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I usually send a hug if someone nudges me that i don't really know. But if that is the only way the person will "communicate" with me, after a while I stop nudging back. BUT I SO WISH, there was a "thanks but no thanks" nudge....that would be great.
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Mom says I cant use so many capital letters...so here goes.  What do you do about nudges?  I am a person who replies to ALL  of my emails. I think it extremely RUDE not to. Even if just to say, "no thank you", or "you creep me out".  But if its REALLY creepy, than I just block it, or write back something, WAY CREEPIER back to them. (Im good at that  ) But my problem lies in, if your not trying, to lead someone on,  but you dont want, to totally ignore them, and we dont have a, "thanks but no thanks, nudge",  WHAT DO YOU DO? Down with capital punishment! Nicely done :-) I used to reply to everything. But sheer volume becomes the issue. Now, I ignore all Nudges, Friend Requests (from the unknown) and most email, unless I know them already. Just not enough time to get to them. No harm intended. Your a heartbreaker,  dream maker, love taker, dont you mess around with me.  -Pat Benatar PAT BENATAR!!?!?! 
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Since we only have a limited selection of nudges, what I do is, for example, when I get nudges from scammers or mail-order brides, I don't respond because it is, unfortunately, the most honest way to say "thanks, but no thanks." When the person nudging is legit, I base my decision on whether to nudge - or which nudge to send - on each individual, after giving it some thought. I NEVER use the "kick in the butt" nudge........I would never really kick a woman in the butt, and as far as I know, guys don't nudge each other.......  Your NEVER gonna "kick me in the butt?". NO Kitten, I am NEVER gonna kick you in the butt.......if they had a nice little friendly slap on the butt, that would be different....  But, but, but,.... Maybe I dont want just a nice friendly, slap on the butt. Maybe im more into the kicking thing!  WHO do you think your kidding....its not me.............. 
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Mom says I cant use so many capital letters...so here goes. What do you do about nudges? I am a person who replies to ALL of my emails. I think it extremely RUDE not to. Even if just to say, "no thank you", or "you creep me out". But if its REALLY creepy, than I just block it, or write back something, WAY CREEPIER back to them. (Im good at that ) But my problem lies in, if your not trying, to lead someone on, but you dont want, to totally ignore them, and we dont have a, "thanks but no thanks, nudge", WHAT DO YOU DO? I rarely ever respond to nudges, unless it's someone I already know. I've even put in my profile to email me, rather than nudge me. Of course, most people don't read profiles, so that hasn't helped. So, I just ignore them for the most part. If they cannot put in the effort to send an actual message, rather than a nudge, then why should I put in any effort to respond? |
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Sometimes no reply is a reply. I know what its like to email someone, or send them some sort of present or whatever, and not even get a "thanks", or anything. It sucks! Well it is kind of a slap in the face. But it may be better than a kick in the butt, or a sharp stick in the eye. No reply is a slap in the face? If it's just a nudge from a stranger I can understand not responding. If it's from someone you know, or if it's an email, it's best to be upfront rather than not replying. |
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It's not the nudges that bother me so much... it is the IMs from someone that never has attempted to drop you a hello line or such. Then the dummies think that you are only on there to listen to their sick mind and help them boink themselves to death. I enjoy getting the feel for people in the forums. Even better..when they ask "Where are these forums you are talking about?" .... duh~ At least a nudge is a some kind of attempt to break the talk barrier.
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I always try to reply to emails. If I suspect it to be a scammer, I usually just say I am not interested. Im talking about "nudges" from a total stranger. See thats what I get for letting Barney read me the posts If its a nudge from a friend I will either nudge them back or email them or both. From a stranger more often I won't nudge them back, unless of course I feel I might be interested in them. instead of read? Then you can dictate to Barney, and not have to do all this typing?  Because that would require him moving his little paws.You , know interfere with his naps. thats right, I forgot, Confucious say: "Never awaken a sleeping dog, or you will be awakened by dog butt, in your face, tomorrow. I get that anyway.
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I usually send a hug if someone nudges me that i don't really know. But if that is the only way the person will "communicate" with me, after a while I stop nudging back. BUT I SO WISH, there was a "thanks but no thanks" nudge....that would be great. Maybe we should start a petition? |
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Mom says I cant use so many capital letters...so here goes. What do you do about nudges? I am a person who replies to ALL of my emails. I think it extremely RUDE not to. Even if just to say, "no thank you", or "you creep me out". But if its REALLY creepy, than I just block it, or write back something, WAY CREEPIER back to them. (Im good at that ) But my problem lies in, if your not trying, to lead someone on, but you dont want, to totally ignore them, and we dont have a, "thanks but no thanks, nudge", WHAT DO YOU DO? Down with capital punishment! Nicely done :-) I used to reply to everything. But sheer volume becomes the issue. Now, I ignore all Nudges, Friend Requests (from the unknown) and most email, unless I know them already. Just not enough time to get to them. No harm intended. Your a heartbreaker, dream maker, love taker, dont you mess around with me. -Pat Benatar PAT BENATAR!!?!?! 
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Since we only have a limited selection of nudges, what I do is, for example, when I get nudges from scammers or mail-order brides, I don't respond because it is, unfortunately, the most honest way to say "thanks, but no thanks." When the person nudging is legit, I base my decision on whether to nudge - or which nudge to send - on each individual, after giving it some thought. I NEVER use the "kick in the butt" nudge........I would never really kick a woman in the butt, and as far as I know, guys don't nudge each other....... Your NEVER gonna "kick me in the butt?". NO Kitten, I am NEVER gonna kick you in the butt.......if they had a nice little friendly slap on the butt, that would be different.... But, but, but,.... Maybe I dont want just a nice friendly, slap on the butt. Maybe im more into the kicking thing! WHO do you think your kidding....its not me..............  I wear them, and kick "HIM" in the azz, with steel toed boots!
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Mom says I cant use so many capital letters...so here goes. What do you do about nudges? I am a person who replies to ALL of my emails. I think it extremely RUDE not to. Even if just to say, "no thank you", or "you creep me out". But if its REALLY creepy, than I just block it, or write back something, WAY CREEPIER back to them. (Im good at that ) But my problem lies in, if your not trying, to lead someone on, but you dont want, to totally ignore them, and we dont have a, "thanks but no thanks, nudge", WHAT DO YOU DO? I rarely ever respond to nudges, unless it's someone I already know. I've even put in my profile to email me, rather than nudge me. Of course, most people don't read profiles, so that hasn't helped. So, I just ignore them for the most part. If they cannot put in the effort to send an actual message, rather than a nudge, then why should I put in any effort to respond? If they nudge YOU, YOU know they didnt read your profile. I think I will put that in my profile as well. |
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It's not the nudges that bother me so much... it is the IMs from someone that never has attempted to drop you a hello line or such. Then the dummies think that you are only on there to listen to their sick mind and help them boink themselves to death. I enjoy getting the feel for people in the forums. Even better..when they ask "Where are these forums you are talking about?" .... duh~ At least a nudge is a some kind of attempt to break the talk barrier. Go to your "profileF", and click "settings", than click "turn off instant messaging", in "account settings". Voila! |
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So where are these forums you are talking about? I think that is a good one. Thanks for sharing.
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Edited by
luv2roknroll
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Wed 11/16/11 11:04 AM
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So where are these forums you are talking about? I think that is a good one. Thanks for sharing. 
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Mom says I cant use so many capital letters...so here goes. What do you do about nudges? I am a person who replies to ALL of my emails. I think it extremely RUDE not to. Even if just to say, "no thank you", or "you creep me out". But if its REALLY creepy, than I just block it, or write back something, WAY CREEPIER back to them. (Im good at that ) But my problem lies in, if your not trying, to lead someone on, but you dont want, to totally ignore them, and we dont have a, "thanks but no thanks, nudge", WHAT DO YOU DO? Big Difference between Banter/Flirting and Leading someone on. Some Women know exactly what they are doing and get off on it. Maybe they have been jilted or rejected or whatever. |
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Mom says I cant use so many capital letters...so here goes. What do you do about nudges? I am a person who replies to ALL of my emails. I think it extremely RUDE not to. Even if just to say, "no thank you", or "you creep me out". But if its REALLY creepy, than I just block it, or write back something, WAY CREEPIER back to them. (Im good at that ) But my problem lies in, if your not trying, to lead someone on, but you dont want, to totally ignore them, and we dont have a, "thanks but no thanks, nudge", WHAT DO YOU DO? Big Difference between Banter/Flirting and Leading someone on. Some Women know exactly what they are doing and get off on it. Maybe they have been jilted or rejected or whatever. I always send one or two nudges back, just to let them know that I acknowledged their nudge..unless they are under 30...then let it die a natural death. |
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Honestly unless they are friends I do not respond to nudges......
I try to respond to all my e-mails but then there are a few that is just not worth a response so I report them instead
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Oh boy...do I got a nudge for you!
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Edited by
singmesweet
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Wed 11/16/11 03:00 PM
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Big Difference between Banter/Flirting and Leading someone on. Some Women know exactly what they are doing and get off on it. Maybe they have been jilted or rejected or whatever. On the other hand, some people read into things too much and see something that's not there. So, while one person thinks they're being friendly and flirty, the other thinks there's much more there. It has definitely happened more than once on here. |
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I usually ignore nudges. I don't take the nudge thing too seriously.
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