Topic: Requirements?
Sandelwood4's photo
Sun 08/14/11 10:25 PM
I prefer someone who is genuine. By that I mean, his expressions of appreciation and kindness is not conditional. That goes for all people in my life and not just in dating or romantic relationships. Being nice to someone with the intention to keep score and expecting something in return is worst than not doing anything at all.

Simonedemidova's photo
Sun 08/14/11 11:07 PM
Must be attractive, tall, employed, passionate about their skills and wants in life, ambitious and not afraid to take chances.

Check, check, check, and check...yep, i may have found just the one..flowers

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Mon 08/15/11 02:07 AM
My preference is someone who takes time to know me, good sense of humor, ambitious, spontaneous and honest..

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Mon 08/15/11 02:39 AM
flowerforyou am a guy..

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Mon 08/15/11 02:40 AM

I prefer someone who is genuine. By that I mean, his expressions of appreciation and kindness is not conditional. That goes for all people in my life and not just in dating or romantic relationships. Being nice to someone with the intention to keep score and expecting something in return is worst than not doing anything at all.

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Mon 08/15/11 03:32 AM


We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


She must be blonde, between 5'8" and 5'11", less than 160 and semi-intelligent. Blue or green eyes is preferred, have a job, an automobile, and speak decent English. No, I'm not picky :tongue:


Do you weigh them when you meet them? laugh


HawaiiMusikMan's photo
Mon 08/15/11 05:37 AM



We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


She must be blonde, between 5'8" and 5'11", less than 160 and semi-intelligent. Blue or green eyes is preferred, have a job, an automobile, and speak decent English. No, I'm not picky :tongue:


Do you weigh them when you meet them? laugh



Yes, of course. Sometimes they slap me when I do this. Not sure why?

Sandelwood4's photo
Mon 08/15/11 10:30 AM
Hi singmesweet
I just wanted to let you know that I really like your comments and responses. Not just in this thread but in general. It's very refreshing.

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Mon 08/15/11 10:49 AM

We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


Well, everybody knows mine, but I need typing practice, so here goes:

1.) No kids

2.) No drugs

3.) No alcohol

4.) Not married

5.) Must be intelligent (160 IQ or more; on a slow day I might drop the requirement to 152 or something)

6.) Must be actively involved in some sort of ongoing creative endeavor that does not involve any kind of Reality TV

7.) Must live within 6 blocks of me (8 if the weather is nice)

8.) Glasses are a plus.

9.) Must understand that I have written seven books, AND THEY ARE MY WORLD. Ah, that felt good.

s1owhand's photo
Mon 08/15/11 10:54 AM
Must Dove Logs.

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Mon 08/15/11 10:55 AM

Hi singmesweet
I just wanted to let you know that I really like your comments and responses. Not just in this thread but in general. It's very refreshing.


Thank you! That's nice to know.

Welcome to the site. I hope you enjoy it here!

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Mon 08/15/11 10:56 AM


We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


Well, everybody knows mine, but I need typing practice, so here goes:

1.) No kids

2.) No drugs

3.) No alcohol

4.) Not married

5.) Must be intelligent (160 IQ or more; on a slow day I might drop the requirement to 152 or something)

6.) Must be actively involved in some sort of ongoing creative endeavor that does not involve any kind of Reality TV

7.) Must live within 6 blocks of me (8 if the weather is nice)

8.) Glasses are a plus.

9.) Must understand that I have written seven books, AND THEY ARE MY WORLD. Ah, that felt good.



The reality tv one might be tough. laugh

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 08/15/11 11:18 AM


We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


Well, everybody knows mine, but I need typing practice, so here goes:

1.) No kids

2.) No drugs

3.) No alcohol

4.) Not married

5.) Must be intelligent (160 IQ or more; on a slow day I might drop the requirement to 152 or something)

6.) Must be actively involved in some sort of ongoing creative endeavor that does not involve any kind of Reality TV

7.) Must live within 6 blocks of me (8 if the weather is nice)

8.) Glasses are a plus.

9.) Must understand that I have written seven books, AND THEY ARE MY WORLD. Ah, that felt good.



OH, for crying out loud, I give up! laugh laugh laugh JK, You're a great guy and you should never settle...Good Luck.

ybcat1's photo
Mon 08/15/11 12:51 PM

We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


I'd love to date someone who is honest, sensitive, funny, playful, likes going places together, travelling, loves kissing and hugging, talking about anything and everything, an easy going guy with no drama in his life (like baby mama drama, or family drama), a working guy that has his own place, confident, and dependable. Cute to me would help, but I've met guys I wasn't attracted to at first, but fell for them after getting to know them because they have a good heart.

misswright's photo
Mon 08/15/11 01:47 PM

We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


Breathing, willing and able to use brain cells on a daily basis, not married and NOT a Yankee fan. All the rest is up for discussion. :thumbsup:

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Mon 08/15/11 02:45 PM


We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


I'd love to date someone who is honest, sensitive, funny, playful, likes going places together, travelling, loves kissing and hugging, talking about anything and everything, an easy going guy with no drama in his life (like baby mama drama, or family drama), a working guy that has his own place, confident, and dependable. Cute to me would help, but I've met guys I wasn't attracted to at first, but fell for them after getting to know them because they have a good heart.


Those sound more like preferences. Are they all requirements for you to date someone?

ybcat1's photo
Mon 08/15/11 04:06 PM



We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


I'd love to date someone who is honest, sensitive, funny, playful, likes going places together, travelling, loves kissing and hugging, talking about anything and everything, an easy going guy with no drama in his life (like baby mama drama, or family drama), a working guy that has his own place, confident, and dependable. Cute to me would help, but I've met guys I wasn't attracted to at first, but fell for them after getting to know them because they have a good heart.


Those sound more like preferences. Are they all requirements for you to date someone?


You're right, ok let me do this again and this time these are my requirements.

Must be first of all single, honest, caring, a christian, a gentleman, funny, (can't stand a dry guy) loves kids, working or looking for work, no drugs or smoking.

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Mon 08/15/11 04:21 PM
:thumbsup:

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Mon 08/15/11 07:51 PM

YES,,I have just ONE really...That THEY DO NOT HAVE BALLS..noway








laugh Other than THAT,,,they MIGHT have a chance with ME!!!!!


:banana: :banana: :banana: YES,,I am a bit OUT-THERE!!!


But,,,very open,,and honest!noway bigsmile drinker


is it OK to have balls if I keep them in the closet????pitchfork

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Mon 08/15/11 07:53 PM




We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?


She must be blonde, between 5'8" and 5'11", less than 160 and semi-intelligent. Blue or green eyes is preferred, have a job, an automobile, and speak decent English. No, I'm not picky :tongue:


Do you weigh them when you meet them? laugh



Yes, of course. Sometimes they slap me when I do this. Not sure why?



would subtract 5 lbs if she doesn't slap u?what