" I, _____, take you, ______, to be my wedded husband. For years I have prayed that God would lead me to a fool like you and I am confident that His will is being fulfilled today. With deepest joy I will take you for everything you got from this day on. As you have pledged to me your life, love and your house, so I too happily give you my promise that one day you will regret this day for the rest of your life…………………………………… "

Really fellows don't you agree that wives start lying to their husbands at the altar, then they just get better at it with time.

Well the good news is that once the first wife takes it all the second one has to marry you for love because lord knows there is nothing left in the kitty!

This made me laugh out loud. Thanks I needed that.
So now let me fire the first volley.

OP: NO, it is not just women that do that. It is a two way street. Some of both sexes are guilty of that game.

Men are guilty of it just as much.

I think the vows are usually fairly equivalent in what each party 'promises' the other

amongst those are things like 'cherish', 'honor' , 'respect' , 'forsake all others'



much like a con artist who may enter into contracts with no intention of delivering their end, many enter into marriage with the same lack of intention,,,(regardless of gender)

Umm Mike, Just so you know. Some men are just as bad if not worse. I have been cheated on, lied to, abused, taken for granted, used for my money by men. So just for the record.....It happens to both sexes dear.
My advice to you is. Don't give up and keep looking. There are lots of people that would NEVER do bad things to their partners, even when its been done to them lots of times.
Good Luck!!

Of course you are right Mike..

I promised to love and honour my first husband, and obviously I was lying, and that is why he ran off with someone, thankfully I kept the house, which I had owned fully by myself paid for by me with no help from him. since he was broke..

Hmmm now the second man i married i also promised to love and honour, so for 15 years I supported him through drug and alcohol addiction, paid his debts, and eventually did let go of my home and everything to walk away , leaving his debts to everyone including his parents paid in full..
However, I can look back and honestly say that there is nothing I regret, and I did nothing yucky to hurt him or anyone else..

Sooooooooooo, I would have to say that maybe you should just move on, like others do,
Yes we wil meet fair dinkum drongo's who will take and take and never give.

Yep we will be hurt trodden on and taken advantage of..

But honestly if you cannot come away from it thankful for what you have learnt and still see the good in people, then I feel bvery sorry for you..

You are always going to be expecting lies and so you will probably stop anyone from getting close enough to ever really love you..

Life will only ever be what you make it, so take what you have and move on..

Oh and since I an a women and you are basically calling me a lier, if you said something like that seriously to my face, i would quiet happyly slap you, and I am being nice by slapping you as I think people who judge randomly would be better thrown to the crocs to see how fast they can swim.. honestly I didnt even lie to my kids about santa claus..

And I definately would not accuse all men of lying , just because I made poor decision when I choose my partners..

Perhaps you should look at what has drawn you to women who do lie..

this is why the men die before the women

hatefulness is unhealthy....

true

AMEN!

Men die before the women because they are no longer afraid of hell so they are ready to take the chance...lol

OP, your misogynistic view of women clearly shows why you are still single. Your spouting of woman hating rhetoric at least allows women on this dating site to identify you and leave you alone.

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omg ya'll crack me up. i really can't comment so much on this as i have never married. I just hope that it is not true lol, i do not ever wanna be in that relationship of feeling imprisoned, be who you are and love someone for themselves. Never forget nor under appreciate who you are blessed to have. And if the relationship does not feel like a blessing then why are you in it........

Funny, I seem to be the one still paying on some of the stuff the ex-boyfriend did.