i agree with you totally txgal...men can be so shallow(no offense guys..)...Im not a skinny anorexic looking gurl either..I got meat on my bones....not FAT but thick....but u know wat i think?? if men dont like me cuz i aint skinny..to hell with them....I know im a good person so booyah..haha...good luck txgal...

LMAO, girl I feel the same way. Yeah I was not always this size and yeah maybe I did not keep an ey on it like I should have guess when your raising two kids on your own for 16 years and working and doing what ever else ya had to do somethings did not rate on my higest list then some medical things yeah that is no excuse either. And I'm well aware of that myself. Not trying to make up excuses just reality of it. But its all kewl Humm who knows maybe someday I will be back to were I was and if it so happens I will have my hay day at that time if not then ohh well not looking anyway lmao

yup txgal....u go!!! My thing is..."Weight can always come off.....a good heart will always stay"....

Ohhhhhhhhhh girl ya so hit that nail square on the head for sure. Hey let them go to skinny mini the one that has more issues than carter has pills. The one that forgot to tell them they are on the edge of reality Ohhh but now they have the body though Yeah go ahead and take that one cause she is not big don't worryj ust be ready to carry all of her baggage ohhh yeah by the way the van is coming in order for her to get packed lmaoshsssssssssh thanks girl I needed to vent a bit lmao

I might have the weight but I have no baggage that was over years ago and actually am still on talking terms with the last 2-3 I dated for a bit. I'm honest Hell I work lol independent have my own house fairly new car kids are now grown, shssssssssssssssssshh damnit what the hell was I doing looking for somneone anyway for lol. thanks needed that wake up call for sure lol

Wise old monkey says: any guy who'd treat a gal like that isn't worth the skin he's wrapped in. I'll bet he can't play the accordion either.

I'm just here for the cookies

lmao quit giving the cookies when the milk dried up lmola


Sorry could not resist that one lol

hey girly, just cuz you had one bad experience on here doesnt mean they're all bad or are they?? ha ha ha. im not so sure it this website or anyother ones like this are the "ideal" way to meet people. there are some a%$holes on here and then there are some normal people. just weed out the bad ones.

yah ive been weeding out a lot of bad ones....but its all good

aahh--to brighten your day, hawaiigirl

thank you shadowdog...

Ladies... Ladies... Ladies...

I would like to say this for the last time, but sadly I know it won't be....

True Beauty & Character are found in ones Heart... ALL of the Rest can and will change over time....

Search the Hearts of People.... I'm just an Average looking Guy... yet, the True Character & Beauty within my Heart & Soul far outshines many Pretty Boys or Hot Guy... NO Offense Dudes There are Good Bad in every Person or Sex....

Thanks..Ladies I know you'll argue.. but this is How I see myself....

HawwiiGurl,
He don't know what he missed!

Thank you Dayv....

Hawaii,

Sorry to here that!

Hey, I just say, I might be fat, but you're ugly, and I can diet!

I pity the fool thats with him now....hence he find something better

When the time comes it will happen...

serious question, here...why does this make him or this site any less? did he tell you that you were the ONLY one...or did you assume so?

that's the thing with these sites...people talk with LOTS of others...and it continues until the meeting in person. and just because he met HER...that does NOT mean that he wasn't having feelings for YOU...human minds have no problem having emotions in several different directions.

at least he told you, and didn't continue on...and he might feel awkward with discussing anything else. he's decided you aren't his "forever" so he's moved on.

the problem with the online thing...people put it in their heads what they WANT to be hearing...sort of "read between the lines" and then end up hurt. it's a different world...

pain, however, always sucks. be well.

Hawaiigirl if it were me who had been honored by you actually being interested enough to meet me ; I wouldn't hesitate- even if I had to take up donations for the ticket.