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| Topic: The 90 day rule according to Steve Harvey. | |
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If you are attracted to someone and it happens right away, then obviously the attraction is mutual. If a friendship blossoms first that is even better. But if one person has a goal of remaining friends only when the other party is searching for a love relationship and not willing to settle for just a friendship then their friendship is in vein. Some people are not looking for friends. I have plenty of friends. Sometimes people want to find a great lover who is emotionally compatible as well. i dont really look for guys who are just my friend...if it starts that way and doesnt progress it will probably end sooner or later. I am loyal and tend to not hang out with guys out of respect to my partner anyways. Understandable. My point of view is not one of limiting myself to friendship, its just one of shooting for friendship. Kind of like how I shot for my associates first and then will go for my bachelors. But the associates had to be there so I had at least SOMETHING if I didnt end up with a bachelor. I view relationships the same. I need to shoot for the friendship, and if romance doesnt happen, Im still not left with NOTHING because I made the friendship I was shooting for. If a romance does happen, than I still have that friendship and a little 'extra'. |
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I have had plenty of guys friends in my life, most with hidden motives. some true friends. But My time with them would probably be at a house party where my significant other is present. I would not appreciate my boyfriend out to lunch with another women alone, unless it was work related and forced. But if my partner has free time outside of work i would love some time with him.. If he wants time with his guy friends Im cool with that too...but giving up time with me for another female...i will not agree to that. I dont care if she is a lez, Men are looking at boobs, period. My man, my boobs. And I give them the very same respect. I go out with my girls and if other guys around i assume its a double date...my man will be there with me. (excludin clubs and stuff) but i meant scheduling time with a "guy friend" would be with him and his "girlfriend" me and my boyfriend... In the immortal words of MC REN.. "it don't matter just don't bite it". Yeah, they will be looking anyways, but when moms not around the kids will play, temptations are stronger when there is no-one around to remind you what you already have.. |
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Enough with the personal attacks back and forth. If it continues, warnings will be sent. Please stay on topic and away from commenting personally against each other. Site Moderator Pam ^ What THIS person said. Matchmakers, hmmmm. I get the feeling they like to control other people's relationships, rather than concentrate on their own love life. I don't take well to that idea. Rules, well i like to get to know someone slowly and carefully. Btw i think it's really pathetic that a bunch of supposed "adults" are arguing on here. Why not just ban them now? It would save trouble and negative energy. Really pathetic. That explains why half of em can't find a date. |
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^ What THIS person said. Matchmakers, hmmmm. I get the feeling they like to control other people's relationships, rather than concentrate on their own love life. I don't take well to that idea. Rules, well i like to get to know someone slowly and carefully. Btw i think it's really pathetic that a bunch of supposed "adults" are arguing on here. Why not just ban them now? It would save trouble and negative energy. Really pathetic. That explains why half of em can't find a date. No need to insult people just because you disagree with what they've said. And asking for them to be banned because you don't like what they've said is uncalled for. |
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Edited by
Simonedemidova
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Fri 08/19/11 08:55 AM
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Enough with the personal attacks back and forth. If it continues, warnings will be sent. Please stay on topic and away from commenting personally against each other. Site Moderator Pam ^ What THIS person said. Matchmakers, hmmmm. I get the feeling they like to control other people's relationships, rather than concentrate on their own love life. I don't take well to that idea. Rules, well i like to get to know someone slowly and carefully. Btw i think it's really pathetic that a bunch of supposed "adults" are arguing on here. Why not just ban them now? It would save trouble and negative energy. Really pathetic. That explains why half of em can't find a date. i THINK IT'S FUNNY. Lots of single people on here and we wonder why? Also lots of sensitive people on here... Cant we discuss things like mature human beings without being so offended. everyone is entitled to their own opinions and people need not to take things so PERSONALLY.. (not referring to you SHY, i am saying in general.) Mods have to respond to probably all the emails they get by every person who gets offended. people who start their own threads and then request to shut them down when they dont get answers they want... |
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I haven't read the entire thread, no need.
I don't do 'rules' well, never have. Won't be starting now! |
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