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Topic: Requirements?
Ladylid2012's photo
Sat 08/20/11 07:04 PM


I prefer someone who is genuine. By that I mean, his expressions of appreciation and kindness is not conditional. That goes for all people in my life and not just in dating or romantic relationships. Being nice to someone with the intention to keep score and expecting something in return is worst than not doing anything at all.


I thought more about this. Where does the list of requirements begin and end? Would not stealing things from me be a requirement? Of course. How about being racist? Killing, abusing people, hurting? You see, the list can go on and on. So, instead of having requirements I would rather not even get involved with anyone whom I don't resonate with.


and there ya have it drinker

ybcat1's photo
Sun 08/21/11 11:25 AM
Spell better than a 5th grader. Hard reading some of these post. slaphead

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Sun 08/21/11 11:49 AM

Spell better than a 5th grader. Hard reading some of these post. slaphead


I've been harping on this one since 1948. Doesn't ever seem to make much difference, though!

shades

78.2% of all people on dating sites are tired of dating loosers.


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Sun 08/21/11 05:01 PM

Blue eyes, a little scruff around the chin is nice. I require a strong sense of devotion towards me.


I second the strong sense of devotion - loyalty and priorities in order is a big

but as far as requirements those things- the devotion & loyalty are probably more requirements to move from friends & dating to a more intimate level, relationship level

to date all I require is attraction, manners & respect

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 08/21/11 05:32 PM


Spell better than a 5th grader. Hard reading some of these post. slaphead


I've been harping on this one since 1948. Doesn't ever seem to make much difference, though!

shades

78.2% of all people on dating sites are tired of dating loosers.




Not to mention, losers. :wink:

Ruth34611's photo
Sun 08/21/11 05:36 PM


Maybe they're tired of loose women?


I doubt it.

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Sun 08/21/11 06:53 PM
Must be a male with a job, a car and a sense of humor. Must be willing to carry a conversation because i'm shy at first, but not make me feel like i'm not able to talk. Must be my age or older.

I know the job and car probably makes me sound like a gold digger, but trust me, i'm not. I'll take care of myself, but i'm not taking care of someone else all the time!

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 08/21/11 07:13 PM

We all have preferences, but preferences change. Do you have any requirements when it comes to dating?

Breathing.
Closer to my age than to my daughter's age.
Less facial hair than me.
Can take a joke, and I'm the joke.

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Sun 08/21/11 07:14 PM

Must be a male with a job, a car and a sense of humor. Must be willing to carry a conversation because i'm shy at first, but not make me feel like i'm not able to talk. Must be my age or older.

I know the job and car probably makes me sound like a gold digger, but trust me, i'm not. I'll take care of myself, but i'm not taking care of someone else all the time!


Honey, a job and a car DOES NOT make you sound like a gold digger. It just sounds like you don;t want to raise or support the man your with. (trust me-- Its not fun "been there/done that") And a sense of humor is great can carry you through most things.
Good Luck flowerforyou

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Sun 08/21/11 07:18 PM

Must be a male with a job, a car and a sense of humor. Must be willing to carry a conversation because i'm shy at first, but not make me feel like i'm not able to talk. Must be my age or older.

I know the job and car probably makes me sound like a gold digger, but trust me, i'm not. I'll take care of myself, but i'm not taking care of someone else all the time!


Having a job and a car are very reasonable requirements. It makes sense to want to be with someone who can support himself. And no one wants to be a taxi all the time for someone else.

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Sun 08/21/11 08:05 PM
laugh


Must be a male with a job, a car and a sense of humor. Must be willing to carry a conversation because i'm shy at first, but not make me feel like i'm not able to talk. Must be my age or older.

I know the job and car probably makes me sound like a gold digger, but trust me, i'm not. I'll take care of myself, but i'm not taking care of someone else all the time!


Having a job and a car are very reasonable requirements. It makes sense to want to be with someone who can support himself. And no one wants to be a taxi all the time for someone else.


yes those are reasonable and I have them also as "hidden" requirements & didn't really list them because Iconsider them "taken for granted" - like grooming & bathing..."laugh

SilentlyScreaming's photo
Sun 08/21/11 08:31 PM


Must be a male with a job, a car and a sense of humor. Must be willing to carry a conversation because i'm shy at first, but not make me feel like i'm not able to talk. Must be my age or older.

I know the job and car probably makes me sound like a gold digger, but trust me, i'm not. I'll take care of myself, but i'm not taking care of someone else all the time!


Honey, a job and a car DOES NOT make you sound like a gold digger. It just sounds like you don;t want to raise or support the man your with. (trust me-- Its not fun "been there/done that") And a sense of humor is great can carry you through most things.
Good Luck flowerforyou


Thank you! you too!

restive42's photo
Sun 08/21/11 08:43 PM
im 19

since i was 17, have only dated women at least 5 years older than me

has worked well

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Mon 08/22/11 08:58 PM

laugh


Must be a male with a job, a car and a sense of humor. Must be willing to carry a conversation because i'm shy at first, but not make me feel like i'm not able to talk. Must be my age or older.

I know the job and car probably makes me sound like a gold digger, but trust me, i'm not. I'll take care of myself, but i'm not taking care of someone else all the time!


Having a job and a car are very reasonable requirements. It makes sense to want to be with someone who can support himself. And no one wants to be a taxi all the time for someone else.


yes those are reasonable and I have them also as "hidden" requirements & didn't really list them because Iconsider them "taken for granted" - like grooming & bathing..."laugh


The car thing is going to depend on where you live. I live about 30 miles from DC and many people in DC do not have cars. I couldn't seriously date anyone without a car, though, as I don't live close enough to that city and don't live near public transportation. So, I do have to be specific about that requirement at times.

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Mon 08/22/11 08:58 PM

im 19

since i was 17, have only dated women at least 5 years older than me

has worked well


So, it's a requirement that anyone you date must be at least 5 years older?

prashant01's photo
Wed 08/24/11 10:42 AM

They have to be single, be able to support themselves.....and live within driving distance.....and have a sense of humor....bigsmile


How many do u wish to have honey?:wink:

Sandelwood4's photo
Sat 08/27/11 09:55 PM


They have to be single, be able to support themselves.....and live within driving distance.....and have a sense of humor....bigsmile


How many do u wish to have honey?:wink:

That's what I was thinking too.smile2

prashant01's photo
Sun 08/28/11 11:09 AM



They have to be single, be able to support themselves.....and live within driving distance.....and have a sense of humor....bigsmile


How many do u wish to have honey?:wink:

That's what I was thinking too.smile2


U too are a GENIUS!! (Like me:wink: )rofl rofl rofl rofl rofl

twinwhitney's photo
Sun 08/28/11 08:27 PM
i would have to agree!!!!

Simonedemidova's photo
Mon 08/29/11 09:09 AM
Must be willing to watch Reality TV with me...LOL

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