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| Topic: Pls give an advise on this relationship issue | |
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i would do nothing. its there business and I know that the more you say or try and do something about it the more they would continue to do the opposite
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Why go down the street when you can go down the hall? Oh, we're doing jokes? Sweet! Ahem… if you can't keep it in your pants, keep it in the family. eeeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww 
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What would you do if your step son is interested in your daughter? And is it a right thing to do? Pls advise. Thank you. My son was interested in my step daughter. I think she was more interested in him, personally. They were both adults. He wasn't that interested in a stable relationship at the time. She was hurt but he didn't feel it was right. He left Kentucky because he got homesick for Arkansas. She found someone else real fast. I think it was more like an infatuation for him but she was serious. It happens. |
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well ok but i would need more information to give educated advice Well many have cleared the waves that it's not bad based on location, believes and no blood ties. But they were raised and grew up together, just like blood relations If they were raised together than I believe most people would think it was wrong. If it was a combined family and they hadn't grown up in the same house then I think it would be more acceptable. Lots of stigma attached to this situation. |
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I thought it was "illegal" or whatever to date someone like that? For instance, me dating my step-sister, didn't know you could do that legally. Not saying I want to date her lol, but was using that as example.
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I thought it was "illegal" or whatever to date someone like that? For instance, me dating my step-sister, didn't know you could do that legally. Not saying I want to date her lol, but was using that as example. I guess it's legally acceptable in some places, someone just said in the thread that he married his cousin. If they were raised together than I believe most people would think it was wrong. If it was a combined family and they hadn't grown up in the same house then I think it would be more acceptable. Lots of stigma attached to this situation. I guess you can't just withstand such situation, lots of stigma and some level of immorality. But what would you to to disintegrate the 'two lovers' |
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I thought it was "illegal" or whatever to date someone like that? For instance, me dating my step-sister, didn't know you could do that legally. Not saying I want to date her lol, but was using that as example. its only illegal to marry if one is a minor or if they are biologically 'closely' related as for sex, I have not heard yet of an adult being prosecuted for having sex, so long as they didnt get paid, use an animal, or involve a minor,,, |
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Depends on the ages. If the boy i 16 and the girl 8, that could be pretty dangerous. Would never leave them alone, and if I feared for the young girl I would have to live apart for the sake of protecting the child.
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Kids are kids. Boys like girls. Girls like boys.
Most of the time. The point is, if a kid has a crush or infatuation.....it is completely natural. Trying to stop someone from liking/loving someone else is like trying to stop sun rise. |
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I thought it was "illegal" or whatever to date someone like that? For instance, me dating my step-sister, didn't know you could do that legally. Not saying I want to date her lol, but was using that as example. Obviously you never met my sister. She is freaking hawwwt. If she wasn't my sister, I woulda tried to put the moves on her. But, she is my sister...so I didn't. No one said life is fair. |
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Personally,,I riased three,,all step,,two boys and one girl,,all close in ages,,,and IF that was something I was aware of,,,I'd talk with all three of them about what sisters and brothers do and don't do,,as totheir feeling toward each other...Family LOVE has no-place for having SEX,,or the thoughts to see their other that away!
Mine were normal kids,,normal siblings,,they MAY of had their own thoughts of fantasies,,,HEY,,KIDS WILL BE KIDS? BUT,,,they never showed any of that nor ever mentioned it to each other or me or their mom...soas THAT may happen,,I would HOPE,,I seen it'sIDEA,,within them? Or that they might mention it tome in some form,,so I'd know to talk with them,,and see whats in their minds? Come-on people,,kids our kids,,can only go so far,,as a rule of Nature and ways,,or paths to SEE as a way,,,and as ALL kids will get high,,DO WE GET THEM HIGH?,,,All kids will masterbate,,DO WE WANT TO WATCH? OR SHOW THEM HOW TO? WE just know and are aware THEY WILL FIND ALL THIS OUT! But we DON'T act like its just normal and oh,,THATS COOL...WTF? I mean chiiit,,,,LINES have to be placed on whats right and whats very wrong to do ,,see,,or except ,,and ways for them to view them.. Other wise EVERY child would be banging or trying to bang their siblings,mom's dad's Aunt's Uncle's,,,and so on... Just like clothing has to be worn,,,FAMILY GUIDLINES have to be discussed and mentioned as they grow,,,so THIS never has a chance to GROW WITHIN THEM? at least THATS my real,,and my thoughts as mine all grew... |
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Kids are kids. Boys like girls. Girls like boys. Most of the time. The point is, if a kid has a crush or infatuation.....it is completely natural. Trying to stop someone from liking/loving someone else is like trying tostop sun rise. Krupa I think you need to consider the below comment.....hey Depends on the ages. If the boy i 16 and the girl 8, that could be pretty dangerous. Would never leave them alone, and if I feared for the young girl I would have to live apart for the sake of protecting the child. |
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That's good advise. I'm just glad we never had children. She was already cross eyed as a goose. Lord knows what those children would have looked like.......  Too funny! 
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That's good advise. I'm just glad we never had children. She was already cross eyed as a goose. Lord knows what those children would have looked like....... Too funny! It's funny to me too |
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give them some money and send them to a movie
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give them some money and send them to a movie Soldier don't you think that's an avenue for more intimacy between them? |
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What would you do if your step son is interested in your daughter? And is it a right thing to do? Pls advise. Thank you. I'd knock him the F' out! |
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It's pretty common in some circles for family members to marry. That's how the world got the way it is. Just in Middle Eastern countries and states like Arkansas, where Bill Clinton's from! 
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Hummm honestly they are not blood related....Even though I would try to get his attention else where... Guess it would all depend on if she is interested in him as well...  Kinda reminds me of the movie Lone Star State of Mind, where Earl(Played by Joshua Jackson) is engaged to his step sister Baby(Played by Jamie King). It's kinda the running punchline. The movie is great and funny as hell. Dj Qualls is in it also. Here is the first scene(and of of the funniest scenes in the movie), you will laugh your a$$ off! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VQX7xK_hglY |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Tue 09/20/11 04:54 AM
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