Topic: Nice Guys
ujGearhead's photo
Sat 07/02/11 08:01 PM




<-------not a nice guy






<-------not a nice guy


laugh

Well now we know.



What do you mean by nice guy?
Cos when i mentioned knowing a few in my last post, i meant they have a sweet personality. It also depends where you go, which environments/places you spend time in, in your everyday life. They don't go to nightclubs, that's one place they don't go. I can't imagine a "nice guy" hanging in the ghetto area's of town. More like a skate park, or somewhere peaceful.


Nice guys can't hang in the ghetto??? Why not??? Or is there some stereotype that only 'tough arseholes' go to those areas? Stereotype being the key word there....... When you think of a ghetto you think of some poor guy that's 'not so nice'? From experience, on both accounts.......FAIL!!!!!! Possibly drifting off a bit, but still relevant, does that mean that BMW driving, name brand silk wearing, clean cut guys that you couldn't imagine 'in the ghetto' are all "nice guys"???? Believe me, I know a LOT of people from just about every 'classification' (if you really want to go there) and a LARGE percentage of the 'nicest guys' I know are those 'typical whoa ) BIG, long haired, leather clad biker guys that you'd THINK would chop you up into pieces and then eat you just because you smelled funny.

"Skate park"? You mean, for skate boards? I thought those vaporized in the 80's? Or roller/ice? Either way...... Where you hang has NOTHING to do if you're nice....

RickToddIII's photo
Sat 07/02/11 08:11 PM
im nice :)

msharmony's photo
Sat 07/02/11 08:13 PM
nice photo

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Sat 07/02/11 08:21 PM
Actual nice guys don't go around telling everyone they're nice guys.

The "nice guys" who whine about finishing last all the time aren't actually nice guys.


msharmony's photo
Sat 07/02/11 08:23 PM
nice guys hurt too,,lol

I am ASKING those who are nice guys to say so,, ,,,

MzCat73's photo
Sat 07/02/11 08:26 PM

There are all types of dating sites online

for the elite, for the rich, for interracial, for booty calls, for asians, for latinas, for phillipine, for over forty, for college students,,,etc,,,


where is the dating site for 'nice guys'? Im working on it as we speak, I never imagined it would be so hard to find even one....


until then,, NICE GUYS,, where are you at? Post your story and be counted......





i'd love to push the 'like' button on this LOL

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Sat 07/02/11 08:28 PM
yes, Goodluck with that, I have been looking for nice and intelligent guys for years...and I am still looking...so yes, if any nice and intelligent men read this, please contact me, within the next hour as then I will be going out to the stables to feed my pet Unicorns, thank you ;)

Chazster's photo
Sat 07/02/11 08:29 PM
All nice guys learn that nice guys finish last so we try really hard to stop being nice guys. Its the womens fault for always saying they want nice guys but never going for them.

Totage's photo
Sat 07/02/11 08:31 PM

yes, Goodluck with that, I have been looking for nice and intelligent guys for years...and I am still looking...so yes, if any nice and intelligent men read this, please contact me, within the next hour as then I will be going out to the stables to feed my pet Unicorns, thank you ;)


Intelligent... I knew there was something I was missing. ohwell

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Sat 07/02/11 08:41 PM

All nice guys learn that nice guys finish last so we try really hard to stop being nice guys. Its the womens fault for always saying they want nice guys but never going for them.


Whining about nice guys finishing last doesn't make someone a nice guy. Those kind of self proclaimed nice guys really aren't nice. They're whiny and want sympathy.

Chazster's photo
Sat 07/02/11 08:48 PM


All nice guys learn that nice guys finish last so we try really hard to stop being nice guys. Its the womens fault for always saying they want nice guys but never going for them.


Whining about nice guys finishing last doesn't make someone a nice guy. Those kind of self proclaimed nice guys really aren't nice. They're whiny and want sympathy.


Whose whining? Ever seen The Mask. The dude said the line nice guys finish last. I was just expanding on that. I have a girl and I am just poking fun at girls. Its not a secret girls date jerks. I have an older sister and she did it all the time. Then she would come into my room after a date and tell me how guys sucked. rofl

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Sat 07/02/11 08:53 PM
Who is whining? Wait until the next nice guy thread and I'm sure you can answer your own question. laugh


RKISIT's photo
Sat 07/02/11 09:04 PM






<-------not a nice guy




<-------not a nice guy


laugh

Well now we know.

What do you mean by nice guy?
Cos when i mentioned knowing a few in my last post, i meant they have a sweet personality. It also depends where you go, which environments/places you spend time in, in your everyday life. They don't go to nightclubs, that's one place they don't go. I can't imagine a "nice guy" hanging in the ghetto area's of town. More like a skate park, or somewhere peaceful.

i'm not a nice guy cause i don't let women walk over me or allow them to use me as a door mat,i'm a straight shooter,tell it like it is man.Sometimes though my straight shootin can end up anywhere


Good for you. Need more guys out there like that.
:thumbsup:
as long as there is simplicity,where a woman and i have no revulsion and have a connection,it's all good

c91827's photo
Sat 07/02/11 09:09 PM
There are more nice guys out there than jerks the problem is you are not noticing them because they are boring. Instead you want an interesting guy with an edge that can keep you stimulated.

This nice guy thing is no more than a phase that will pass. Even if you do decide to give a nice guy a chance you will end up bored and leave him for a guy like me who will make you get your own towel to wipe off your stomach.

kre8karma's photo
Sat 07/02/11 09:23 PM

Since I'm such a "nice guy" and it'd mean the world to be to get counted, My story is as follows: For starters I'm in dead-end job and actively seeking a dumpy neurotic for mutual psychological torture, tepid sex, and co-dependency. I enjoy drinking, smoking, pornography, and self-righteous indignation.

I can't stand movies, and I consequently have middling intelligence, but try to appear smarter by affecting a world-weary air, memorizing useless facts, and chuckling at my own mean-spirited, agenda-driven jokes.

I'm 30, but look 40 and feel 50. If you're a whiny, bitter shrew with a misplaced sense of entitlement and unrealistic expectations... in time you will become coolly hostile when I don't fulfill every unmet need you've ever had. Bonus points if you just finished screwing every guy in town and but now want to take it slow with me.

Since I've been online a while and no woman realizes that a perfect night out would include getting hammered in a sleazy bar while they flirt with seedy old drunks, followed by an embarrassing screaming match. I would be open to an unsatisfying fling that leaves me filled with regret and dread but prefer a long-term, soul crushing descent into booze and pills.

Age is unimportant, but I will condescend to women under 25 and rehash mother issues with women over 45, so "nice girls" I'm waiting...
That did it.



I especially liked the co-dependency thing. You like that, too, right?
Where do I send my application?

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Sat 07/02/11 09:25 PM

There are more nice guys out there than jerks the problem is you are not noticing them because they are boring. Instead you want an interesting guy with an edge that can keep you stimulated.

This nice guy thing is no more than a phase that will pass. Even if you do decide to give a nice guy a chance you will end up bored and leave him for a guy like me who will make you get your own towel to wipe off your stomach.


So you're basically saying that the jerks are the interesting guys? I don't agree with that.

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Sat 07/02/11 09:31 PM
I've been looking for a nice guy all my life. The only nice guys I know are taken. I seem to attract the guys who act nice until you're hooked, then they act like themselves.

If being nice to a woman is boring, then give me boring!

c91827's photo
Sat 07/02/11 09:32 PM
The nice guys are not getting laid. If they are so interesting why don't you explain it for us.

Totage's photo
Sat 07/02/11 09:36 PM
There's a lot of boring a-holes too.

c91827's photo
Sat 07/02/11 09:37 PM
It's a cause and effect thing where a guy who isn't getting laid will walk over hot coals for you but once he starts getting some action he really doesn't need to try so hard.