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Speak for yourself, lol!
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lol yes Chrissy men in their 40's want women in their 20's plain and simple. This is because they are having a midlife thing going on, plus when they were 20 they couldn't get hot girls their age, now that they are older and have more money they can. Don't worry these men will come back around because young girls are only good for toys. Young guys want the older women because most of the young girls want the older guys with more money lol and because older women make us young guys feel like arm candy and who wouldn't love that? Just go with the flo and date young guys for a while until your older and the older guys can't get the young girls anymore lol Couldn't agree more with you. 
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women in their 20's? The majority of men who contact me are either much older or much younger. When I happen to contact a gentleman my age, I've been told they like younger. Color me confused? What's the appeal? I couldn't find my butt with both hands in my 20's. No offense intended. Can anyone enlighten me? I have found men in their 50s want girls in their 20s so the guys in their 40s doesnt surprise me.  I like a little younger, but a girl in her 20s. Heck no! I never say no based simply on age though. for me really it's about attitudes I've met women older than me that shared my outlook on life and that's what's really important. |
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women in their 20's? The majority of men who contact me are either much older or much younger. When I happen to contact a gentleman my age, I've been told they like younger. Color me confused? What's the appeal? I couldn't find my butt with both hands in my 20's. No offense intended. Can anyone enlighten me? OK here are the reasons (and they are not necessarily the same reasons why I have dated younger men - men & women are different) he fell in love with a woman who was younger and he is looking to repeat that happiness. he gets along well with younger women and all the older gals he knows are couch taters... older men and younger women are often sexually compatible - where older men may find women their age wanting sex too often as we peak much later sexually- as for why I like the younger men I have dated...they were nice to me- enjoyed me....wanted me....and I like that....imagine that.....I was permitted a bit of happiness - heaven forbid  wait, older men dont want sex as often? what a jip so the more they know about what to do with it the less they want it and the less they know about what to do with it the more they want it where does that leave the women?....lol |
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I think its more of a double standard.
A man feels a younger woman, by extension, makes him younger. A woman, especially one who has had children, probably feels a younger man is just another child to look after( I know I do anyhow). But since men are more expected to be the financial support for their children and for their spouses, they can use those roles more interchangably than women,,,,much easier to see the child and the potential mate in the same category,,,, |
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I feel like any statement on the matter would sound cliche and trite. 2 criteria...consenting adults, right?
At 36 went out with a seemingly adjusted 24yo..smart, articulate, goal-oriented, funny, artistic, sophisticated (got even the historical references and jokes). ...Until...I said, "YAH, you SHOULD go out with the girls. You haven't done that since I've met you." Somehow my lack of jealousy equated to not caring??? WTF?? |
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Dammit, it's not my age that's the problem. It's my height.  Ohhh hell then I'm screwed for I'm short and old lmao  Me too! argh!   
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Chrissy, for what it's worth when I was in my 40's I would have definitely been attracted to you. I can't be the only guy who ever went through his 40's being attracted to women in their 40's. So somewhere there's more out there.
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Edited by
DaveyB
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Sun 12/11/11 05:42 PM
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Dammit, it's not my age that's the problem. It's my height. Ohhh hell then I'm screwed for I'm short and old lmao Me too! argh! Ok, ladies, not a one of you is old, and in my book short is HOT! 
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I address this to women because the majority of complaints in this area are registered by women. While I will not date someone under 50 the men who do, usually quote the following: 1. Older women don't have the stamina of someone younger, though they claim they do. 2. While older women have wisdom that young women do not, some of the experiences of life have left bitterness: especially towards men and we feel it. 3. Older women have long laundry lists of what perspective dates must or must not be. Some of these are unrealistic. 4. Some older women try to play the "chase me" game that teens and 20 something women play. Older men will no longer put up with "hard to get". 5. A first date, sometimes, seems like a job interview or performance review. 6. While older women say they are open to new things (not talking about sex) they are, in fact, usually set in their ways just like men are. 7. Some men are only after sex. We know this, and it seems like every word we say has to be chosen very carefully because many women will always take it the wrong way. It seems like they have the "SEX" filter on. We tire of being accuse of only wanting sex. 8. Some women feel their ex-husband/last boyfriend cheated on them. They want to tell him off but he won't listen. Unfortunately it, sometimes, is vented on the next guy who wants to see them. 9. As women age some cease trying to take care of themself physically. The two complains of men who chase younger women are: ----a. Excessive weight ----b. Men like longer hair on women. The older women become the shorter they cut their hair. A few weeks ago I was shocked when a 33 year old started to flirt. Eventually I said it would seem odd to see someone my daughters age. She responded, "I've seem men in their 50's before". "Not interested". I am approached twice a month by women in their 30's. I never respond thinking they only want money. This same 33 year old emphatically responded, "not true at all". My search preferences are 53 to 64. But I will say, if older women are fishing for a man get some bate that will compete with the fish that are out their. Stop making excuses and belittling men. I couldn't find my butt with both hands in my 20's This is a slap in the face at 20 year old women. this is so very generic to men and women I won't argue with your point one bit. Men and women are both guilty of this. However, women seem to deny in a much louder level. Maybe us women have more guts to come out and say what is on our minds rather than dancing around the issue. well fact & observation are key observation that the more a man complains about older women putting on extra weight the more likely it is that he has a beer gut that won't quit many of us have had multiple pregnancies and while we can stay fit,we will look less like Twiggy and more like Venus De Milo.... it is physically impossible to alter the skeletal changes brought on by child birth. It is not physically impossible to alter a beer gut and throw away brightly colored golf slacks fact - women peak sexually in the 40s-50s. If your older woman did not have stamina u were most likely doing the missionary and boring her....speaking of fact....many younger guys have never even heard of the missionary position - charming  truth is that age matter less than compatability. There are sexually uninformed and over weight men and women of all ages heck I could stand to lose a few pounds....it's a matter of finding the one who "does it" for YOU |
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truth is that age matter less than compatability. There are sexually uninformed and over weight men and women of all ages heck I could stand to lose a few pounds....it's a matter of finding the one who "does it" for YOU I could not agree more. |
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truth is that age matter less than compatability. There are sexually uninformed and over weight men and women of all ages heck I could stand to lose a few pounds....it's a matter of finding the one who "does it" for YOU I could not agree more. what? that I could I stand to lose a few pounds???  I agree |
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Edited by
DaveyB
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Sun 12/11/11 07:34 PM
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truth is that age matter less than compatability. There are sexually uninformed and over weight men and women of all ages heck I could stand to lose a few pounds....it's a matter of finding the one who "does it" for YOU I could not agree more. what? that I could I stand to lose a few pounds??? I agree I agree with every part of your post EXCEPT that part... I on the other hand, I wouldn't mind losing another 10 or so. |
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truth is that age matter less than compatability. There are sexually uninformed and over weight men and women of all ages heck I could stand to lose a few pounds....it's a matter of finding the one who "does it" for YOU I could not agree more. what? that I could I stand to lose a few pounds??? I agree I agree with every part of your post EXCEPT that part... I on the other hand, I wouldn't mind losing another 10 or so. wanna jog with me in the mornings - or walk (as long as it's a decent pace) |
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truth is that age matter less than compatability. There are sexually uninformed and over weight men and women of all ages heck I could stand to lose a few pounds....it's a matter of finding the one who "does it" for YOU I could not agree more. what? that I could I stand to lose a few pounds??? I agree I agree with every part of your post EXCEPT that part... I on the other hand, I wouldn't mind losing another 10 or so. wanna jog with me in the mornings - or walk (as long as it's a decent pace) I would so love to have someone to walk or jog with, and I tend to walk pretty fast. |
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Just PLEASE don't giggle too much or smack your chewing gum!!!
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truth is that age matter less than compatability. There are sexually uninformed and over weight men and women of all ages heck I could stand to lose a few pounds....it's a matter of finding the one who "does it" for YOU I could not agree more. what? that I could I stand to lose a few pounds??? I agree I agree with every part of your post EXCEPT that part... I on the other hand, I wouldn't mind losing another 10 or so. wanna jog with me in the mornings - or walk (as long as it's a decent pace) I would so love to have someone to walk or jog with, and I tend to walk pretty fast. cool yes I'd like that too the best condition I was ever in in my life was when I was running 10K races with a running partner - we kept each other motivated
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Dammit, it's not my age that's the problem. It's my height. Ohhh hell then I'm screwed for I'm short and old lmao Me too! argh! Ok, ladies, not a one of you is old, and in my book short is HOT! Excellant. I am quite short.  
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Dammit, it's not my age that's the problem. It's my height. Ohhh hell then I'm screwed for I'm short and old lmao Me too! argh! Ok, ladies, not a one of you is old, and in my book short is HOT! Excellant. I am quite short. That fact had not escaped me
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