Hi every one. been on this site for awhile and met some realy nice people who unfortunately live in different countries but never the less are great people who I hope to keep in touch with for many years.

Now my only problem is that I seem to be too nice for any one to want to date. Can any one tell me what I am doing wrong. I am 42,live alone and while I am not rich I live comfortable. I think all people should be treated nice and thats were my problem lies i think.

All I keep seeing is nice good looking ladies who should end up with some one who treats them nice but instead end up with guys who use them as a piece of bling on there arm.

Do woman realy want to be treated like it is the stone age or have I lost the plot. Tell you what I issue a challenge to all on this site.

I would love to date a nice looking woman who likes to be treated with respect. Some one who doe's not care to much about money and who doe's not have any hang ups about walking down the street holding hands. Some one who likes throwing the cushions on the floor and watching a good film with a nice bottle of wine. Some one who does not mind being spontanious and having a laugh over just about any thing.

This is my challenge to all on this site. Only other stipulations are that they must live in the Uk some were around norfolk area.

NOW every one if you are this person or know of some one who sounds like this person or even have a friend that has been treated badly and you want them to meet some one who can show them whats its like to be treated nice, then get them to get in touch.

Get going time starts NOW.

Gerry

PS.

Colour,creed,religion dont make any difference to me at all. But you do have to live in th UK in England...

http://mingle2.com/user/view/3121557

she doesnt live in England, Ese

not now, but she is willing to relocate

Gerry,

Forgive me but this is a crock of S!@#. Your post started off actually being a discussion topic about the genuiness of people then quickly turned into a craigslist personal ad about what you want, need and are looking for, sans picture of your privates.

So now I challenge you. Why do you feel people aren't genuine if they follow their desires when deciding whom to date?

Sincerely,

C

Norfolk? Can you not date your sister?!

Graigslist personal?

Thank God!

I thought it was going to be another "nice guy" rant.

You sound extremely frustrated. For relationship issues it would be best to search in your area. This is more of a social networking forum.

I think he was going there

but I don;t trust guys who whine about being too nice - some times nice can be very controlling (like I am nice so u have no excuse not to do what I say or date me or w/e).....so the whole "nice guy" thing is relative

guys with money can be nice yanno - I mean it's not a requirement but it is possible

You lot are all so funny..

yep there is something attractive about bad boys, but i have no idea what..

but basically if you wait and chat eventually you will meet someone who loves you for who you are.. It doesnt always happen over night but eventually it does happen, so keep chatting and just be patient

Basically everyone wants to be treated nicely and respected..

the only challenge I had with all of that was spelling and grammar...but that's just me....the rest is a no-brainer...


You are 42 and single NOT because you may or may not be a nice guy....but because you are ALL about YOU.....YOU are your favourite subject....and sadly, I do have to say....there's no room for anyone else..



that is all.

well the OP had vanished so I tend to wonder how genuine the topic really is...someday dating forums will get past nagging women and bad boys.....

honestly I have seen men do all the things he is accusing women of as far as rejecting a perfectly nice woman for a selfish biotch - just because he could? Or she was prettier? who knows why? Guys can be just as blind...w/e

it's all been said

So what do you do when you see one of those nice good looking ladies? Wait for them to nudge you? Most women would prefer the other way around. Most do like at least a bit of leadership in a guy.