in the road. Just a thought.

lj

hmmm, well since its about "what do you think".. ??

I think people should follow thru on their words. Plain and simple.
Sometimes the minutes and hours pass and the thoughts of I will get to it gets to be 95843737 hours later, and regardless of the reason, it doesnt justify it.

Although, I kno I am not responsible for how someone else feels. If he got his feelings hurt, and couldnt manage his feelings that was on him. If you didnt like the way he managed his feelings then its a no brainer.

I truly believe you two both have different ideas of what is acceptable.
I really dont feel u needed a co-signer to know you are making the right choice when it comes to who you allow in the front row of your life. You know who you are compatible with, and if you are fumed over this.. shrug it off.. his loss eh?

obviously he doesnt really feel you are right for him if he is so upset over you not keeping your word.. Not sure why he would ask to continue to get to know you.

RED FLAG ...

Well nurjoyce. You can take this acouple ways,either he was being caring or he was being paranoid. It's not a matter of if you are right or wrong. It's a matter of what you were or wern't comfortable with

::nods::

Thank you--
interesting
hmmmmmmmmm

Joyce-Better to find out now rather than later.

Try my newest idea for dating. Think of it like darts. You throw enough out there, one will eventually hit. Ha!

I don't think you have to explain yourself to anyone at that stage of a new,potential,relationship. The only question I would of asked was if everything was alright and once you told me you had a bad day it would of been how can I help to make things better? No more questions on the subject.

Oh,by the way,you'd be allowed to call me any time of day. LOL

no you were not wrong

but yes you acted like a b

but that is okay

i would bet it would turn out that he would be a controlling
and insecure

i think you did the right thing

but hey what do i know

Joyce....sounds like you were right on target it appears to me he's been needing to hear that for awhile now! lmao kudos

Joyce you did the right thing hun

Joyce, people that don't pull 12hr, intense jobs, simply do not understand how draining it can be. I have had the same situation on the calling thing.
Any person; male or female; that gets so controling at the very beginning is out as far as I am concerned.
Had a lady, second time at my home, strat telling me how to out in a gate to keep my dogs & her cats seperate. Told her it would never happen.
You handled it well & stay strong, you have great judgment.

good for you joyce u deserve the best and i mean that , you are a good friend to me