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H- girl, THAT HAPPENS here to alot,,,I have read it and talked with them. I think that people,,,girls and guys, will hold back some thoughts and ACT like its ALL GOOD,, and at the same time be THINKING and talking with another on here or another site,,and then,,,POOF,,,THEY just vanish,,,,and leave here,
and the poor person who is left here, is IN TOTAL SHOCK ,,and
WANTS answers, never to find THEM?? Its very sad and WRONG to play with ANYONES heart or minds to THAT kind of HURT!!!!
There are ALWAYS going to be asss holes in life, YOU just need to smell them coming,,lol,,lol so YOU can't get hurt by THEM,,,chin up and go meet YOUR REAL Prince charming....

Thank you Robert and Iam4u...nice to hear POSITIVE words.....and to answer lulu...no I dont think any less of this site at all...and yes..he lied and said I was the only one he was gonna talk to because he wanted to be with ME....so thats where the HURT came in...but I got over it....I am fine..thanks for everyones replies though.....

too bad i'll never get to watch you hula dance

I'll send you a video Robert..haha..

One must NEVER give up!!!

H-gurl, and Robert,,lol YOU BOTH JUST MIGHT,,,,,,,still have YOUR desires FEELED!!!!

i can send u a video too..(Iam4u)..jk...nice to meet u guys BTW...ALOHA!!

not being negative, just observing that that sort of thing happens a LOT on such sites...if you are new to them, then there is more of a tendency to become hurt.

being disingenuous is never okay.

No problem..lulu.. I wasnt thinking you were being negative...and I agree with you completely...I was new and just a little naive...lol

remind me one day to tell you about my first, lol...and his four other profiles...and twenty other chicks...and how he would talk to me as all of them, lol...

oh, and how i accessed all of his accounts and busted his ass.

cool..how DO YOU access his accounts???thats intersting..

haha...that was his own fault. in trying to prove how wonderful he was...he gave me the password to his "brother"'s account, asking me to contact a woman that "jared" had been playing. having already put two and two together...i read through a bit, and then looked for the email that he was registered under.

i then logged into his hotmail account using the same password (dumbass) and from there read all kinds of verification emails for other email addresses...that had THEIR passwords right there. i entered each email and found the confirmation for all the new profiles.

anyhow, turns out he was mentally GONE...he's since threatened to do harm to twenty different women in my honor...and emails me every now and then to let me know that he's scored. he said i brought out the "demon" and that he was "out for blood".

man turned out to be truly sad...yet scary at the same time. since he had my phone and my email...he signed me up for all KINDS of internet offers, and i had friggen' telemarketers after me all the time. "you JUST signed up for this offer, why are you backing out now?"

anyhow, i had entered a new profile of his...and asked him if he had one. he said that no, he loved me, yada yada...was quite a mess and i ended up making recordings of him threatening folks, raging in front of his kid.

Wow...thats pretty messed up..sorry to hear that....i need a drink...lol

nah, it's all good. i wasn't emotionally involved...and even if i were, i am very clinical and observing. as soon as i figured out he was himself AND his brother...i became detached.

Hang in there Hgurl,,It happens to the best of us but dont give up! All fo us will have our day..just may take more time for some...

Guess what? it just happened to me..way I figure..HIS loss!
always be honest..It ALWAYS catches you and bites you in the (_(_)!
No one likes to be lonely or alone.Is there a difference? Its the internet. Beleive 1/2 of what you see and none of what you hear!!!

Good luck gurl! your true love awaits you..you just havent found him yet!

DAMN !

I feel for you but at the same time I don't understand why woman must put down men just because there angery at one guy who broke there heart at one time in another, not all guys are like that.

But for some reasons woman have it stuck in there heads all guys are noting but trash etc etc, it makes the nice ones like my self have a tougher and harder time finding any body because of the way woman feel now a days that and how they get treated by some of the not so great men.

It's a 50 / 50 toss up though to be honest.

But I my self never met any body online and all that stuff.

But I can understand where your coming from.

Oh well I know I'd probably never meet any body from online because that is just how it seems to have worked out right now.

I'm sure you'll find somebody though.

Don't let it bother you too much. I went out on one date with a guy from this site and I thought things went well, but he never talked to me after that. I was about ready to give up JSH until I started posting here, too. But I've found someone who's absolutely wonderful and he wants to be with me and only me. I trust him and we've fallen hard for each other. There's still hope out there... don't give up!

well, that seems to be a common story among us in the threads here...
i had a similar experience my self. then one day i was... i swear i was not staking him!!
lookin around to see where he was and happened into a thread about caulking and whispers home improvement nightmares, and have been addicted ever since...
funny tho.. now.. i dont even remember his screenname!!

I come here hoping to see some friends.....
nobody wants to actually date me , I relised that long ago...I get less and less mail here now ....
maybe I should give up ....
its just heart break any way........

Thank you John....but actually this wasnt supposed to be about putting down any man...it was just about this one "online" dating experience that went wrong...I do still believe there are good men out there such as yourself...and yes..that is true...very rare that people actually meet....so for now...I'll just stick to RL life people and have fun in these forums...lol...aloha and good luck to everyone here!!

its tempting to leave sometimes (like today for me! lol) but im not going to leave my friends on here b/c of one person. i enjoy the forums and will stay.