I'm not here looking for a relationship - just friends, pen-pals, others interested in the performing arts. Update... Well, having been on this site for a while and meeting a number of friends from all over - I felt compelled to expound. I'm an admitted forum junkie. Sports and religion are generally where you'll find me, as I've always had a pion for both. Though happily married, I - like everyone else, seek friendships as well. I look for friends, and I look to be a friend. Due to the nature of my job (I build sets for the movies, and design and direct for the theater) I am usually working about 60-70 hours a week, and very rarely get to meet people who are not a part of that world. The internet has provided me a forum to meet people in far away places who are from all walks of life. I enjoy having "pen-pals" - have for years. Even before they invented this internet thing. So - if I send you something out of the blue, or happen to respond "yes" to a mutual match, it is not with the intent to "play games" or to develop a relationship outside of my marriage. I've no interest in that. It merely signifies that something caught my eye in your profile, or we have a similar interest I think might be worth chatting about. Nothing much more than that. Sometimes it's just the way someone looks that seems as though a lasting friendship might develop. I've experienced that on this site as well. If you are a believer in Jesus Christ - this alone will be reason for my contact, as I can never get enough fellowship in my daily environment. Anyway... Just a little more insite for those who are curious as to why someone who is married is on this site.