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Mom says I cant use so many capital letters...so here goes.  What do you do about nudges?  I am a person who replies to ALL  of my emails. I think it extremely RUDE not to. Even if just to say, "no thank you", or "you creep me out".  But if its REALLY creepy, than I just block it, or write back something, WAY CREEPIER back to them. (Im good at that  ) But my problem lies in, if your not trying, to lead someone on,  but you dont want, to totally ignore them, and we dont have a, "thanks but no thanks, nudge",  WHAT DO YOU DO? Answer the damn things......ya never know what will come out of them.......at the least ya can always block em......  I always think, "if I dont answer this, I might be missing out on a good friendship, guy or girl ,(yes, I get hit on by girls) .
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Since we only have a limited selection of nudges, what I do is, for example, when I get nudges from scammers or mail-order brides, I don't respond because it is, unfortunately, the most honest way to say "thanks, but no thanks." When the person nudging is legit, I base my decision on whether to nudge - or which nudge to send - on each individual, after giving it some thought. I NEVER use the "kick in the butt" nudge........I would never really kick a woman in the butt, and as far as I know, guys don't nudge each other.......  Your NEVER gonna "kick me in the butt?". NO Kitten, I am NEVER gonna kick you in the butt.......if they had a nice little friendly slap on the butt, that would be different.... 
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Its really annoting when the person doesnt reply. Especially on this. She mailed me first n started the convo. We discussed hobbies, interest. At a point she stopped replying. After a couple of days, i kicked her in butt. There came an instant reply, '' oh am sorry hun, i got quite busy, how are you these days?'' Im assuming your talking about people, who you have already spoken to, or friends, I hear ya. Its either annoying, or you start to worry about them. 
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Mom says I cant use so many capital letters...so here goes. What do you do about nudges? I am a person who replies to ALL of my emails. I think it extremely RUDE not to. Even if just to say, "no thank you", or "you creep me out". But if its REALLY creepy, than I just block it, or write back something, WAY CREEPIER back to them. (Im good at that ) But my problem lies in, if your not trying, to lead someone on, but you dont want, to totally ignore them, and we dont have a, "thanks but no thanks, nudge", WHAT DO YOU DO? OMG, OMG, OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you for asking this question....It's one I've been wanting to ask, but couldn't figure out how to do it without sounding like a dumba$$...You did and I hope it gets a ton of response cause I want to know too!!  You so cool, you no ones fool!!   Sometimes I think we think alike, sometimes I know we do... If it wasn't for knowing it was me, I'd swear that it was you!!!!.......HA, ha, ha, ha!!! Enough already!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   and guess what? We ARE related! Your my sister, from another mothers, brothers, cousins, sisters, brothers, mothers, father. Wow, it is a small world afterall! 
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Edited by
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Sun 11/13/11 08:36 AM
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And your a jewel, when you so totally nude! Anyhow. I shall miss your capitals. Because you were the only one who used them, and one could bet his sweet god-given tooth that the sexy and inviting title will get him back to reality when he read your opening post, which was soberingly about the topic title, but from an angle that was not as saucy, or juicy, as the title had suggesated prior to reading the opening post. Whew. This was exacting both on the writer and the readers. I meant to say that if I needed a laugh I could always look for a topic title in capitals. Now I don't know where to go to a shot or two of hearty, healthy laugh. "It just the man, you know, the man is out to get cha, anyway he can, you gotta watch out, cause the man is watching, everything you do". I used to think this was the talk of a VERY paranoid person, now I think it just might be true. |
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Since we only have a limited selection of nudges, what I do is, for example, when I get nudges from scammers or mail-order brides, I don't respond because it is, unfortunately, the most honest way to say "thanks, but no thanks." When the person nudging is legit, I base my decision on whether to nudge - or which nudge to send - on each individual, after giving it some thought. I NEVER use the "kick in the butt" nudge........I would never really kick a woman in the butt, and as far as I know, guys don't nudge each other....... Your NEVER gonna "kick me in the butt?". NO Kitten, I am NEVER gonna kick you in the butt.......if they had a nice little friendly slap on the butt, that would be different.... But, but, but,.... Maybe I dont want just a nice friendly, slap on the butt. Maybe im more into the kicking thing!
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I always try to reply to emails.
If I suspect it to be a scammer, I usually just say I am not interested. |
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Edited by
wux
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Sun 11/13/11 08:47 AM
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Now, I ignore all Nudges, Friend Requests (from the unknown) and most email, unless I know them already. Just not enough time to get to them. No harm intended. There is a very neat techie Solution to this. Women get too many, men, not enough of the feelers. (Also the literal ones, too.) So I suggest that the programming engine be re-written to bounce their own feelers, nudges, pokes, etc., back to the guys, and put a woman's picture to it. A computer generated one from a composite of Bridgit Bardot, Paris Hilton, and the discards from Pam Anderson. ( To the uninitiated: She had three pairs put in and two pairs out. Took five operations, not all at once.) Perhaps include in the set Mrs. Thatcher and Mother Theresa, in order to have representation by the cruel sirene and the golden- hearted giver to make a full house. Maybe the previous day's lunch by the queen, (not the leftovers) too, to round it up to a royal flush. Then everyone is a winner. The guys won't complain about being ignored, and the women will have some breathing space, which extra time they might, just might, use up in a sort of breeding space. |
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I always try to reply to emails. If I suspect it to be a scammer, I usually just say I am not interested. Im talking about "nudges" from a total stranger.
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"It just the man, you know, the man is out to get cha, anyway he can, you gotta watch out, cause the man is watching, everything you do". That from "every breast you take" by Sting, (ouch) or from Magdalene's song from Webber's Superstar? (Jesus Christ Superstar.) |
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Now, I ignore all Nudges, Friend Requests (from the unknown) and most email, unless I know them already. Just not enough time to get to them. No harm intended. There is a very neat techie Solution to this. Women get too many, men, not enough of the feelers. (Also the literal ones, too.) So I suggest that the programming engine be re-written to bounce the their own feelers, nudges, pokes, etc., back to the guys, and put a woman's picture to it. A computer generated one from a composite of Bridgit Bardot, Paris Hilton, and the discards from Pam Anderson. ( To the uninitiated: She had three pairs put in and two pairs out. Took five operations, not all at once.) Perhaps include in the set Mrs. Thatcher and Mother Theresa, in order to have representation by the cruel sirene and the golden- hearted giver to make a full house. Maybe the previous day's lunch by the queen, (not the leftovers) too, to round it up to a royal flush. Then everyone is a winner. The guys won't complain about being ignored, and the women will have some breathing space, which extra time they might, just might, use up in a sort of breeding space.
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I always try to reply to emails. If I suspect it to be a scammer, I usually just say I am not interested. Im talking about "nudges" from a total stranger. See thats what I get for letting Barney read me the posts If its a nudge from a friend I will either nudge them back or email them or both. From a stranger more often I won't nudge them back, unless of course I feel I might be interested in them. |
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up in a sort of breeding space. And you so... embarrass me. Thank you. Okay, it takes two to tango: you are like its flower on a branch of purple lilacs in May: your scent fills every room you enter, and hearts with feelings of youth and love. There. Let's turn it into a slugfest of compliments. LET'S NOT!!! Please. Please!! I am really at a loss when I am complimented. It's a schizophrenic thing: I seek it, thirst it, and when I get it, I get this horrible urge to crawl out of my skin. |
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I always try to reply to emails. If I suspect it to be a scammer, I usually just say I am not interested. Im talking about "nudges" from a total stranger. See thats what I get for letting Barney read me the posts If its a nudge from a friend I will either nudge them back or email them or both. From a stranger more often I won't nudge them back, unless of course I feel I might be interested in them. instead of read? Then you can dictate to Barney, and not have to do all this typing?
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Sometimes no reply is a reply. I know what its like to email someone, or send them some sort of present or whatever, and not even get a "thanks", or anything. It sucks! Well it is kind of a slap in the face. But it may be better than a kick in the butt, or a sharp stick in the eye. |
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up in a sort of breeding space. And you so... embarrass me. Thank you. Okay, it takes two to tango: you are like its flower on a branch of purple lilacs in May: your scent fills every room you enter, and hearts with feelings of youth and love. There. Let's turn it into a slugfest of compliments. LET'S NOT!!! Please. Please!! I am really at a loss when I am complimented. It's a schizophrenic thing: I seek it, thirst it, and when I get it, I get this horrible urge to crawl out of my skin. Quit haten everybody, just quit haten! I cant help it if I, "smell like purple lilacs in May, and my heart, fills the room, with love, and laughter". Its just something I was born with, and unfortunately for you, it cant be taught!
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I always try to reply to emails. If I suspect it to be a scammer, I usually just say I am not interested. Im talking about "nudges" from a total stranger. See thats what I get for letting Barney read me the posts If its a nudge from a friend I will either nudge them back or email them or both. From a stranger more often I won't nudge them back, unless of course I feel I might be interested in them. instead of read? Then you can dictate to Barney, and not have to do all this typing? Because that would require him moving his little paws.You , know interfere with his naps.
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Sometimes no reply is a reply. I know what its like to email someone, or send them some sort of present or whatever, and not even get a "thanks", or anything. It sucks! Well it is kind of a slap in the face. But it may be better than a kick in the butt, or a sharp stick in the eye. You sound like a FUN date!
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I always try to reply to emails. If I suspect it to be a scammer, I usually just say I am not interested. Im talking about "nudges" from a total stranger. See thats what I get for letting Barney read me the posts If its a nudge from a friend I will either nudge them back or email them or both. From a stranger more often I won't nudge them back, unless of course I feel I might be interested in them. instead of read? Then you can dictate to Barney, and not have to do all this typing? Because that would require him moving his little paws.You , know interfere with his naps. thats right, I forgot, Confucious say: "Never awaken a sleeping dog, or you will be awakened by dog butt, in your face, tomorrow.
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I always try to reply to emails. If I suspect it to be a scammer, I usually just say I am not interested. Im talking about "nudges" from a total stranger. See thats what I get for letting Barney read me the posts If its a nudge from a friend I will either nudge them back or email them or both. From a stranger more often I won't nudge them back, unless of course I feel I might be interested in them. instead of read? Then you can dictate to Barney, and not have to do all this typing? Because that would require him moving his little paws.You , know interfere with his naps. thats right, I forgot, Confucious say: "Never awaken a sleeping dog, or you will be awakened by dog butt, in your face, tomorrow. I get that anyway.
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