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Topic: Nice Guys
msharmony's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:00 PM
There are all types of dating sites online

for the elite, for the rich, for interracial, for booty calls, for asians, for latinas, for phillipine, for over forty, for college students,,,etc,,,


where is the dating site for 'nice guys'? Im working on it as we speak, I never imagined it would be so hard to find even one....


until then,, NICE GUYS,, where are you at? Post your story and be counted......



ujGearhead's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:02 PM
So, you're implying that so far, every guy you've come across on dating sites aren't "nice"?spock

Totage's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:04 PM
Edited by Totage on Sat 07/02/11 07:05 PM
Nice guys finish... in the shower.

I'm actually working on a new dating/social site myself. I'm developing the forum script myself for that site as well as another one of my sites. It will be a while before it's done though.

msharmony's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:05 PM

So, you're implying that so far, every guy you've come across on dating sites aren't "nice"?spock



lol,,, NOOOOOOO

I am stating that in searching for a dating site for 'nice guys' , I couldnt find one,,,,lol

Im puzzled because I know there are plenty of good guys out there, perhaps too shy to initiate things in public, and its as good a market as any,,,,,

msharmony's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:06 PM

Nice guys finish... in the shower.

I'm actually working on a new dating/social site myself. I'm developing the forum script myself for that site as well as another one of my sites. It will be a while before it's done though.



cool totage, nice to meet some of our 'competition'...lol

Totage's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:07 PM
That's very kind of you to consider mine competition. lol

scttggry81's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:08 PM
Fortunately/Unforunately I am tabbed as a "nice guy". Of course take it as you will, I can be a real a-hole when my back is against the wall.

My story is pretty simple... I was brought up with values, one of which was chivalry. If my mom were to ever see or hear of me treating a woman improperly she would smack me silly, then do it again after I recovered to remind me. The sad side of that story is I have only ever met one woman that appreciated it, but we spent so much time apart when we were "together" that I changed into a guy she didn't fall in love with. Since then all I attract are the liars, cheaters, and crazies...

Women talk about wanting to meet the "nice guy" but remember, some guys are looking for the "nice girl" as well...

As for starting a "nice guy" site, how would you weed out the real "nice guys" from the ones putting on an act to find a way into that market? What are the qualifying traits of being a "nice guy"?

no photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:14 PM
There are nice guys i have as friends. So they do exist. Just that some already have a lover. Sucks doesn't it? :( lol

RKISIT's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:17 PM


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msharmony's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:22 PM

Fortunately/Unforunately I am tabbed as a "nice guy". Of course take it as you will, I can be a real a-hole when my back is against the wall.

My story is pretty simple... I was brought up with values, one of which was chivalry. If my mom were to ever see or hear of me treating a woman improperly she would smack me silly, then do it again after I recovered to remind me. The sad side of that story is I have only ever met one woman that appreciated it, but we spent so much time apart when we were "together" that I changed into a guy she didn't fall in love with. Since then all I attract are the liars, cheaters, and crazies...

Women talk about wanting to meet the "nice guy" but remember, some guys are looking for the "nice girl" as well...

As for starting a "nice guy" site, how would you weed out the real "nice guys" from the ones putting on an act to find a way into that market? What are the qualifying traits of being a "nice guy"?



Because I am sincere in seeing this happen, I dont care about sharing my ideas,, it wont matter if I do it or someone else as long as its done

my idea was a site something like facebook(of course not that big), where the idea is that the profiles are of 'nice' guys

the catch would be that they would be 'rated' by video endorsements

that is, once the profile is up, they would have to have 'video' endorsements from ex's, friends, relatives, coworkers or whomever

sharing a story about how 'nice' a guy they really were,, the more such endorsements they have, the higher rank they would have and the more in front their profiles would be,,,there would also be cool surveys they could take where their responses would be viewable

Totage's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:24 PM
Sounds interesting, shouldn't be too hard to develop something like that. Is this still just and idea or have you started developing it yet?

no photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:25 PM
Since I'm such a "nice guy" and it'd mean the world to be to get counted, My story is as follows: For starters I'm in dead-end job and actively seeking a dumpy neurotic for mutual psychological torture, tepid sex, and co-dependency. I enjoy drinking, smoking, pornography, and self-righteous indignation.

I can't stand movies, and I consequently have middling intelligence, but try to appear smarter by affecting a world-weary air, memorizing useless facts, and chuckling at my own mean-spirited, agenda-driven jokes.

I'm 30, but look 40 and feel 50. If you're a whiny, bitter shrew with a misplaced sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations... in time you will become coolly hostile when I don't fulfill every unmet need you've ever had. Bonus points if you just finished screwing every guy in town and but now want to take it slow with me.

Since I've been online a while and no woman realizes that a perfect night out would include getting hammered in a sleazy bar while they flirt with seedy old drunks, followed by an embarrassing screaming match. I would be open to an unsatisfying fling that leaves me filled with regret and dread but prefer a long-term, soul crushing descent into booze and pills.

Age is unimportant, but I will condescend to women under 25 and rehash mother issues with women over 45, so "nice girls" I'm waiting...

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Sat 07/02/11 07:32 PM



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laugh

Well now we know.



What do you mean by nice guy?
Cos when i mentioned knowing a few in my last post, i meant they have a sweet personality. It also depends where you go, which environments/places you spend time in, in your everyday life. They don't go to nightclubs, that's one place they don't go. I can't imagine a "nice guy" hanging in the ghetto area's of town. More like a skate park, or somewhere peaceful.

txmomof2's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:43 PM
Sounds very interesting

RKISIT's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:43 PM




<-------not a nice guy






<-------not a nice guy


laugh

Well now we know.



What do you mean by nice guy?
Cos when i mentioned knowing a few in my last post, i meant they have a sweet personality. It also depends where you go, which environments/places you spend time in, in your everyday life. They don't go to nightclubs, that's one place they don't go. I can't imagine a "nice guy" hanging in the ghetto area's of town. More like a skate park, or somewhere peaceful.
i'm not a nice guy cause i don't let women walk over me or allow them to use me as a door mat,i'm a straight shooter,tell it like it is man.Sometimes though my straight shootin can end up anywhere

msharmony's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:48 PM

Sounds interesting, shouldn't be too hard to develop something like that. Is this still just and idea or have you started developing it yet?



its still in the idea stage, ,,,

msharmony's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:49 PM





<-------not a nice guy






<-------not a nice guy


laugh

Well now we know.



What do you mean by nice guy?
Cos when i mentioned knowing a few in my last post, i meant they have a sweet personality. It also depends where you go, which environments/places you spend time in, in your everyday life. They don't go to nightclubs, that's one place they don't go. I can't imagine a "nice guy" hanging in the ghetto area's of town. More like a skate park, or somewhere peaceful.
i'm not a nice guy cause i don't let women walk over me or allow them to use me as a door mat,i'm a straight shooter,tell it like it is man.Sometimes though my straight shootin can end up anywhere



what you describe is a 'weak' guy, ,hardly attractive to anyone not looking to use someone


Nice guys are attractive because of their integrity, sincerity, compassion and manners

weak guys are not attractive(in my opinion)

RKISIT's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:53 PM






<-------not a nice guy






<-------not a nice guy


laugh

Well now we know.



What do you mean by nice guy?
Cos when i mentioned knowing a few in my last post, i meant they have a sweet personality. It also depends where you go, which environments/places you spend time in, in your everyday life. They don't go to nightclubs, that's one place they don't go. I can't imagine a "nice guy" hanging in the ghetto area's of town. More like a skate park, or somewhere peaceful.
i'm not a nice guy cause i don't let women walk over me or allow them to use me as a door mat,i'm a straight shooter,tell it like it is man.Sometimes though my straight shootin can end up anywhere



what you describe is a 'weak' guy, ,hardly attractive to anyone not looking to use someone


Nice guys are attractive because of their integrity, sincerity, compassion and manners

weak guys are not attractive(in my opinion)
msharmony with intergrity,sincerity,compassion and manners theres a man,not a nice guy

msharmony's photo
Sat 07/02/11 07:59 PM







<-------not a nice guy






<-------not a nice guy


laugh

Well now we know.



What do you mean by nice guy?
Cos when i mentioned knowing a few in my last post, i meant they have a sweet personality. It also depends where you go, which environments/places you spend time in, in your everyday life. They don't go to nightclubs, that's one place they don't go. I can't imagine a "nice guy" hanging in the ghetto area's of town. More like a skate park, or somewhere peaceful.
i'm not a nice guy cause i don't let women walk over me or allow them to use me as a door mat,i'm a straight shooter,tell it like it is man.Sometimes though my straight shootin can end up anywhere



what you describe is a 'weak' guy, ,hardly attractive to anyone not looking to use someone


Nice guys are attractive because of their integrity, sincerity, compassion and manners

weak guys are not attractive(in my opinion)
msharmony with intergrity,sincerity,compassion and manners theres a man,not a nice guy


IM just telling you how I view a nice guy,,not everyone sees it the same way

there are insincere guys, and incompassionate guys, and ill mannered guys,, all still guys,, in my opinion

but the nice guy,,, one of a kind special

navygirl's photo
Sat 07/02/11 08:00 PM





<-------not a nice guy




<-------not a nice guy


laugh

Well now we know.

What do you mean by nice guy?
Cos when i mentioned knowing a few in my last post, i meant they have a sweet personality. It also depends where you go, which environments/places you spend time in, in your everyday life. They don't go to nightclubs, that's one place they don't go. I can't imagine a "nice guy" hanging in the ghetto area's of town. More like a skate park, or somewhere peaceful.

i'm not a nice guy cause i don't let women walk over me or allow them to use me as a door mat,i'm a straight shooter,tell it like it is man.Sometimes though my straight shootin can end up anywhere


Good for you. Need more guys out there like that.
:thumbsup:

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